Some guidelines for communicating with people

How to build successful relationships

People should be inside and outside, not to lie, not to deceive people, inside, but it does not affect the outer circle, and have a good relationship with others

Ten Principles of Interpersonal Relationships

A table of talents - to give others a good first impression, many people are judging you by virtue of the first influence, their appearance should pay attention to, but also pay attention to their own internal connotations, improve their own quality, at the same time, many people are internally inconsistent, pay attention to this. We must constantly enrich ourselves, improve ourselves, and show our inner things so that others can't help but approach.

Two suits - I should not be the same as others, nor should I pursue novelty, deliberately different from others. To be able to look at the occasion and mingle with others. (Don't say the so-called personality, what has a profound impact)

Three glasses of wine – neither too much nor too little. Dealing with others requires drinking to get closer, too much drinking hurts the body, and it will also be rejected. Talk to others in social situations and mingle.

Four circles of mahjong – what people in this circle like to do, in order to get close to them, you need to learn their hobbies. Mahjong here is more of a hobby. Don't say that you don't dare to play if you don't, you can try it yourself.

Five-party dating - southeast, northwest, and five parties, don't set limits for yourself, don't see that the industry is different from others, the interests are different, the identity is different, don't go to make friends with others, you want to make friends, you never know who will pull you at the key time, will become your noble. Chinese like hearsay, but I don't believe it when it's positive information.

Six out of Qishan - knowing that you can't do it, since you promised others something, you must do it. Only ask should not, less ask may not be possible, many times some highly learned people, often judge, feel that things are not feasible, the result will actually be the opposite, these smart people are not as good as ordinary people.

Seven techniques of horse-ass - to have seventy percent of the horse's ass, thirty percent of the sincere advice, here the pat is not a direct slap on the horse's ass, but to create a strong taste of horse ass, so that he felt very useful at the time, but in hindsight will not think that you are a horse ass. For example, pandering to leaders in public and communicating with leaders sincerely afterwards.

Eight mouths of bragging – if a person does not brag, others do not know what you have done, but excessive bragging, will lose the trust of others. And not only bragging about themselves, but also helping others to brag, blowing around, everyone is harmonious, the credit let everyone have merit, everyone is not a fool, to be praised, not to hurt people. But when you encounter you are humble and others are not polite to accept, you must resolutely resist and do not let others think that you are a bully.

Nine points of effort - hard work is always very important, with a relationship, your own ability is always there.

Patience is far more important than hard work, people should be very good at enduring themselves, good heart is not necessarily known to others, but if you have a bad temper, others can know immediately. Learn to be patient. Don't see people who don't want to see, ugly faces, and very annoyed and angry when they don't listen to bad words. Absorb these bad things into good things, and these things that make us uncomfortable will remind us and elevate us, which means the same thing as suffering and difficulty.

Some of the above methods hope that we can work together to learn and progress together, and if you have any insights, you can also post them in the comment area, and everyone will discuss and discuss