How popular is "The Beginning"? It was so hot that some viewers did not dare to truly evaluate its last two episodes, which was so instigated.
Today we want to talk about a little character in it who appears for only ten minutes - Lou Cat's Apostle, Asthma Conqueror, Chosen One by Light, Mother flute - yes, Lu Di.
The roles of this drama are divided into two types, one is an important role, who has direct contact with the bus, including the people in the car and the police who can interact with the car, and the other is the story that has no interaction with the car to supplement the characters, and the role is not yet the ex-wife of Uncle Ma, who has not sold melons, and Lu Di's mother, who undoubtedly belongs to the second category. But she was so impressive.
On the maddening and suffocating middle-aged women in domestic dramas, especially the role of mothers, it is simply possible to make a big ranking of submissions, which can be described as a variety of tricks, Su Mingyu's mother in "All is Good", Fan Shengmei's mother in "Ode to Joy", Fang Xiangjin's mother in "An Jia", Ling Xiao's mother in "In the Name of Family", Zhu Chaoyang's mother in "The Hidden Corner"... Just by saying these names, we feel suffocated.
Even with these excellent "predecessors", Lu Di's mother did not lose at all, and she performed a completely typical performance in 10 minutes of lively performance - where are you? What time is it? With whom? Why not return? I'm waiting for you. You're young, you can't. You know what. I said no, no. obedient! I want to protect you, only I can protect you, I am all for your own good, because I am your mother! How do you not understand my good intentions.
Help me...... Every line she takes after her appearance is accurately stepped on the point, which is suffocating and maddening.
When she was pulling and reprimanding Lu Di, it was as if the whole world was only their mother and son, the surrounding environment and others did not exist, she could not hear or see, and she did not care about her son's situation at this moment, like dealing with a deadly virus, she immediately glued the cat hair on her son's body and pointed at his nose and scolded him in the police station, which was the only thing in the whole universe at that moment.
But in our opinion, the most chilling and sad move is not these classic quotes, but when she knows that her son almost got on the exploding bus and rubbed shoulders with death, she said in a tone of extreme reproach why she didn't tell them when she came home when she encountered such a big thing.
She saw her adult son's behavior in renting a house as "Lu Di, Lu Di, how do you say you can do it so much?" ”
Coincidentally, in the new drama "Sleeping Garden", which tells the story of the psychologist's work and love, a very typical single mother - Zuo Yan's mother- is introduced by a case. She didn't look at her daughter's boyfriend and desperately used mental pressure to break them up, and she said very reasonably, "I have not cultivated you for so many years for you to suffer with him."
And the soul torture we often hear, "It's almost 11 o'clock, why don't you rest?"
Mom also said that "man-made fiber things can not be bought, not pure cotton, are garbage."
"I give you the habits you have developed, and you must persist."
It is very sad that we always complain that the character settings of the male and female protagonists in domestic dramas are very fake and suspended, and there is no life and not realistic enough, but how can these mothers in domestic dramas be so "familiar"? Since when, the screenwriters' practical experience of love life has become more and more scarce, and the fear of being controlled by their mothers has become more and more real.
There was once a passage: There is a kind of cold called your mother thinks you are cold. Almost everyone resonates, the same world, the same mother. There was once a "gratitude" group on Douban called: Parents are scourges, although it is not in line with the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, but the story shared above may truly ruin a person's childhood or even require him to devote his life to healing.
(No such group has been identified)
At this time last year, many people were leaving tears of emotion for Li Huanying, although the movie wants to say that her mother was once a young girl, but in retrospect, Li Huanying's touching part is because of the gentleness of her loving mother, which has nothing to do with young girls.
We especially don't want the mothers' occasional small shortcomings, small domineering, and small mistakes to be magnified again and again by the "strange" image in these national dramas. Does suffocating moms exist? Of course, maybe there are a lot of them. But that's by no means the whole story. When a woman is old, in addition to staring at her children, how to have her own life decently, wonderfully and happily is the most important problem for Chinese mothers to think about and learn to understand.
If we have accepted the inevitable dilemma of modern society with lower and lower fertility rates and fewer young people, then the exploration of middle-aged and elderly lifestyles should be on the agenda.
In December last year, a generation of jade girls Zhen Zhen held a film festival, she was Xie Xian's first wife, Lin Qingxia regarded her as an idol, and now she is 73 years old. Also last year, Zhen Zhen's girlfriend, 66-year-old Lin Qingxia, posted a photo with her party, and Lin Qingxia, who had obvious slimming effects, looked particularly elegant and charming.
Beauty can last a lifetime, stay beautiful, love yourself, not selfish, a mother does not need to use the "always put herself second" way to show the greatness of maternal love, because being a mother is great enough in itself.
Author: Mie
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