Author: Jiang Yumu Editor: Jia Fangfang
Source: Journal of Marriage and Family
ID:hunyinyujiating99
Insisting on each other and growing up in the sight of each other, a marriage can withstand the carving of a long time.
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Recently, Yue Yunpeng sewed a handmade package for his wife Zheng Min on the hot search.
At first, Zheng Min planned to buy a brand-name bag, and after hearing the price, Yue Yunpeng quickly said: This thing is so expensive, it is better for me to help you do it!
I thought it was a joke, but I didn't expect that Yue Yunpeng said to do it.
Looking at his serious appearance, I feel that the professionalism is not worse than saying crosstalk.
The selection of materials is meticulous, and the scribing, cutting, and sewing are even more eye-catching. It took several days of hard work, until carrying the prepared leather bag, Yue Yunpeng showed a satisfied smile on his face.
He also made bags of other sizes for his wife, even mobile phone bags.
Looking at her husband's masterpiece, Zheng Min said: "The makeup cabinet sister saw me carrying this dog to chew on the workmanship 'fake bag' and then went to serve other customers." ”
This sounded like disgust, but the details were full of happiness, and netizens shouted "stuffed dog food":
Sure enough, a happy marriage cannot be hidden.
Even if it is not deliberately displayed in a high-profile manner, it is naturally revealed in life.
Open the Weibo of these two people, and you will find too many laugh-crazy but loving fragments of life.
Leek egg stuffed tangyuan, learn about it.
On weekdays, Yue Yunpeng wears his wife's homemade mask with a happy face.
Zheng Min online "sales": sir, get a card.
Watch the movie and see the blind waist fold, Valentine's Day you yourself.
Looking at the daily flirting between the two on Weibo, anyone can't help but smile at their aunt: Yue Yunpeng's marriage is simply more interesting than his crosstalk!
For Yue Yunpeng now, it is not a problem to buy expensive brand-name bags for his wife and to report expensive tutoring classes for his daughter. However, he chose to do it himself, personally accompany him, and leave the most attention, the greatest patience, and the warmest love to his family, which became more and more valuable.
A person laughs on stage for 10 years; in marriage, they can make each other smile, but it is a lifetime of practice.
01
If I'm really good, why don't you
People who have seen the movie "Passing Through Your World" must remember the following clip vividly.
The pig head played by Yue Yunpeng, watching his beloved drive away, ran in tears while hoarsely exhausted:
"Swallow, how can I live without you?"
You may wonder how Yue Yunpeng, who has a hippie smile on the stage and even some small meanness, can play the appearance of losing his beloved so heart-wrenching?
As everyone knows, he is not acting in a play, but his former self.
When he was 19 years old, he had a crush on a waiter in a restaurant. It was hard to summon up the courage to confess, but it was rejected by the public.
Later, the family entrusted a blind date. At that time, there was a rule that the man had to pay a "meeting fee" first, and if the girl did not return the money after the meeting, she said that she could continue to talk.
As a result, after the blind date that day, Yue Yunpeng had not yet arrived home, and the third sister had already brought home the money returned by the girl.
Until the third time, Yue Yunpeng had lost confidence in himself.
The matchmaker advised him: "Although you look difficult, you can speak!" Be bold, don't hunch over, show yourself tall! ”
To put it mildly, Yue Yunpeng finally pushed the bicycle and set off again.
Soon, he saw the girl on the side of the road that the matchmaker said: she was not tall, and her appearance was not outstanding, but she had a bookish atmosphere, which made him like it.
At this time, the girl turned her face to face him. Yue Yunpeng suddenly saw that the disappointment in her eyes was fleeting, and she knew that the other party did not look at herself, and a wave of bitterness surged into her heart.
This girl is Zheng Min.
At that time, Zheng Min had just graduated and was interning in the hospital, and her family was full of readers, she liked literary and artistic movies such as "Heartbeat" and "Roman Holiday", loved to listen to music and art, copied those beautiful lyrics, and loved to collect shells, elegant and exquisite.
