Hu Shi once wrote in "Dreams and Poems":
Only when you are drunk do you know that the wine is strong, and only when you love it is that you know it. You can't do my poetry, just as I can't do your dreams.
After getting drunk, I knew how strong the wine was. After loving madly, Fang knew how strong this love was.
After all, you can't be my romantic poem, just as I can't be a dream in your heart.
Mr. Hu Shi's feelings about the depth of love and shallowness revealed between the lines, the helplessness of love and not being able to love, in real life, how many people have experienced it with their hearts and lungs.
The flowers are delicate and fragrant, refreshing. Love, romantic and beautiful, desirable.
However, not all seeds can bloom brilliant flowers from the dust. Not all love can write a happy ending in reality.
In fairy tales, the prince and princess end up living happily ever after. However, in real life, two people who love each other deeply may break up as they walk.
Because reality is not a fairy tale, there will be many unpredictable changes in real life, and there are many irreconcilable contradictions.
Two people who love each other may also let go of each other's hands for various reasons, and from then on, they will break off contact, like strangers.
Even if the fate is broken and the connection is broken, the thoughts in the heart are difficult to break.
After disconnection, the woman who has truly loved you will have these 3 performances.
01. Always go where you've been
Not all people are in a relationship because of love.
Some people, possibly under pressure at home, due to age, external factors, etc., choose to be with another person.
In this way, there is no love in the heart, after separation, the other party's contact information will be decisively deleted, and from then on, the old and dead will no longer communicate, and the heart will no longer recall this person.
Because without love, it means that there is no concern, no thoughts. Even if you break the connection, you can walk out of this relationship freely and start a new life in a dashing way.
But when you lose someone you love deeply, you must not be so light and light, so understated.
After losing a person who has truly loved, the beautiful picture of the two people who have been together and the figure of the other party will linger in their own minds.
So, driven by this strong feeling of longing, he unconsciously walked to the place where the two often went, wandered around, meditated in his heart, and seemed to be longing for the familiar figure to appear in front of his eyes again.
A woman who has truly loved you will often go to the place where you have been together after disconnection, standing in the same place obsessively and nostalgic for the past, with a thought that can meet you unexpectedly.
It was a concern, a deep affection. If you have loved, you will be worried. If you love, you will have deep affection.
02. Don't be willing to throw away the gifts you give
When they fall in love, in order to express their affection, they will send each other a small gift on anniversaries, holidays, and birthdays.
After receiving the other party's gift, the woman will carefully treasure it, take it out from time to time, put it in her hand and play with it, and watch it quietly.
In her eyes, it is not an ordinary gift, it holds your love for her, your love for her.
Even if the two are separated, they are still reluctant to discard the gifts you gave, often shed tears, hold it in the palm of their hands, and silently recall the past of the two.
The gift you gave reminds her at all times that you have appeared in her life, so real, so profound. And she also enjoyed this form of love.
And a woman who does not love you, after separating from you, will not hesitate to discard the gift you have given, and erase all traces related to you from her own life.
Only a woman who loves you will be reluctant to discard the gifts you gave after the disconnection, keep the memories about you, and retain her affection for you.
It was a nostalgia, it was a reluctance. If you have loved, you will be nostalgic. If you love, you will not give up.
03. Secretly follow all your dynamics
If you have truly loved someone, even after separation, you will not let go of the past so easily, and easily let go of the past.
I will secretly miss you in my heart, often meet you in dreams, and open the chat records of the two from time to time to recall the good times they once had together.
Then, unconsciously, I want to know where you are, how well you are doing, where you are now, and what you are doing now.
As the song goes: Think of you in the crowded streets, are you okay now? But I can't give you the answer you want, but you must be happy.
A woman who has loved you deeply will always worry about you in her heart after breaking off the connection, can't let go of you, and secretly pays attention to all your dynamics.
It's a thought, that's an obsession. Only if you have loved, you will miss it. Only if you have loved, you will be obsessed.
Emotional Message:
Fate is easy to break, but it is difficult to miss.
A woman who has truly loved you will silently miss you and worry about you after the disconnection.
She will often go to the places you have visited together, reluctant to discard your gifts, and secretly pay attention to all your developments.
The reluctance shown by women after disconnection is actually flowing with deep affection for your money and tenderness for you.
But at that time, no matter how affectionate you are, you can't recover the feelings between you, nor can you recover the fate between you.
Rather than lose it, it is precious. Instead of missing out on it, I deeply regret it. It is better to cherish the encounter, cherish the fate, and cherish the woman in front of you who loves you deeply.
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