preface:
In the relationship, what we are most afraid of is that the other half is unfaithful to himself, and the mouth is actually doing another set,
It will make us very miserable, but we have to know that not everyone is so lucky.
Not everyone will encounter their own true destiny.
Therefore, many women will slowly lose their way in love and will not want to have plans to get married.
In fact, we can't be partial to the whole, there will be good men with bad men, what we need is to learn to see people,
Men without characterization, they will not be single-minded towards a woman, in what they think is very beautiful in a world of flowers and greenery.
He is not very careful about feelings, at this moment he just wants to play with you, and he just treats you as a spare tire.
As long as women don't make flowers, they can feel whether men like themselves or not.
Because the man who loves you will not abandon you for trouble and will not dislike you for much.
Men love you seriously with you or treat you as a spare tire, in fact, the performance is completely different,
Men who love you are willing to be nice to you all the time and even willing to give everything for themselves.
On the contrary, men who don't love you are just good to you in their mouths, and they will choose to withdraw when they encounter things,
Then you're the spare tire man whose manager is not on you at all,
Therefore, at this time, women will feel the gain and loss.
Men who treat you like spare tires are shameful, and they won't end up getting good rewards.
1. Ambiguous attitude
Often scumbags will give people a feeling that they do not accept or reject, they are deliberately consuming you.
Never offer to give you a positive attitude, so that's how many women feel that the relationship is very floaty.
You know, if a person doesn't like you, he will naturally reject you outright.
Doing so is also responsible for you and will not hurt you too much,
People who like you won't do this to make you wait too long, because of the same fear of loss,
On the contrary, they will actively approach you and your heart will be stable.
If two people in the process of getting along, the man is always attractive, accept your good but there is no response,
It was as if it had been thrown into the sea without even setting off a single wave.
If we meet such people around us, we must stay away because they are just that you are a spare tire and do not like you.
2. Hot and cold
There is a kind of person who is hot and cold to you, and it will also bring us a lot of fantasies,
In fact, at this moment, we have to know that the other party does not like such behavior,
It is also because it does not matter that you will not care about your feelings, so women do not blindly wait in place,
Truly liking a person can't be hot and cold, even if the two sides are angry and cold, they will think of each other in their hearts.
If a person is sometimes cold to you and sometimes hot to you, then it must be kept away,
The other person doesn't really like you but is bored and feels like you're stupid.
3. Don't take you to see his friends
Two people just starting to get along carefully together, we can all understand,
But not taking you to meet friends after a long time together is always looking for heavier reasons,
Such a man will treat you as a spare tire character and do not want to share his happiness with others.
This kind of person always leaves a way back for himself in the hope that he can find a more suitable other half.
4. There is an intimate opposite sex on the side
We all know that there is very little pure friendship between men and women,
No matter how we have another half, we must keep our distance from the opposite sex, which is respect for our other half.
If you find that the other half around you has intimate contact with the opposite sex, then be careful at this time,
In many cases, this kind of man or woman often treats you as a spare tire.
Because loving someone is not a way to be distracted and will not be willing to accept others.
Everyone should know that the person who treats you as a spare tire will not be close to you, nor will it be far away from you.
They are always where you can see, it's just that you can't easily touch and see.
I believe that everyone can feel whether the other half loves themselves if they carefully experience it in their feelings.
Conclusion:
Eason Chan has a song that sings: "What you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear." ”
People who treat others as spare tires will have nothing sooner or later,
Because although this life is long, it is difficult to find someone who truly loves himself.
If you miss it, you really miss it, and it is useless to think of it.
The real can never be fake, the fake can never be true, so it is very clear that you can see this truth clearly,
Love that cannot withstand the test of time and things cannot be long-lasting, and it is responsible for itself to stop at the right time.
I hope that everyone understands this truth and does not always get hurt in giving feelings.
END.
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References | Journal of cognitive neuroscience