The kindergarten stage is the first step in the growth of students, parents attach great importance to their children's education, will pave the way for their children in advance, work hard to provide better materials, so that students can win on the starting line. When students reach a certain age, they begin to prepare for kindergarten, to adapt to collective life and learn to be independent, and parents will compare multiple schools and finally choose the best quality kindergarten.
Parents' inner volume psychology is very serious, in the child's kindergarten stage is very obvious, think that the child will be more, understand more, will be smarter than other students, in the future when they grow up, life is better and more outstanding. The psychology of parents "hoping to become a dragon" can be understood, but it should also conform to the development law of students in education.
Kindergarten "advanced education" is harmful, the third grade of primary school is gradually revealed, parents do not take it seriously!
Social competition is fierce, especially the fast pace of life in big cities, many parents run for the family, physical and mental pressure is very large, they hope that children can live better than themselves in the future, pay more attention to the education of students, but do not grasp the scale of education, feel that the kindergarten stage should be in advance to contact the primary school curriculum, learn more knowledge, so as not to waste time.
Public kindergartens will strictly follow the regulations to teach, but some private kindergartens, in order to cater to parents and seize the psychology of parents, launch a series of special classes, such as early childhood articulation, so that students can contact primary school knowledge prematurely. Parents do not hesitate to let their children carry out advanced education, on the surface it seems that there are many students, as if they are smarter, but parents ignore the receptivity of kindergarten students.
Kindergarten students are younger, have no self-discipline ability, they are curious about the outside world, nature prefers to play, public kindergarten teachers will use the way of games, let students learn knowledge in a relaxed atmosphere, mainly to cultivate interests.
Private kindergarten advanced education, early learning and contact with the primary school curriculum, completely two reverses, the results are also very different, parents may think that in the kindergarten will be more, primary school can become the leader of the class, more liked by the teacher. But in fact, in the first and second grades, students who receive advanced education may have good grades in various subjects, but after entering the third grade, their grades may plummet, physical and mental pressure, and they are very disgusted with learning.
Parents do not know why, through communication with the teacher, the teacher said that students who have received advanced education will have such a strange phenomenon.
Kindergarten "advanced education" is harmful, the third grade of primary school began to appear, parents do not ignore, the first and second grade students are still very fresh about primary school life, but the third grade can be said to be a watershed, students hate learning is the biggest harm, from active to passive, parents can only do it in a hurry.
Parents should maintain rationality, in line with the law of student growth of education, in order to benefit the future of students
The author believes that parents in the process of education, should remain rational, do not deprive students of childhood, premature consumption will be very harmful, parents in the face of greater pressure from the society, should be able to adjust the mentality, positive and optimistic, do not bring bad emotions to the child, do not put their own ideas on the child.
Every student grows, should follow the rules, so that students can be on the road to education, harvest more, has been on the right track, the body and mind will be healthier, more beneficial to the future of students, students to maintain excellent results, do both good character and excellent students, grow up into the society, do the quality of high, the talent needed by society.
The growth of students is inseparable from the teacher's teaching, the primary school stage is the foundation stage, the primary school class teacher in the management, should take a targeted approach, reduce the harm of advanced education, so that students in a relaxed, innovative ability, interest in learning.
How should primary school class teachers teach in a targeted manner and "teach according to their aptitudes" in teaching?
Class teachers should establish a class system, enliven the class atmosphere, and severely punish them. Primary school students are playful by nature, and the class teacher should establish a class system so that students abide by the fierceness of the class, but it should also be noted that the class atmosphere is active, and severe punishment and application are more beneficial to the growth of students.
The class teacher should fully understand the students and teach according to the different growth situations of the students. Ideological education is greater than the education of knowledge, the class teacher should have the ability to observe, more understanding of the student's situation, including growth experience, family background, etc., so as to be able to better targeted teaching.
Author's message: Parents' expectations of children can be understood, but parents should also avoid excessive expectations, education should be in line with the normal development of students, seedlings to promote not only no benefit, parents for advanced education do not take the wrong thing, the harm is very large, but also affect the future of students, parents should be able to change their mentality, strong heart, the correct education is the most helpful to students.
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