The courage of Liang Jingru, the queen of love songs, is back.
I still remember that on September 8, when Liang Jingru held a new song sharing meeting, singing the main song "Slow Cold" was once suddenly difficult to suppress, hiding her face and crying, and then released the divorce news: I and Mr. Zhao have signed a divorce agreement, and my son is raised together.
On November 4, Liang Jingru made her public debut after her divorce, participated in the 2020 world tour conference, and responded to her life and feelings after divorce for the first time on the spot: "In these days, I myself am also a good mother, a good singer's profession, and then I also use my songs to heal myself. ”
From the end of twelve years of love singing to tears, to the frank face of the public to say anything again, less than two months.
No one wants Liang Jingru to get out of the haze so quickly, although she and Zhao Yuantong have so far been obscure about the reason for the divorce and maintained the only remaining dignity, but the rumors of Zhao Yuantong's second derailment have long been flying.
But Liang Jingru's love song eventually healed Liang Jingru.
In the 20 years since her debut, her more than 100 songs have taken the theme of women's emotions at different stages, exhausting the various possibilities of love, and these songs have healed countless people along the way, including Liang Jingru, who has been brave in street photography in recent days.
So which song of Liang Jingru's own gave Liang Jingru courage?
<h1>"Don't be wrong, you can meet the right."</h1>
Liang Jingru's breakup story is no different from thousands of men and women in this world, and even slightly embarrassed and dog bloody.
Before getting married, Liang Jingru had met a better object, martha on Mayday.
Fans waited for their love to take root, Martha also confessed her love semi-publicly at the concert, and Shang Kangxi was asked about Liang Jingru, and his answer was firm and decisive: It must be good to be a wife.
But in the end, the end of this story is just like the sentence in Liang Jingru's song: Unfortunately, it is not you, accompany me to the end.
In 2009, Liang Jingru met her ex-husband Zhao Yuantong.
In the beginning, two people also loved each other.
In the same year of the encounter, Zhao Yuantong proposed to Liang Jingru with a diamond ring worth 170,000 yuan. Later, it was a three-place wedding, and Li Zongsheng personally served as a witness to the marriage and handed Liang Jingru over to Zhao Yuantong.
By April 2014, their son Zhao Yichen was born, as if the story would go on like this.
Yet the calm surface of the lake rippled quietly.
It is said that Zhao Yuantong began to cheat in marriage, Liang Jingru saw it in her eyes, but she did not cry or make trouble, and chose to forgive, she thought that he would come back.
Even the love song diva is difficult to deal with the difficulty of real love.
But it is said that Zhao Yuantong did not change his heart after returning to the family, and once cheated on his former employee half a year ago, to this extent, Liang Jingru made up his mind to leave the relationship.
Some netizens broke the news in May that the husband and wife were already communicating about divorce, for these rumors, Zhao Yuanren first came forward to deny it, admitting that it was just a husband and wife quarrel, not a big deal, and perhaps maintained the relationship in front of the outside world.
A few months later, the paper package could not hold the fire, and they were exposed to be suspected of having separated, and Liang Jingru's agent immediately clarified: there is no such thing.
At this time, Liang's girlfriend Fan Weiqi jumped out to help them sit on the news of divorce, saying that she had vaguely heard about (divorce).
Then Hong Kong media again exposed that Liang Jingru passed by taxi in front of her love nest with her husband but ignored it and went directly to another residence, and people familiar with the matter said that the two had separated two months ago.
In the end, Liang Jingru publicly admitted on September 8 that the love was dead.
It was true that I used to love, and now I don't love anymore, and it is also true.
Feelings deceive people, but they can't deceive themselves.
Witnessing the gentleness of the world is marriage, and what breaks through the impermanence of human nature is often marriage, because Lang's heart is like iron.
Many people are not worth it for Liang Jingru, but they are reluctant to be with men with bad character, so it is better to jump out at the fastest speed.
"Don't be wrong, you can meet the right."
<h1>"Love really takes courage to face gossip."</h1>
People are naturally worried about Liang Jingru. Outside concerns often turn into rumors.
When she announced her divorce on September 8, she had an emotional breakdown. The two announced that they would raise their son together, but the reason for the divorce was not made public by both parties.
After the divorce, Liang Jingru was repeatedly rumored to be difficult to get out of the pain caused by divorce, and there are rumors that Liang Jingru is in a bad mental state and needs to see a psychologist to guide herself, which makes many fans worried.
It is the common sentiment of people to break up and hurt the gods, but high-level women can always explore human nature, and after seeing the character, cultivate a diamond heart and choose to rely on themselves.
A woman's sense of security is never given by a man, but by herself.
And Liang Jingru's bloody return was earlier than many people expected.
At the time of the CCTV Mid-Autumn Festival Gala, Liang Jingru had already appeared at the party, singing a new song and the song "Courage".
Launched a new album, Sun Yanzi immediately sang for her on the Internet, and reviewed her favorite Liang Jingru's works, and posted a group photo of two people, the two Queens of the Chinese music scene full of collagen, the most important thing is That Liang Jingru's face, can not see a trace of divorce yin.
Recently, on Halloween, Liang Jingru generously posted a photo with her son, wearing an exaggerated pumpkin hat and sticking with her son, and her smile was brilliant.
She didn't talk much about the divorce, she didn't condemn her ex-husband, everyone knew she had come out of bad blood, but she herself was very relaxed about the past.
All this makes people feel that in the past, they really underestimated Liang Jingru. After the love song queen, she is not a little woman who indulges in a breakup.
