Bloom once said:
"I used to love the wrong person and thought that my feelings were very tired, but now I understand that the people who really hurt you and care about you will not let you suffer." 」
Deeply believed.
Love, can really change a person, maybe once he, do not know how to accommodate, do not know thoughtful, habit of escape...
However, when there is really a person in his heart who wants to protect, then his body will can't help but learn how to love you, do his best to give you the best, and let you feel the most comfortable happiness.
So-called:
"Loving or not loving the body is the most honest."
In your emotional life, a person who truly loves you will definitely be someone who can spoil you with his body.
The eyes were full of tenderness
There is a saying:
"The most desirable romantic appearance of love is nothing more than that, no one else in the eyes, all around are you, no matter the passage of time, always love you as ever." 」
The eyes are the windows of the soul, whether a person really cares, what comes out of the eyes cannot deceive people.
A person who truly loves you, then look at your eyes, will be soft, appreciative, let you feel the most comfortable warmth.
In the TV series "Zhou Sheng ru gu", Zhou Shengchen is the little Nanchen king who kills decisively and has made great achievements in battle.
He was cold and heartless in the presence of his enemies; he was cold and wise in the presence of others, and he never saw any emotion.
However, only cui shiyi was treated differently, and when he looked at cui shiyi, his eyes were full of tenderness and pampering.
Sanmao said:
"You can't hide a person, even if you cover your mouth, you will run out of your eyes."
In fact, gentleness is not a talent.
No matter how high and cold a person is, but anyone who wants to be gentle, then he can always do that softness and maintenance.
A person who truly loves you, as long as he is in front of you, his heart will become very soft and gentle.
And all of this will be revealed through the eyes, so that you feel the strong warmth of being loved.
The eyes are the truest embodiment of the heart, a person whose eyes are full of tenderness for you, then he must be a person who cares about you.
The mouth is full of pampering
I have seen such a sentence:
"When a man cares about you, you cough and he thinks you're cold; and when a man doesn't care about you, you die, he sleeps when you're sleeping."
It's heartfelt, but it's real.
For someone who doesn't love you, he won't care if you eat on time, whether you bring an umbrella on a rainy day, whether your body is uncomfortable, because you are just dispensable in his heart, and he has no motivation to care about you.
But once he falls in love, then he has a concern in his heart, and he also has a weakness, and your every move will touch his heart.
I have seen a video like this online:
There is such a couple, the wife is on the second night of the business trip two people on the phone, the husband on the phone, to the wife nagging: "Tired of work? "Is it cold?" "Didn't you bring enough clothes?" "Have you had a good rest?" ......
In the face of her husband's nagging, although the wife complained: "Can you not treat me like a child!" ”
However, from the corner of his wife's mouth, a sweet look, he could feel that his wife was enjoying it and enjoying the happiness of being cared for.
Maybe that's the truest way to love someone.
Because the heart cares, so it will be worried about everything, even if you know that the other party can cope, there will inevitably be worries in your heart.
I really like this sentence:
"In love, what matters is not appearance or bread, but care and pampering, because it makes me feel that I am important in your heart." 」
People who really love you will have a warm greeting in their mouths, because in the hearts of those who love you, they will care very much about whether you are doing well.
The arms are full of responsibility
Writer Bi Shumin said:
"A good man and a good woman, in the days of common suffering, although they have two hearts, they have only one thought--to move forward in the same boat."
Whether a person is sincere to you may be difficult to distinguish when your years are quiet, but you will certainly be able to see clearly when you are at a low point.
The person who truly loves you will not leave you when you are helpless, but will open their arms, share for you, and bear all the storms and mud with you.
Friend XiaoYun, married for four years, in four years two people have the crystallization of love, life is sweet and happy.
Talk about why Xiao Yun eventually chose to marry him, after all, Xiao Yun looks beautiful, and it can be said that there are many suitors before.
And Xiao Yun just said this sentence:
"Because when I was the hardest, the most embarrassed, the most in need of help, only he was willing to stand in front of me and run for me. That's when I identified him. “
Zhang Xiaoxian said:
"We're all lonely until we meet someone else and let us know that life can be less lonely."
True love or non-love is never about whether you can be rich and noble, but whether you can share hardships, after all, the feelings that can withstand the test of wind and rain are precious.
A man who loves you will not make you feel lonely and helpless, because no matter what problem you encounter, there will be him behind you.
Hugo says:
"The greatest blessing in life is to be sure that someone loves you."
The greatest happiness in life is never because of youth and excitement, but because of being loved and shining.
For the rest of your life, be sure to find someone who is willing to spoil you with your body.
Then work together to resist the wind and frost and fight against the long years.
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Author: Away from the rain slightly cool, a rational, emotional, like to use words to express personal views, bring you spiritual healing, emotional solution, life perception of the post-90s writer.