I agree with one sentence:
Liking someone is like having a soft rib and having armor.
Having armor probably means that you seem to have become stronger and gained a strength from this liking, and with a weakness, you were not afraid of anything before, but at that moment, your heart became soft and you began to have something to fear.
Yes, it is often the case for a person, to the outside world, there is more responsibility in the heart, more energy than ever, but for the people who like it, it is more afraid, and there is cowardice that has never been felt before.
In love, it would be so for a woman to fall in love with a man, and it would be the same for a man who really likes a woman.
As a man, it is not really how afraid of women, but will start to care about women's every move, bit by bit.
Because I care too much, I am often affected and worried.
I'm afraid you're not happy, I always want you to have a good time.
A girl, she met a man, usually, they get along well, but whenever she is not in a good mood, encounters something, or has a conflict with each other, she is more angry, the other party will hide away.
It wasn't until she took care of everything herself and her emotions returned to normal that the other person would interact with her again.
She never understood why the other party never cared about her negative emotions and was unwilling to solve some problems with her. At the end of the day, the other person just doesn't want to get into trouble because of her, and doesn't want to find something for himself.
That said, the man didn't care about her mood at all, just wanted to be able to have fun together.
When a man, he is only willing to participate in your life when you are all right, afraid that you will trouble him, there is no reason, he just does not like you at all, does not want to let himself be affected by you.
I don't like it, so I don't bother to think about you and don't want to be by your side when you are negative. The man who really likes it, he will not do this to you, he will only care very much about your mood and always hope that you can be happy.
Whenever you encounter something bad, he will be there, will help you solve, but also to see your mood recovered, he can rest assured, whenever there is a problem between you, he will be willing to accommodate you.
He cares more about you than he does himself, doesn't see any sadness in you, and only expects you to be happy.
Afraid that if you can't do it well, you will be very careful.
There are always some men who, in front of you, are particularly bold. Just met, you can boldly say how much you like you, just met, dare to touch your body.
In getting along, you always come according to your own preferences, and often do not know how to take care of your feelings.
A man who seems particularly bold, he is not how brave, he probably just doesn't like you much, so he will be so unscrupulous, a look that you should follow his rhythm and follow his needs.
When a man really likes you, he won't always be so careless, he will only seem very careful.
It is not easy to say that I like it, but I will only think about it for a long time, organize several languages, and then at the right time, I will have some expectations and some fears. What makes him look forward to is to get your consent, and what makes him afraid is afraid that you will not agree.
Even holding your hand and hugging you, he never dared to be so hasty, he only thought about it many times, tried many times, and finally plucked up the courage to behave like that to you at one time.
You will find that he is very respectful of you, but also very concerned about your feelings, very attentive to the rhythm.
Not only that, every time he gets along, he will know how to observe the color, pay attention to your emotions all the time, but also care about your preferences, and take care of you very carefully in some details.
I'm afraid you don't like him and I'll lose you.
No matter how good a man is, once he is really moved, he will become a little timid, and he will also have some inferiority.
There will always be the fear that you are not good enough, that you are not doing enough for you, that you are not enough to firmly choose him and be with him.
In order to win your likes, he will really be very kind to you, especially care about you, and always be very generous, eager to give you all he has. Even if he has done a lot for you, he still feels that it is not enough.
In the matter of liking you, it can be said that he is really very attentive and has done his best, without any reservations.
And he does all this in the hope that he can let you see his sincerity, that is, he wants to be the best for you, to make you feel that he is really good, and then never look at other men again, just treat him as the only one.
He will use all his self to love you well, even if he has done a good job, you have chosen him, and with him, he will still always seem very uneasy, and will not be very secure.
Because he knows that everything is changing, even if you like him at the moment, it does not mean that it will continue to be like this in the future, maybe in the next moment, there will be other people who will appear and make you feel like it more.
With you, he will always be very afraid that he will lose you, in order to hold you firmly in his hands, once the time is ripe, he will propose to you to marry, even if married, he will still treat you as well as always.
The man who really likes you, he will have a pity for you, and he will be more afraid of you.
It's not how terrible you are, it's that he has a reverence for this love, and he has a respect for you.
Like it too much, will want to get, and will always be particularly concerned about gains and losses.
Even in the eyes of others, you are so ordinary and nothing special, but in the eyes of others, you are so precious, and you are different from everyone.
In a lifetime, it is a blessing to meet such a person who cares about you in everything.
If you are fortunate to meet, you must cherish it and be kind to him when he is very good to you.
Feelings are a matter of two people, and only if you cherish each other can you be long-lasting and happy.
Text/Tan Meng
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