"Details see character, small things see people's hearts", in daily life, some details will always reflect the most real appearance of this person, even if there is material money packaging, it is difficult to hide the low character.
Character is not something that can be had with or without money, what is important is the education of the day after tomorrow. Not only the education of the school, but also the education of the family, which requires a two-pronged approach.
For example, on the bus, a young man does not give up his seat, and mocks the fact that pregnant women have no money to have any children, causing netizens to discuss hotly, what is going on? What should we think about not having children without money?
01, the guy mocked the pregnant woman for not having any money to have any children
It is understood that the incident happened on the bus, when the station arrived at the station, came up a pregnant woman, she was probably six or seven months pregnant.
At this time, there were no empty seats on the car, and the people were much more special, and the pregnant woman could only lean on the railing of the car, clutching the railing with one hand and supporting her stomach with the other hand, which made people feel worried about her.
Only to see that at this time, sitting on the love seat behind the pregnant woman sat a seventeen or eighteen-year-old young man.
Seeing these situations, everyone felt embarrassed and urgently needed a fair person to speak, and the driver turned to the young man behind him and said, "Give a seat to the pregnant woman!" ”。
Just when everyone thought that the matter was settled, the boy turned his head outside as if he had not heard, ignoring the eyes of the crowd.
The scene was very quiet for a while.
At this time, the big lady next to the young man also spoke up: "Young man, let's sit down, you are sitting in the love seat, young, healthy, you are also willing to sit, hurry up and let a seat."
The eldest lady was very imposing, and this call was also echoed by the people around her, and the young man saw the situation and stood up helplessly and gave a seat to the pregnant woman.
Unexpectedly, after he stood up, he said lightly: "I can't afford to buy a car, but I am still willing to have a child, is this not adding trouble to society?" The pregnant woman was embarrassed and did not say a word, but the people around her were angry when they heard this sentence.
In the crowd, there was a grandfather who spoke up: "Giving birth to a child, it is not to see if there is a car, whether there is money, but to see if there is the ability to teach the child well, if the parents do not teach well, the child is better not to give birth."
Uncle said this is reasonable, everyone agrees very much, who said that pregnant women can not take the bus? You can't have children without money!
The quality of the lads is worrying. According to him, I don't know if there is any other existence of him?
02, do not discuss the high and low in terms of rich and poor
It is not up to you to decide whether to have children or not:
The socio-economic conditions are better, but it is much more difficult to have a child than before, and it is necessary to prepare milk powder money in advance, early education institutions and other expenses.
Many people are worried about the burden of having children and are unwilling to have children, but it has never been the right of the rich to have children, and the promulgation of the two-child and three-child policy is also for the development of the whole country, not to see whether people have money to promulgate this policy.
The key to having a child is whether they can assume the responsibilities of parents and whether they can educate their children well.
Do not divide people by rich and poor:
Poverty is only a state of life, does not mean that you are poor and you are unhappy, your spirit is not good, you can not divide people's rank because of this.
After all, everyone's potential is infinite, no one can be poor all the time, as long as he does not violate the laws of the country, others have no reason to interfere with your childbirth.
In China, which has such a large population, there are still many poor people, and the rich only account for a minority.
Everyone does not have children because their family conditions are not rich, then the society lacks the injection of fresh labor, social development stagnates, and the rich will not last long.
Everyone wants to be rich, but without the existence of the poor, how can there be rich people, both are interdependent.
For children, the material life is much stronger than in decades, going in and out of private cars, living in the city, and touching tall buildings.
They had never been exposed to country fields and muddy paths, lush woods, and small rivers where fish and shrimp frolicked.
But in kindergarten education, even if you are in good condition, part of these lives is also common sense. For example, the teacher tells the child in advance, lets the child experience the bus and subway, and shares it in the next class.
As well as outdoor activities and plantations, children can experience how to cultivate crops and experience the joy of harvest.
So don't be so shallow, to take the bus, the subway, don't divide people's rank and family conditions in the countryside and the city.
In the cities there are people without money and children who have no job, and in the countryside, there are also rich people and children who are out of work.
Everything cannot be too absolute. A truly rich person should be a state of material abundance and spiritual abundance.
It is not a material comparison, but a high and low level between people. There are too many people in this world who are better than you, and there are too many people who are richer than you, and if you continue to compare like this, you will never have a day of relaxation and happiness.
03, write at the back
Life is alive, each of us is trying to live, if you decide your happiness by the gains and losses of the daily family income, your heart will always be entangled in today's income, and ignore the real fun in life.
There are also many great people in the world, they also have bad birth conditions, but they have reached the highest state of life through their own efforts, created great wealth, such a life is meaningful, and these lack of parents' education, this is how much wealth, can not be exchanged.
Parents, rich or poor, must educate their children to study hard, contribute to society, and pursue a full and meaningful life.
Instead of blindly throwing money at children.
Educating children is not only to give money to children, but also to let him learn knowledge, deal with people, abide by rules, and cultivate the prosperity of children's spiritual world.
Let them have a grateful and reverential heart for everything, reverence for life, reverence for nature.
For the old, weak, sick and pregnant in society, we must have good thoughts, respect, and a sincere and kind heart to cope with everything in life.