Wen | snow fell without dust
In this life, in order to live a better life, we will always have a lot of ideas, and there are many impulses to realize our own ideas. However, people's energy and time are limited.
Whatever we do, we can't do everything. Therefore, grasping the focus of life and doing things that are meaningful to yourself is the most important thing.
In the book "Breaking Away", it is said that reasonable planning of life, cutting out complexity and simplifying, will use the least power to achieve the greatest achievements.
Life, abandon useless socialization, throw away useless things. Low-key people, high-profile work, keep the family, will live a stable and comfortable life.
This is, the "three important things" of life, grasped, from then on happy and worry-free.
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First: be low-key
The ears of grain in the rice fields bend down when they ripen in the autumn, and the same is true for people. Smart people are low-key, and only low-key character will achieve a noble life.
Cross-talk actor Yue Yunpeng was very poor at home when he was a child, and dressing and eating became a problem. Yue Yunpeng often picked up her sister's old clothes to wear, and was often ridiculed by her classmates when she was studying. Later, Yue Yunpeng dropped out of school at the age of 14 and went out to work.
He came to Beijing and became a north drifter. He's been to factories, he's been a waiter at a restaurant, he's swept the streets. Later, he went to Deyun Society on the recommendation of a friend.
In deyun society, Yue Yunpeng is honest and generous, down-to-earth and hardworking, and is very loved by master Guo Degang.
Once, Yue Yunpeng's mother was ill, and he really had no choice, so he turned to his master's mother for help, but he did not expect that his mother readily agreed. Not only did he lend him the car, but he also introduced him to the doctor in Beijing to treat his mother.
Guo Degang once said that Yue Yunpeng did not have the talent to talk about cross-talk, because he was diligent and studious, sincere, and impressed Guo Degang, who passed on the cross-talk craft to Yue Yunpeng.
Yue Yunpeng has been ups and downs all the way, and through his own efforts, he has today's wind and water. But he was still the former Yue Yunpeng, without a trace of pride.
Even his own wedding was held in his hometown, just like the weddings of ordinary people.
Character changes destiny, fate changes life.
The reason why Yue Yunpeng succeeded was because he was humble, easy-going, and low-key. If he is not humble and easy-going, how can he be deeply loved by Guo Degang? If he had not been honest with others, not only would he not have achieved what he has today, but he might have folded back on the road to the north.
The earth is low into the sea, and the people are low into kings. Many successful people are low-key. They do not show the mountains and dew, but they have a thinking and pattern that ordinary people do not have.
A person's maturity and competence often begin with his low-key personality. Being a low-key person is a person's character and demeanor, which will allow you to find your own position in the bustling world and harvest your own success.
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Second: do things in a high profile
When Dong Mingzhu was a child, she was the "pearl in the palm" of her parents and lived a very happy life. However, after marriage, when Dong Mingzhu was 30 years old, her husband died of illness and left a debt for medical treatment. In order to repay the debt, Dong Mingzhu went out to work to earn money.
Her first job was sales, she was very high-profile, once because the customer did not pay back the arrears, the customer took a step with her, and finally the customer finally paid off the arrears.
Dong Mingzhu fought very hard, cut all the way through the barriers, and achieved the position of president of Gree.
In life, her education for her son was also a textbook, and she did not allow his son to mention her at school. The child has already gone to middle school, and no one in the school knows that he is Dong Mingzhu's son.
In the company, she personally went down to the canteen to supervise the food; to build a house for the employees, she said that every employee of Gree must have a house to live in...
In life, Dong Mingzhu is low-key, but he is unambiguous and very principled in doing things. It is said that there are no rules and no circles, and it is necessary to cultivate both inside and outside to be successful in the career.
Looking at every successful person, it has a lot to do with the way they handle things. Only a person with a big pattern, a high-profile work, and a person who dares to fight and dare to fight is likely to succeed.
Such a person, even if there is a big storm in his life, will see a rainbow after the rain; his personality charm will make life repay him, and his life will be simple and happy.
Even if a person does not have much achievement, as long as he works seriously and rigorously, and lives every day freely, he will be very happy.
Someone once asked Dong Mingzhu: "What will happen to the cause of success?" ”
Dong Mingzhu replied: "If you are a housewife, you will be a good housewife, and if you are a worker, you will be a good worker... You just have to do what you're supposed to do and you're successful. ”
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Third: Guard the family
Lin Yutang said that the ideal family life is to have a gentle wife and several lovely children.
With the love of his life, he realized his ideas. After getting married, he gave all his time except writing to his family. He lived happily with his wife and children, which made people envious.
In fact, the family is our smallest unit, and it is also the only familiar place in the strange world that can inhabit for a lifetime.
Here, you can be yourself defenseless and unscrupulous.
No amount of wealth is as harmonious as the family, and no matter how big the feast is, it is not as happy as the family.
No matter how busy Li Ka-shing is at work, he eats with his family every Monday night.
Zhou Guoping said that home is a small boat that will carry us through such a long time.
The world is very big, we always think that we can go anywhere, but home is the best place to go.
Even if the whole world betrays you, your family is still your strongest backing. It is also the place where you run all over the world, but you are still warm.
In a person's life, the greatest success is not to have money, not to have a career, not to have status, but to have a harmonious and happy family.
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In a person's life, if you want to be carefree, don't be vague about three things
One is to be a low-key person, the other is to do things in a high profile, and the third is to keep the family.
There is a saying that every piece of wood, removed part of it, can be a Buddha.
Life is the same, how simple it is to live. Removing intrigues and deceit, and returning to the basics is the most decent way to live.
Low-key people, high-profile work, keep the family, will live as they want, will have a happy life.