In real society, of course, there are many good people, but it is impossible to have only gentlemen! So how should we deal with the so-called villains? Some people say that I can't afford to provoke, I can hide, which of course is understandable. So how did Confucius teach us to face villains?
Zi Yue: See the sages and think together, see the unwise and introspect within.
The method that Confucius told us was really an almost impossible task.
What Confucius said: A true gentleman, a person who takes the path of "benevolence", must love people and will not hate people.
If you meet a virtuous person who is moral, learned, and cultivated, you will try to learn from him, hoping to achieve the same state as him; but if you encounter villains or even bad people, you can use them as your own mirror, and you can reflect on yourself with the villain as a mirror.
You said that when you meet a villain, you can not be angry with him, that is already a very high recuperation, but that is not enough, the threesome must have my teacher, even if it is a small person who walks with you, you still have to have the courage to take the shortcomings of others as your own teacher, to this realm, is what Teacher Kong said about the gentleman's way of benevolence!