Where does a woman's sense of power come from? Not to preach a chicken soup or two that I want to become stronger, but to smile beautifully in the face of the real darkest moments of life.
Compared with Liang Jingru, who faded out of the singing world in the past few years, everyone found that Liang Jingru after the breakup was more active in business and worked harder.
But he is still trying very hard to live his life.
She wasn't afraid.
Not afraid, first of all material independence.
She is not married into the rich, let alone rely on her husband's support, in the face of betrayal naturally has the ability and confidence to turn around immediately.
There is also spiritual independence.
She does not feel that she cannot live without her husband, as she herself said, "I myself am also a good mother, a good singer's profession." ”
Things are uncertain, and divorce is not the worst outcome.
When a marriage is left with only struggle, suffering and compromise, bravely leaving this journey of consuming your own negative energy is not only a stop loss, but also the courage to start over.
As Liang Jingru told all women in the song: "Love really needs courage." ”
But many people actually misunderstand that love here is not only love for others, but also for love for oneself.
<h1>Liang Jingru grew up overnight</h1>
After this story, we actually see a very contentious Liang Jingru.
The 41-year-old female singer who is still singing love songs appears in this era of declining record industry and vibrato Internet celebrities, does anyone still care?
There are a lot of people who care.
Although many articles written about Liang Jingru, they often write about her debut time as ten years.
In fact, this year is the 20th anniversary of her debut.
Recently, she has been open frequently, and posted several selfies on social accounts, in which she is still not afraid of the camera, directly using large close-ups, and the two selfies are face-threatening photos. The melon eater noticed the state of her pink skin, and fans noticed that she was holding the single CD - "Grow up overnight".
That was Liang Jingru's debut song.
In 1996, Liang Jingru won the third place in the Conch New Rhyme Award in the Malaysian Singing Competition, Li Zongsheng came to Malaysia to select a new person for the Rolling Stones, did not select the first and second selected her, and took her directly to Taipei, 3,000 kilometers away.
The first album was recorded for two years, in Taipei, she was not good at singing because of the water and soil and respiratory allergies, Li Zongsheng sent her to Canada to record, or not. She ran back to Malaysia to rest, continued to record, and spent two years, "Growing Up Overnight" co-produced by Lee Zongsheng and Guang Liang, Who personally opened the way for her, telling the media many times that the reason why Liang Jingru was chosen was because she heard the "essence, the initial touch" of love in her singing.
When there was a big earthquake, all the album promotion activities were forced to be cancelled, and the song was not popular.
But Li Zongsheng did not believe in evil and immediately began to make a second one. A year later, she released her second solo album.
Taiwan's three major record labels alone sold 180,000 copies, and across Asia sold 1.2 million copies. Since then, liang Jingru's status as "love song queen" has been established.
This album is Courage.
By 2002, Sunrise, I Like it was released. "Happy Breakup" has become a famous song that accompanies countless urban lovers.
At that time, Liang Jingru naturally did not think that 17 years later, this song name would appear in countless reports of her divorce.
The general impression is that Liang Jingru can only sing one style of love songs, in fact, she has been changing in the field of love songs, and in "Swallowtail Butterfly" she began to try rock and roll styles. "Ningxia" is on fire again.
Over the years, her more than two hundred songs, like a gift to every soul who is hurt in their feelings, after the storm of emotions, ask them to take more care of themselves.
It's just that time is really too powerful.
As they walked, some people forgot when they came; including Liang Jingru's own people.
But it was from the end of this relationship that Liang Jingru finally became herself again and learned to love herself again.
The theme of all love songs is the same – "love".
If you take out the content, look at the essence, all love stories seem to be the same, meet, fall in love, she loves me, she does not love me, does not love the pain of displacement, love is faced with the understanding, communication, desire, disguise, conflict of the long journey, may not be able to persist to the end, do not love, do not mention the past ...
But the reason why we sing love songs repeatedly is because everyone can project themselves in different love song melodies and lyrics.
At a concert of Li Zongsheng, Liang Jingru sang on stage as a guest, she said that when she was young, she could not understand the lyrics of her eldest brother, and when she grew up, she slowly understood love.
Li Zongsheng once lamented that he had too many unsatisfactory feelings and hoped that this little girl could get what she wanted to find a man who cared for her.
But what about finding the lost.
There is the courage to love, there is also the ability to leave, and the ability to still maintain love, it is not terrible.
Of course, this relationship is hesitant and helpless, but Liang Jingru can get out of negative emotions and start a new life, in order to sing the melody of the moving chorus in the second half of her life.
When Liang Jingru couldn't sing "Grow Up Overnight" and wanted to escape, Li Zongsheng's words made her carry it down - "No matter what state of singing, it must be the same as why she sang in the first place." ”
"Grow up overnight", Liang Jingru's least popular album, is about the memories and growth of a 20-year-old girl before and after her first love and lost love.
Liang Jingru is 41 years old, but the growth of women is a lifetime, love, miss, love again, marriage, divorce, blood, chicken blood and dog blood love stories have passed, Liang Jingru experienced another night to grow up.
After bidding farewell to the scumbag, Liang Jingru's song healed Liang Jingru. In the end, it was she herself who gave Liang Jingru her own courage.
This love song that has encouraged countless urban night returnees for 20 years with love songs, sure enough, she still used a powerful Liang Jingru to tell us: Those love songs were not listened to in vain.
Everything is just like the name of Liang Jingru's new album - "How am I?" - The sun rises as usual".