1.
Some people are hurt a little emotionally and no longer believe in feelings. They are not heartbroken, but their hearts are locked.
In fact, there is only one person who hurts you, but there are many people who love you. You reject many good people for one bad person, which is to punish good people with the fault of bad people. The more you are hurt, the more you have to believe in true love. Because you have learned what deception is, and you have learned what true love is — what love is
But we are so strange that every time we bear a wound of feelings, we will silently build a wall outside the door of our hearts, and the deeper the wound, the higher the wall, until we finally lock ourselves tightly inside
In this way, we are indeed no longer hurt, but we also keep true love out, leaving us with only loneliness. We can't give up the good love of the future just because we meet a bad person, and not getting love should be the punishment of the bad guy, not ourselves
02.
Love is a hundred years of loneliness, until you meet the person who is determined to protect you, at that moment, all the bitter loneliness has a way back. - "I Love You After All"
On the road of love, before meeting that person, we have endured too much loneliness and pain. Slowly, disappointment and scarring surrounded us. So we gradually build one wall after another in our hearts, we refuse to hurt, and we block true love
However, in the end, there will be such a person who will gently melt the ice in our hearts, and use warm and soft love to dispel those grievances and despair. And at this moment, we know that she is the person in life, and at this moment, all our bitterness and decadence are gone, and only the sunshine remains
03.
A person's greatest flaw is not selfishness, sentimentality, barbarism, and willfulness, but paranoia about loving someone who does not love himself. - "Why don't you send me a spring rain"
This shortcoming cannot be changed like other shortcomings, so the harm it brings to us is also the deepest, wishful love, and in the end only touches ourselves
Love cannot be exchanged for touching, it is a pure and noble rose, and touching may make it bend, but it cannot make it bloom to you. This kind of love, which is similar to stubbornness, in fact, we already know the end, but we are not willing to accept it, because we know that accepting this result means ending our love for her
And this kind of love is difficult for us to give up, and true love can only rely on mutual attraction. I am here for you, you are also for me, this two-way rush is the love worth pursuing
04.
I have crossed bridges in many places, seen clouds many times, drunk many kinds of wine, but I have loved only one person of the right and best age. ——Shen Congwen, "Xiangxing Scattered Records"
Sincere love, maybe really only once, the right person, maybe really only meet once
Our most innocent love can only be given once
05.
Take advantage of the sunshine and the breeze. While the flowers have not yet bloomed to the point of blooming, while they are still young, they can still walk a long, long way, and they can also tell very deep and deep thoughts. Look for the paths, mountains and fields that have appeared in your dreams. ——Bi Shumin, "Life must eventually have a journey that touches the soul"
Take advantage of the fact that you are still young, take advantage of the fact that you are still moving, to pursue the dream in your heart, do not wait until you are old and can't walk, and then think that there are still dreams to be realized