"Forrest Gump" should be a classic movie that most people have seen. It tells the life experience of the male protagonist Forrest Gump. But today, I want to talk about the character of Jenny purely emotionally.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > childhood shadows can cause irrevocable damage</h1>
Looking at Jenny from the perspective of the audience, she is actually a sad setting. When she was a child, she was domestically abused and even violated by her alcoholic father, although it was not directly broadcast in the film, but it can be seen from many places in the film that it is only described from the perspective of a simple and naïve and young Forrest Gump, so it is more obscure.
Thus causing her to have late problems with distrust of men, freedom, indulgence, sensitivity, etc., promiscuity, and even drug use. He eventually died of AIDS.
This involves the problem of the impact of the psychological effects of childhood on human growth. Children, how to protect themselves from being violated? In today's society, the sexual assault cases and all kinds of incidents of molesting young girls that have just appeared are too sinister for people to prevent. Sexual education should really be put on the surface. No criminals can do it, only we can't think of it.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > people are clean and bright at first</h1>
In the early days, Jenny was actually kind, on the school bus, no one wanted to sit with Forrest Gump, who had an IQ of only 75, and only Jenny took the initiative to ask him to sit over. No one wants to be friends with Forrest Gump, but she doesn't mind his difference.
In the beginning of man, nature is good. You can't laugh at other people because they are physically deficient. Some people are physically intact, but their souls are mutilated. Jenny's kindness to Forrest Gump is actually a contrast, and she sees the simple beauty from Forrest Gump. It is also the most loyal to rely on. People will always yearn for what they don't have, and they will yearn for a certain mentality.
No matter who it is, it is easy to be attracted to the characteristics that they do not have, which is called a complementary mentality. It's like a blend of water and fire. But they also have boundaries, so Jenny always runs away from Forrest Gump.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > Different encounters have different effects on life</h1>
In fact, this movie is very realistic, unlike many Mary Sue movies now, the end is silly white and sweet, Jenny's positioning is very accurate. Her innocence and kindness were only shown to Forrest Gump, but at the same time, she was also the most cruel to Forrest Gump, leaving him several times. On the one hand, it is his own psychological reasons, on the other hand, it is because he is not willing to fall in love with Forrest Gump, a "special" person.
Often people who have undergone special tribulations, their personalities will be changed, even distorted, special outlook on life, special ethics, special morality, negative events lead to negative emotions, negative emotions lead to irrational behavior.
Acts like Jenny's extremism, depravity, and escape from this series of behaviors are actually very much in line with the current view of the word "scumbag". A large part of the audience felt that Forrest Gump was actually a "spare tire" for Jenny. Maybe we can't see the world from the perspective of what people like her experience. Put yourself in the shoes of you, what do you think you will live like?
Although what you see is a movie, in reality, there are still so many "Jenny". Although the conditions were different at first, the consequences were all emotional. For example, the hottest news now, Bao Mouming's sexual assault on his adopted daughter Li Xingxing incident, it is difficult to ensure that Li Xingxing's state after that will not evolve into the next Jenny.
This is not alarmist, but what is likely to happen.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >what if this happens? </h1>
That day I accidentally asked my husband: "What if I am raped?" ”
The husband basically answered in an instant: "If there was no way to escape at that time, don't resist extremely, it is important to save your life, and then immediately go to the police." ”
Of course, you would say that this is not experienced to be so understated. Emotionally, people certainly can't accept it. But what about standing on human life? As a person who has been hurt, do you have to resist desperately, regardless of life and death?
The protection of this society against this vulnerable group that has been violated is too weak, and there are still a large number of people, conservative, feudal, good face, and even spit poison arrows. Compared with the intuitive damage, this blunt knife cutting flesh injury may be more serious.
If a man falls into the water, it does not matter whether he swims well or not, he has to struggle to get out anyway, or he will drown. - Maugham
Avoiding harm is one thing, but in the real case of such a disaster, it is inevitable to seek the help of the police and the state. Because we are just ordinary ordinary people in the world, fighting, need absolute protection. It may be that many times it is not satisfactory and cannot be comprehensive. But what should be done, we have to do.
The psychological counseling in the later stage is also very important, you can change a place to live, you can find relatives to talk to, you can find friends to vent. No matter how big things are, they have survived, and they have passed. In the future life, there will be many more beautiful things waiting for you. Once bitten by a snake, ten years of fear of the well rope state, there is no way to live well.
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > ending</h1>
As a classic movie, "Forrest Gump" inevitably has many classic lines. One of them is one of my favorites and the oneSure I want to say the most
You have got to put the past behind you before you can move on.
Let go of the baggage and move on.
@ Fengya Fengya song: Not to say anything vigorous and upward, but there are indeed many people, because this kind of event has been ruined for a lifetime, the knife will not hurt if it is not cut on the body, I can only say, I hope that all the people who have suffered this misfortune can get out of the predicament as soon as possible. Your good life is the best response to the people who love you, and the greatest revenge for the people who hurt you.