My Xiaowan My Love and Talk about "Dong Xiaowan's Creation"

(Originally written on August 2, 2011)

When I heard that I was going to shoot "Dong Xiaowan", I was both excited and a little worried, excited because Xiaowan was my dream lover, and worried because no work could perfectly and truly express the Xiaowan in my heart, or it was too whitewashed or too vulgar or too pedantic or too rigid... 　　 　　

I hope that the creators can gather the wisdom of all parties to make "Dong Xiaowan" into a shocking work, to write the most cattle B, do not waste this good theme, the influence should surpass "Snail Residence", "Dulala Promotion", "A Woman's Epic", first drama and then expand to movies and TV series... 　　 　　

In short, it should be a modern concept to interpret the classic story, just like Yu Dan's interpretation of the Analects, not a joke, nor a biography, and strive to show us eternal, vivid and pure love. Combined with real problems and Xiaowan's experience, "Dong Xiaowan" should focus on the following love concepts------ 　　 　　

First, love is persistent, it is firmly focused on eternity, and it is an epic in the hearts of all idealists.　　 　　

Xiao Wan is a model of persistence, and so is Tian Sophie in "A Woman's Epic", love is love to the old and desolate, love is love to the sea and stone rot, never because of the hardships of life, the twists and turns of feelings and change.

And now many friends have changed stubble after stubble, "I love you", "my love is gone" has almost become a mantra... Can that be counted as love, but the emotional fluctuations and impulses that accompany the physiological cycle? If that's love, the prostitute has a love with the client, when she takes off her pants, when she puts them on, and when she puts them on.

If it is really love, it certainly does not come and go so fast.　　 　　

Second, love is pure, not so worldly utilitarian, and there is nothing to lose.　　 　　

Dedicate wholeheartedly to the person you love, no complaints, no regrets, no return, and even pay the price of life, even if the other party is out of the wall, even if people have betrayed, although there are tears but it is not sad, I have always believed that Xiao Wan died with a smile, because she gave everything for the person she loved.

In particular, we must show Xiao Wan's exquisite cooking skills, which is a state that can only be achieved by a woman who is intoxicated with happiness.

And now many people are keen to "find a lover who loves you, find a lover you love". Even with love, it has completely become a married house, a car, a married man... I don't know what love is.　　 　　

Loving someone is blissful, and if you feel pain, it must be that you don't love purely.　　 　　

Third, love is fun, solemn and serious but not too serious, because love is a game.　　 　　

Male and female love is the eternal hobby and pursuit of human beings, why not try to show it. The scale refers to the "Color Ring", which can neither be elegant like a god nor vulgar into an A-film, but should be based on spiritual pleasure, taking into account sensory stimulation and life thinking.

In fact, from the perspective of human nature, the more serious and more sullen, the more imprisoned and perverted, the Ming Dynasty is an example. Yellow books began at that time, such as "Golden Plum Bottle", "Three Words and Two Moments", "Jade Futon"; perverted patterns also existed from then on, the great traitor Hong Chengzuo loved to engage in homosexuality, and the reformer Zhang Juzheng loved to play with the flute.　　

There has been a "Dong Xiaowan" before, in addition to crying and crying is a poetry appreciation, so talking about love is too perverted and boring. This time it has to be changed.　　 　　

Fourth, love is pure, and this purity is not the same as virginity, and whitewashing will only tarnish love.　　 　　

There has always been a group of pedantic literati who deliberately beautify the love of Mao Dong, and always say to Xiao Wan, "Sell your art and don't sell yourself", as if Xiao Wan has always been white and flawless before meeting the impostor. I don't believe this kind of nonsense, how can I be alone after being in the dust for so long. Otherwise, Xiao Wan would not be able to give birth in the future, and I often heard people say that the lady who did too well would be sterilized. But what is this, forced by life...

In fact, spiritual purity is the most important, although it fell into the wind and dust, but Xiao Wan's heart is simple, yearning to be a good wife and mother, once she has the opportunity, she will return to the heart like an arrow to devote herself to the construction of a harmonious family, bowing for her lover for the family, until the incense disappears.　　 　　

Xiao Wan is a prostitute, but she is also a good family woman. Such a woman and a real man will never despise it, but should add a few more feelings of pity and cherishing. Such love is always worthy of our praise, yearning, pursuit...