In contrast, Yue Yunpeng dropped out of junior high school to work, worked as a security guard, a vegetable messenger, and a repairman, and it was difficult to learn cross-talk through being introduced, and he did not mix with a famous hall, and he did not know anything about Zheng Min's hobbies.
However, fate is sometimes so wonderful.
Two days later, Yue Yunpeng's brother-in-law fell ill and was hospitalized, and he went to the hospital to help take care of it, and Zheng Min happened to be a nurse at the hospital.
In getting along, Zheng Min was gradually attracted by two characteristics of Yue Yunpeng: kindness and steadfastness.
He takes good care of his brother-in-law and treats others very kindly.
Although he speaks cross-talk, he usually does not talk much, and he is particularly down-to-earth.
This good feeling of not being driven by passion makes the two people who seem incompatible slowly come together.
Yue Yunpeng once made up a paragraph for his bitter love-seeking experience- "The girl said, you are a good person." I said, if I'm so nice, why don't you? ”
Finally, Zheng Min became the answer he waited for: your good will always be seen, and she will accompany you to find more beauty.
Some people say: "Good love is not the joy of the first sight, but the long-term enjoyment." Yue Yunpeng and Zheng Min have been in love for 5 years and married for 11 years. There is no fairytale love at first sight, but in the long years, the truth is deeper than the sea.
02
The longest affectionate companionship,
Can withstand loneliness, can keep the prosperity
After getting married, Yue Yunpeng was still just a miscellaneous person in deyun society, and others performed on stage, and he could only sweep the floor and wipe the table. Every new offspring would take the broom from him, but it wouldn't be long before the broom came back to him.
In those hopeless days, Zheng Min quit his job and accompanied Yue Yunpeng to squeeze into a small rental house to support him to carry the weight forward.
It was not until 2010 that Yue Yunpeng's career improved. As Yue Yunpeng's cross-talk scene became more and more lively, the two people's hard days finally came out.
Zheng Min accompanied him all the way, and now that he has kept the clouds open and sees the moon, some people may swell and get carried away. But she didn't.
During one performance, Yue Yunpeng was arranged to appear in the penultimate appearance, but the audience's cries for him reveled in him.
Back home, he complained to Zheng Min about his master Guo Degang: "Why should the peak performance be behind me?" ”
Unexpectedly, Zheng Min raised his hand and gave him a slap after listening: "You have to forget your roots!" I forget where you got to where you are today. ”
Yue Yunpeng was instantly awakened by his daughter-in-law. After Guo Degang knew, he said: "Play well." ”
Yue Yunpeng was born poor, full of human sorrow, it is not easy to achieve fame, a little swelling is always inevitable. Fortunately, Zheng Min always remains sober, and when the gorgeous picture of life unfolds, it can also help him maintain a original intention.
The most precious marriage is not only able to withstand Xiao Suo, but also to keep the prosperity.
The next year, the two married, and Guo Degang, who was particularly fond of this apprentice and daughter-in-law, covered all the expenses for the wedding event.
Since then, whenever Yue Yunpeng's career has encountered twists and turns, zheng min is also the first to stand up and defend.
On one show, Yue Yunpeng was asked to identify a photo of Zhang Junning. Yue Yunpeng didn't recognize it, shook his head, and said, "Not red, this person." ”
This caused an uproar, and Yue Yunpeng was controversial.
Zheng Min @ him on Weibo: "Didn't you watch her TV series with me?" ”
Zheng Min's move not only introduced Zhang Junning's famous works, but also narrowed the distance between Yue Yunpeng and Zhang Junning's fans, and successfully helped him break the siege.
Another time, photos of the two at the airport were posted online. Netizens have questioned Yue Yunpeng's wife carrying a large bag and a small bag, while he is empty-handed, maliciously speculating about the marriage relationship between the two people.
In this regard, Zheng Min explained that when Yue Yunpeng wanted to sign an autograph for fans, she helped him pick up his luggage. At the end, she did not forget the domineering protector: "My man, I am happy!" "The moment left the skeptic speechless.
