The older you get, the more you find that everyone's life is not easy, especially in middle-aged women, there are old and young, she will feel that she has no life of her own, and even feel that she is very fateful.
But to be honest, most of the women who complain about the hardships of life are of their own making, and there are always some people who do not succumb to fate and live their lives with taste.
Just like Aunt Su, who was very popular some time ago, she is 56 years old, and she is willing to toss and turn, a person driving around the world, many people may feel that they are so old, just live like this, anyway, life will not be better.
But Aunt Su chose to respect her own ideas, even if she is no longer young, she also wants to live for herself once, at least without regrets, and it is she who chooses to be herself, thus doing things that dare not be thought of, many people admire her, take her as a role model, and want to live like her.
Therefore, the fate of some women is mostly self-inflicted, may you not become such a person, but become a person who lives seriously like Aunt Su.
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He will only complain about the hardships of life and never know how to change
When people reach middle age, everyone has their own suffering, work does not develop, life is a mess, and these pressures often make her not know how to be good.
Every time at this time, she began to complain about why she was so miserable, could not find a satisfactory job, and could not find a person who was willing to share for herself, and could only silently bear everything.
But the more she complained, the more she felt that life was only bitter, and she completely forgot to look for the sweetness in life, so how could she live her life well?
Everyone has a difficult time, instead of complaining about the fact that it cannot be changed, it is better to live a good life with your heart, when you are stressed, you can do something you like, chat with friends, or go out to relax, and then go back to face life, instead of complaining, it is better to change.
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There are too many things to worry about, and I don't want to let go of others
Some women always like to take care of big packages, whether it is their own business or not, they want to worry about it, especially family and children, she will focus on this.
She often complains that she is this life, and she has not met the person who is willing to worry, so she has to worry more about herself and pay a little more for the family.
But think about it, who caused this consequence? It's not herself, if she's willing to let go and let her family help share it, don't always think that he can't do this or that, then of course she will be more relaxed.
The more things you worry about, the more you will feel that life is very bitter, and it is inevitable that there will be some complaints in your heart, rather than this, it is better to let go, what you should give your partner to do, let him do it, rather than taking on everything yourself, that will only feel very tired.
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The economy is not independent, always "palm up"
In life, those women who often complain about the hardships of life, most of them are not financially independent, whether for subjective or objective reasons, they no longer have the ability to make money and become a woman with their palms facing upwards.
Since you have chosen such a life, don't complain about the hardships of life, after all, no one has a difficult time, and your suffering may not be in the eyes of others, and it is nothing.
If you really feel very bitter, then it is better to find a way to go out and make money, make yourself financially independent, and no longer spend a penny with the other party, so that you will be more valuable.
When you make a change, you will no longer complain about the hardships of life, but feel that life is full of hope.
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Conclusion
Sometimes, a woman's life is mostly self-inflicted, she often complains about life, but is not willing to make changes for this, so that it will only become more and more bitter.
And those who can live a good life, never complain, but do what they want to do, even if it is not easy, but at least happy.
When you realize your self-worth and start to be yourself, you will no longer feel that your life is suffering, but you will spend more of your mind on life, and you also have the ability to live your life well.
I hope you can become such a woman, instead of just knowing how to complain, not knowing how to live a good life, and in the end it will only become more and more bitter.