#育儿图文打卡挑战 #
Nowadays, the tuition fees of private kindergartens are obviously expensive for all to see. For example, the daughter of Zhu Ma's friend Chen Chen attended an aristocratic kindergarten, and the tuition fee for one semester was as high as 80,000 yuan. Although the conditions of Chenchen's home are good, but 80,000 yuan is still a lot of money, just for the children to have a better learning environment, take the first step into the small society, Chenchen is still open-minded. Before deciding to give the child this kindergarten, Chen Chen also went to investigate, whether it is the reputation of the parents, or the decoration design of the kindergarten, the lunch supply, the teachers, everything is not faulty.
But the child has only been in the kindergarten for a few days, and the morning and morning have exploded, what is going on? The cause of the incident was a photo of a children taking a nap in the group posted by the kindergarten teacher, and the children's beds seemed to be very crowded, and their hands and feet were opposite. "How can you let your daughter sleep smelling someone else's stinky feet?" The clean-minded Morning morning was angry when he saw the photo, and hurriedly called to complain about the kindergarten.
Unexpectedly, the kindergarten teacher reacted very calmly to Chenchen's anger, and she calmly told Chenchen: "The children will carefully check the hygiene before entering the kindergarten every day, and there is no possibility of smelling the smelly feet and sleeping." At the same time, the hands and feet of the child's nap are relatively approved by the parenting experts, which can ensure the sleep quality of the child's nap. ”
1. Avoid children from continuing to play
Kindergarten children, independent sleep is still somewhat difficult, if the children sleep on the same side, the child lies down and sees the face of the small partner next to it, will not help but want to chat, play, not only is it more difficult for the child to fall asleep quickly, but also is likely to affect other children, resulting in children collectively not napping.
On the contrary, letting children face each other during naps can directly avoid the possibility of children wanting to play because they are face to face, so that children can sleep more quietly and sleep better.
2. Avoid cross-infection in children
As the saying goes, illness comes from the mouth. Children's mouths are full of bacteria, and children exhale a lot of bacteria and exhaust gases through their mouths after falling asleep. If children sleep head-to-head together, getting too close is more likely to lead to bacterial cross-infection and harm the child's physical health.
On the contrary, the head-to-toe pattern is adopted during napping, and the exhaust gas and bacteria exhaled by the baby when sleeping, and even the virus, are less likely to infect each other and are safer for children.
3. Avoid getting your child into the wrong clothes
Although the kindergarten has a large number of people, including kindergartens, nurses, aunts, etc., but taking care of bear children is a physical work, and the teacher is tired enough at the end of the day, and the kindergarten naturally has to find a way to help the teacher shoulder. Let the children sleep with their hands and feet opposite, the children's clothes are on different sides of the bed, which can effectively avoid the children from taking the wrong clothes, and the teacher can also check whether the children's clothes are worn correctly one by one, which reduces the workload to a certain extent.
Listening to the kindergarten teacher's explanation, Chenchen blushed a little, she apologized to the teacher for her carelessness, and also had a deeper understanding of why the kindergarten nap slept with her hands and feet crossed. Sometimes, our "self-righteousness" is actually not entirely correct, and we need to think more, think more, and be more rational.
As follows, let's talk about how parents can correctly guide their children to take a nap in kindergarten? In fact, everything needs to be prepared, and before the child enters the kindergarten, parents should guide the child to develop a good habit of napping.
1. Help calm your child's mood at lunch
From the beginning of lunch with children, parents should pay attention to stabilizing their children's emotions, creating a relatively peaceful and relaxed environment for their children, and paving the way for their children's high-quality naps. For example, parents should not severely criticize their children at the dinner table, do not obligate that children must eat their meals, do not give their children too much lunch, and so on.
2. Picture books help children stabilize their mood
From the experience of Bamboo Mother, picture books are the best way to help children stabilize their mood. Unlike the noise of mobile phones, books are quiet; unlike parents' words and deeds, books are obviously more vivid and interesting. For example, this set of "2-6 years old bedtime enlightenment storybook" is very suitable for children to turn it over before napping. There are 40 volumes in this set of books, each of which is a separate story with a meaningful story theme (don't take it slow, share happier, don't be a coward, etc.). Giving the child a book before napping every day not only helps the child to fall asleep, but also subtly, the child's good habits, good personality, high IQ, and high emotional intelligence are slowly cultivated.
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3. Enter the countdown phase five minutes before falling asleep
Before going to bed, parents must do enough, which is also very critical for children to take a good nap in kindergarten in the future. These three things must be done: one is to ask the child whether he needs to go to the toilet, so as not to have physical troubles when the child falls asleep; the second is to help the child clean up the bed and change into clean and tidy pajamas; the third is to encourage the child to fold the clothes, shoes and hats, etc. that have been changed, and then go to bed.
4. Do not force your child to take a nap
Napping can give the body a short rest, so that children can be more energetic in the afternoon class, is a good habit. However, it is not excluded that there are individual children who do not have the habit of napping in the weather. These children can't sleep at noon, and even if they don't sleep, they are still energetic and collapse in the afternoon when they sleep. If parents after a period of observation, found that the child does not nap this group, then must not force the child, try to let the child quietly read books, draw a few pictures during the lunch break, do not sleep themselves and do not affect others, is also a good choice.
Hope my sharing is helpful to you! I am Takeya Mommy, a national second-level public nutritionist, a post-80s mother, willing to share parenting knowledge for you every day, communicate with you about parenting experience, like me, please pay attention to me!