1. I don't want to run today, that's why I ran, which is the way long-distance runners think.
The way long-distance runners think
2. Life is often like this, the hope you think is actually to make you fall into a deeper despair; and you think of endless despair, but in a corner but full of hope.
3. Don't expect all people to understand you, because turnip cabbage, each has its own love. If you make a radish, you naturally can't make greens.
4. A person's maturity is not manifested in how much achievement has been achieved, but in the face of those people and things that are disgusted, do not cater to or resist, and only smile at it. When the heart can accommodate many things that you don't like, this is called aura.
5. In the matter of rejection, the simpler the better, obviously others need their own help, explain that half a day has become their own feeling of indebtedness to others, help to help, can not help to refuse. Interpersonal communication, simple and clear is sometimes the most appropriate, know how to refuse, in order to live without entanglement!
Learn to refuse
6. When talking to people, learn to be calm. Even if you have a lot of anger, don't shout, because your loudness, other than disturbing your own mind, does not make things better. Hysterical yelling won't conquer others, but it will only make you lose your mind in madness.
7. If someone hurts you, don't thank the people who hurt you, they didn't do anything to make you grow, what makes you grow is your reflection and strength. So just be thankful for yourself and the people who are with you. There is only one word for those who hurt you, Lao Tzu is living incredibly well now.
8. No matter how turbid the water is, as long as it precipitates for a long time, it will still be exceptionally clear. No matter how stupid people are, as long as they work hard enough, they can rewrite their fate. Don't be angry that the starting point is too low, that's just the origin where we stand. Life is a long race, some people laugh at the beginning, some people win at the end.
9. "Don't waste time" is ridiculous advice, you never have time, how to waste time? Time has you, and time has proven that it doesn't care about anyone.
Human sobriety
10. The sail, which is not hung on the mast, is a useless piece of cloth; the mast, which does not hang on the sail, is an ordinary pillar; the ideal, which is not put into action, is a fog of nothingness; action, without ideals, is a road without end.
11. If a person can't even control his emotions, even if he gives you the whole world, you will destroy everything sooner or later. You cannot become the master of the state of mind, and you will inevitably become a slave to emotions. Remember: temper should never be greater than ability.
12. There is always a way for a person to make up his mind to fulfill a wish, but most people have never tasted a wish come true in their entire lives. People pretend that there is no money, no time, no desire, no determination to do everything until they really have nothing.
13. The pursuit of the ultimate is always hazy, and people who want to escape from pain, the most common is to hide in the future. In the orbit of time, people always think that there is a line, beyond this line, the current pain may no longer exist.