Text: Cradle of Love
Use the simplest words to give you warmth, give you companionship, lead you to grow, and help you be strong.
It is often said: "Life is short".
Yes, life is very short, time is like a white colt through the gap, fleeting.
In this lifetime, people are long and long, and short and short, and a lifetime is also a flash.
It is precisely because of its brevity, so we must cherish it extraordinarily, take every minute and second of life seriously, and cannot perfunctory time, let alone perfunctory love.
Love is a part of life, life is so precious, we must spend it with people who deserve it.
Loving the right person is worth it for a lifetime; loving the wrong person, the rest of your life is tears and regret.
On the road of feelings, we must insist on ning deficiency and non-abuse, even if you are alone, you can't just find someone to settle.
Inappropriate feelings, inappropriate other half, will only increase pain, is the existence of painting snakes.
In the face of feelings, be sure to choose a person who loves each other. Only by loving each other will we cherish each other and not hurt each other.
People who don't love you, people who give you pain, are inappropriate objects; being with inappropriate people is equivalent to self-harm.
No matter how much you long for love, no matter how lonely and empty you are, for the rest of your life, you can't love such a person, it will only increase your troubles and pain.
Love people who have a family, that's stupidity
In this world, the most untouchable love is the feelings outside of marriage.
Extramarital feelings, that is the high-voltage line, all the people who touch, either dead or injured, none of them will have a good ending.
Having a family means having a commitment and more responsibility.
Whether you are willing to be destroyed by others, or to destroy other people's families, it is an immoral thing, it will cause trouble, and it will ruin your happiness and the rest of your life.
When you meet someone with a family, no matter how heartbroken, you can't love, that's a trap, it's an abyss.
Once you step into someone else's marriage, you are hurting yourself while hurting others.
Such feelings will not have a good ending, but will only hurt both sides.
Feelings, the purer the better, the more innocent the better.
To love, a person who wants to love a free identity, you can love each other unscrupulously, you can give each other identity, you can give each other status, you can give each other a future.
Someone said: "Not running to get married in love is playing hooligans." ”
A person with a marriage, can't give you marriage, still talking about love to you, is playing hooligans on you, don't be confused anymore, hurry up and put it down.
Love makes you humble, that is lost
In the relationship, the most feared thing is that the relationship is not equal, and you are always inferior.
The days of inferiority are like sending people under the fence, and they can't lift their heads.
That kind of you, all the efforts, are all in the flattery, are all pandering.
That kind of ending, tired of yourself, still can not get a trace of return, all the efforts are a waste of busy work.
Some people say: "The person who truly loves you never needs you to be deliberately flattered, even if he is handsome, learns to dominate the universe, is rich enough to rival the country, and has power over the world." ”
The person who truly loves you does not need you to deliberately please, you can still maintain your pride and nobility.
With each other, you have to love humbly, it is not real love, but it is not worthless love.
Falling in love with someone who makes you humble, that is a loss in the feelings, don't be aware of it, and stop the loss in time is the best policy.
Love someone who is cold to you, that's self-harm
Love is actually a process of being considerate of each other and warming each other.
With people who love each other, in the rest of the road of life, they will not be lonely, they will not be lonely, and they will not feel cold.
With people who truly love each other, even in the cold winter, that heart will still be warm.
The person who gives you warmth is the right person and the best partner for the rest of your life.
If a person gives you only cold, ignores your love, or is impatient, or does not speak inferiorly, it is not the best choice.
In the face of his coldness, you will slowly be disappointed, slowly chilled, and finally die after being scaled and wounded.
Instead of waiting until the end to lose, it is better to end it early, and there will be no end anyway.
Why are you still injured, struggling in pain, being tormented by pain.
Many times, long pain is not as good as short pain, and if you make up your mind, you can pull yourself out of the sea of suffering.
Loving someone who is cold to you is as if you are self-harming, and your love is exchanged for a dagger that pierces your heart, sad and pitiful.
Love, like gambling, has too much uncertainty.
When you love the right person, the rest of your life is happiness; if you love the wrong person, the rest of your life is regret.
But you have the right to choose, precisely because the ending can be tragic, so be more cautious and careful.
Love, perhaps a painful journey, will inadvertently suffer pain.
The person who makes you hurt, just let it go, that's the wrong person, it's not worth it at all.
In fact, the world is so big, there is always someone who comes for you, will truly love you, will cherish you enough, and will spoil you with his life.
The right person who left the right person will have a chance to come.
Love the wrong person, no longer reluctant, let alone nostalgic, dashingly turn around and leave.
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Author: Love to read, love to write, love to think, dare to love and dare to hate the northern girl. A freelance writer, an emotional mentor who has helped countless people out of psychological difficulties.