A beautiful marriage lies in a two-way rush, for Yue Yunpeng, Zheng Min's concern, he can see; Zheng Min's sternness, he also understands.
Sometimes when it comes to his wife, Yue Yunpeng will complain that she has a bad temper, like a leader at home, and does more housework by herself. But no matter how many complaints there are, in the end, there is no enemy: "I can't do without her." ”
Playwright Liao Yimei once said: "What we encounter in our lives is not rare, what is rare is to encounter understanding and encounter seeing." ”
03
"The green plum bamboo horse is not you, and the initial opening of the love sinus is not you,
But for the rest of your life it's you."
Yue Yunpeng once had a dream and woke up in a cold sweat: "The coat can't be worn, the shoes can't be lifted, the partner is gone, and he is alone in front of the audience." ”
Savoring the details of the dream, it was all about his life that had lost his sense of security and was constantly shrinking.
From dropping out of junior high school to working as a security guard, to passing food in restaurants, he experienced being swept out of the house again and again. Even within the Deyun Society, the voice of his expulsion was heard endlessly.
With these experiences, he desperately rushed to the scene after becoming famous, and only by constantly busyness could he relieve his inner anxiety.
This anxiety was eventually cured by marriage and family.
This can be clearly felt through Yue Yunpeng's overall state, especially his Weibo interaction with Zheng Min.
Yue Yunpeng tutored her eldest daughter, who had just been in the first grade, with a sharp grip on her ears and scratching her cheeks. In desperation, he had to recruit tutors on Weibo.
After the birth of his little daughter, the unwilling Yue Yunpeng personally went to battle, and the result was still bitter: "5 minutes, is it difficult to add 7 plus 9?" ”
Zheng Min teased from the side: "I naively thought that I had been honed by the boss for two years, and my mentality was already very peaceful." ”
Not only is the tutoring homework a breakdown, but the daughter is a clingy person.
Walking down the street, the daughter had to hold Yue Yunpeng's leg.
While taking a video, Zheng Min joked that her husband was "one leg short".
Yue Yunpeng dragged his daughter with his legs, and walked forward slowly and slowly, his face full of helpless smiles.
In this helpless situation, Yue Yunpeng enjoyed the slow flow of time.
He once said heartily in an interview: "Before I was at home for more than a week, I would panic and rush to work.
But now it won't be, the children and daughters-in-law are at home, this feeling is particularly good. ”
In this marriage, Zheng Min healed Yue Yunpeng's heart, and Yue Yunpeng also fulfilled her worthiness.
Some netizens once pointed fingers at Yue Yunpeng's marriage, thinking that he had achieved fame and zheng min was no longer worthy of him. Yue Yunpeng ignored them, and a handwritten love letter was the best response.
In this era, any feeling that needs to be written by hand is a thousand words.
And Zheng Min is to him, as he himself wrote - the green plum bamboo horse is not you, the love sinus is not you, but it is you for the rest of your life.
Nabokov once said: "She can fade, she can wither, she can do anything, but just look at her, and all the tenderness will come to her heart." This sentence is used to describe the marriage of Yue Yunpeng and Zheng Min, which is most appropriate.
Good partner Sun Yue teased Yue Yunpeng, saying that his wife was fatter than before.
Yue Yunpeng had a "you don't understand" expression, and then replied, "I like it!" ”
Last year, Zheng Min posted a photo of herself on Weibo that she had just had surgery.
In the photo, her face is a little haggard, and her beautiful long hair has fallen out. Despite this, her smile never died, because there was always someone to accompany her, waiting for Qingsi to continue and let time grow old.
Among the many comments of heartache, blessing, and concern, at the top of the list were Yue Yunpeng's simple two words: "Come on! ”
What is the significance of couple hair? It is you who accompany me through the bitterness of life, and I take you to taste the sweetness of the world.
Yue Yunpeng's sweetness to Zheng Min is not a grand wedding, not a luxurious mansion, not a delicate leather bag, but a time that falls in the trivialities of life, no need to be deliberate, simple and simple, but it is all the beauty of fine water
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