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In feelings, both men and women have their own weaknesses and key points.
If you want to capture the heart of the other party, and want to let the fierce woman be conquered by you, you must start from these weaknesses and key points in order to win the hearts of the other party!
Some men always complain in their feelings, some women are too desperate, too cruel, not easy to control, do not know how to get along, do not know how to upgrade their emotional relationship with her, and do not know how to control each other!
In fact, what women want is very simple, nothing more than a man who sincerely loves herself, and those women who pursue external materials are there, but since they can choose to follow you when they are penniless, she is not the kind of woman who pursues materials!
01. In fact, women are afraid of loneliness and want a companionship
Who is she? This woman, who is always lonely and desolate, dwells in your heart, and you have pursued her, but you have not won her.
Most women are timid and afraid of being alone!
How lonely a woman with a husband is not around is like a lonely tree at the top of a mountain, a single stone in the sea.
How to make women inseparable from you, then in the feelings, you have to let women completely rely on you, no you can't do it, just like the night can't be without the sun!
When she is fully accustomed to your existence, your companionship, and your intimate care, you will find that she can't do without you at all, and she won't be cruel to you in her feelings!
And it doesn't matter if they are not together, they don't know how to manage feelings, and they don't know how to properly maintain their feelings, causing women to chill in their feelings, and finally iron hearts!
Men always think that women want this and that, happiness is a desire that is always difficult to satisfy, in fact, what women really want is the simplest happiness - that is, you are by my side.
02. Women are most worried about being hurt and are eager for a special affection
Remember that there is a sentence in "Zichuan": "You can forgive cowardice, but you will never forgive betrayal." ”
In the face of a relationship, women will always think a lot before making a decision!
She is afraid of being hurt, so look at men in all directions!
Therefore, in the relationship, to prevent women from being cruel to you, the trick to firmly grasping women's hearts lies!
You want to make women feel your specialty, your singleness!
You have to make her feel safe around you, and she will be fully trusted if she feels reliable!
Once a woman pays, she will follow you in her feelings, without complaint or regret!
Whether men or women, people chase money for a while, and beautiful appearance for a while, but after getting it, they are afraid of losing. Speaking of which, what people lack most is not materialism, but security.
Men who have money will not give you a sense of security, and men's loyalty and honesty are called safety. A woman's beauty does not give people a sense of security, and a woman's kindness is called safety.
What really makes people feel at ease is not to hurt, not to betray, not to leave.
03. Women want to be spoiled and need you to be tolerant
Gibran once said, "Generosity is not that you give me what I need more than you do, but that you give me what you need more than I do." ”
Most women spend their lives looking for a man who will pamper himself, favor himself, and give himself a unique feeling!
I want women to be good to you all the time, without emotion, not cruelly, not abandoned!
That as a man, in the preparation of the early feelings, you must do a moderate spoiling, take a good degree!
For example, she loves to eat cream cake, you don't buy her a whole at once, you have to give her a bite, let her eat it and want to eat it! "
Men always feel that women are unreasonable, in fact, there are different reasons between men and women. Men consider problems by rationally analyzing right and wrong, and then deciding whether to do things or not.
Women think about emotions, why don't you accompany her? Why do you care about her? Why not tolerate her?
Therefore, men should not reason with women, if you want to care, you care, this is love.
Find where a woman needs it most, then her desperation will also become warmth to you.
If you have any ideas, you are welcome to advise in the comments section.
END. Thanks for meeting.
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