Your heart, my story, you say, I listen! I'm Tingting, the psychotherapist around you!
When we pass the age of 18, we officially step into the adult world, the first two years, may be attracted by the world's lights, but after two years, you will find that these brilliant lives do not belong to you at all.
Life and survival, although it is only a word difference, but the corresponding life situation is very different, many people's goal is to enjoy life, but it takes a long time, struggling on the survival line.
If you can't even solve the problem of survival, how do you enjoy it? So when you see through this, you will naturally find that the adult world is far from being as good as you think.
In the adult world, there is no eternal patron, and your strongest patron is your efforts and independence.
If you want to live well in this world, you must know self-discipline, and a person's super self-discipline is to save money.
In fact, Xiao Xia's family conditions are not bad, in the local area is an ordinary medium level, not to the bottom, but her hometown is a small city, and she is currently working in a first-tier city.
Parents add up to no more than 10,000 wages every month, after removing the basic living needs, in fact, there is not much left, plus they also need to save some "coffin books" for themselves, so the help that can be given to Xiao Xia is even more limited.
XiaoXia knew about this from an early age, and she also looked at her parents' frugality, so since she went to college, she began to work and study, and almost all her spare time was spent part-time.
Everyone else was enjoying the last happy time in the ivory tower, falling in love or going on a trip, but she filled all her spare time with her work, so she was also the "richest" one in the dormitory.
In a good time, Xiaoxia can get more than 10,000 yuan of income a month, which is much better than the students who only have about 2,000 living expenses per month, but she is the most bitter, because she only limits her living expenses to 1,000 yuan per month.
Later, after graduating from college, with the work experience accumulated earlier, XiaoXia was also the first to find a job in the dormitory, and the salary was not low.
But even so, Xiao Xia did not relax in the slightest, even more than before, basically never ordered takeaway, and rarely added clothes to himself, plus the company's monthly meal supplements and room supplements, sometimes spending less than a thousand a month.
Sometimes colleagues ask out to play, and whenever this time Xiaoxia will refuse, because she has her own goals.
Just after Working for 5 years, Xiaoxia finally bought a house of her own, and also took root in the city, although it was bought with a loan, and her parents helped her, but most of it was borne by herself.
After hearing this news, friends were surprised, everyone did not expect that Xiao Xia actually did not sound, a blockbuster, became the first person among all the students to buy a house and take root.
In the past, everyone didn't understand why Xiao Xia was so frugal and made her life so hard, but now it seems that she has a purpose.
For today's young people, saving money is even easier than making money, because with the change of the times, everyone's living conditions are constantly improving.
Even if the original family conditions are not so good, most of them will not increase the burden on everyone, and they can help more or less, so everyone generally only needs to manage themselves.
In this case, everyone's psychological pressure will be much less, and when facing various temptations in society, there will be a lot less confinement, and slowly begin to make ends meet.
Of course, there are also some people who have the concept of saving money, especially after reaching a certain age, and discover the importance of money, but not everyone can do it, because self-control is different.
When seeing those things that make them like and want to buy, the derived desire to consume is "addictive", and the consumption itself is "addictive", and many people encounter unhappy applications, and will make their mood better through consumption.
But for an adult, the essential quality is self-discipline, because the temptation of this society is not just shopping, there are other greater temptations.
Behind these temptations, there are often huge traps hidden, and if you are not self-disciplined, it is easy to fall into them and ruin them.
For many people, although they want to become more disciplined, but they have not been able to find a good way, it is better to start by saving money.
First set a small goal for the Moonlight Clan itself, there must be a surplus every month, and then the amount of money saved will gradually increase, and slowly everyone will become more and more disciplined.
Of course, no amount of money can prevent death, no matter how beautiful you look, you can't please yama, and no matter how famous you are, you have to go through life and death, so life should not be too greedy, and you should not live too tired.
Whether it's saving money or anything else, it's just to prepare for a happier life for everyone, so if you feel unhappy, it's not necessary, after all, the days are your own, everything is up to you.