Core tip: On January 29, Tu Jianghua of the Civil Dispute Mediation Committee of the Hulu District People's Court suddenly received a phone call from an old lady in her 80s. Before Tu Jianghua could ask what was going on, the old man began to cry: "My eldest daughter is ignorant of my money, you can help me get the money back!"
The year is approaching, what happened to the old man? Tu Jianghua immediately intervened.
The old man sued his daughter
After Tu Jianghua carefully understood, he understood that the "source" of the contradiction was actually the old man himself.
The old man is 84 years old, and 5 years ago, she gave her money to her eldest daughter to invest.
In January this year, the eldest daughter wanted to return the principal and interest of 230,000 yuan to the old man, but the old man insisted that the eldest daughter was ignorant of her own money and asked the eldest daughter to give her 250,000 yuan.
His own mother, it didn't matter if she gave twenty thousand more, so the filial daughter promised to "make up" the money in a few days.
However, just a few days before the New Year, the old man said that the eldest daughter owed her 260,000 yuan. The children persuaded their mothers, but they did not expect the old man to say that the children were not filial, so they went to the court, and there was a scene at the beginning of the article.
The children were helpless
After Tu Jianghua understood the origin of the matter, he invited the old man and her children to come to Huajie's mediation room.
After everyone sat together, Tu Jianghua first talked with the old man.
During the conversation, Tu Jianghua learned that the old man's wife died a few years ago, and he currently lives alone, with a total of 4 children under his knees, and his life is worry-free.
The old man's son in the mediation said helplessly: "My mother called me and said that she wanted money from my eldest sister for 250,000 yuan, I said that I would make up for the 20,000 yuan, and then I wanted 260,000 yuan. ”
The old man's third daughter said: "Since the death of my father, my mother's temper has become more and more strange. We don't look at her in her heart; We went to see her, and my mother was dissatisfied with us all kinds, saying all day that we were not filial piety, and she wasn't like this before?"
The old man's eldest daughter said to Tu Jianghua: "Mother's money, in fact, the principal and interest add up, there is no 230,000 yuan, several turnover deposits, we will add money, make up for the zero, put together, the mother does not believe that we will make up the money, I really have no way to take her." My mother also said that I was ignorant of her money, and none of us could be ignorant of her money!" The eldest daughter, who is more than 50 years old, has tears of grievance in her eyes.
The mediator intervenes
After understanding the events and listening to the old man's children's story, Tu Jianghua decided to avoid the old man and talk to the old man's children alone.
After carefully inquiring about the physical condition of the old man, I knew that the old man suffered from cerebellar atrophy, sometimes awake, sometimes confused, and even sometimes lost his temper without reason. Tu Jianghua began to realize that the source of the contradiction may not be money, but in the more effective companionship of his children.
Considering the situation of the old man, Tu Jianghua "coaxed" the old man, said the words that the old man liked to hear, and hoped to untie the "knot" of family affection.
"Big Lady, is it because of this money in front of you that you can rest assured?" Tu Jianghua asked the old man.
"Yeah, that's all my money!" The old man said.
The children of the old man saw this and decided to take 250,000 yuan to the mediation room after consultation.
When the pile of cash was placed in front of the old man, the old man counted over and over again, and a smile appeared on his face.
She shook Tu Jianghua's hand and said, "Just these 250,000, I don't want much, this matter is like this, I will not find anyone in the future, do not sue, I will believe you, thank you." ”
At this point, this oolong incident has also come to a successful end.
"Thank you for your help in mediation, as long as my mother is happy, we are at ease." The old man's eldest daughter said.
The knot was untied
In order to untie the knots in the hearts of the children, Tu Jianghua said: "Now your mother suffers from cerebellar atrophy, so as a child, don't think that she is fooling around, treat her as a sick mother, give the old man more attention, the 84-year-old man, try to rely on her nature." ”
Listening to Tu Jianghua's words, the old man's children hugged the old man and cried, they said: "This matter does not affect our filial piety to our mother, we will be better for our mother in the future, we are still a united and harmonious family, and the mother's comfort and health in her old age is more important to us than anything else." ”
Mediator's comment: Spend more time with your parents
Now, many elderly people are living alone, and they need not only the economic support of their children, but also the meticulous care and care of their children.
Among them, the care for the elderly not only has legal responsibilities and obligations, but also has family care.
Therefore, as children, we must take more time to accompany our parents, and do not let them feel empty and lonely.
Reporter Zhang Lin