Still divorced...
When getting married, it was Ma Jianyue's lonely courage and his son Zhang Ertiao who was in a hurry to pass away, and when divorced, he handled the formalities in a low-key manner, thanked the past, and was well with each other.
To tell the truth, the two broke out of the divorce, netizens are not surprised.
After all, when it comes to Ma Jianyue's marriage, everyone who has seen "New Life Diary" knows that from the very beginning, it was not optimistic, which was not only optimistic about the netizens, but also Ma Jianyue's family, especially Ma Jianyue's father.
How much did Ma Jianyue's father object to their being together?
Opposition to rage, angry at home to throw bowls, slapping himself, opposing to the reason why he agreed, or relying on the sword to cross the year refused to go home, hard to his heart soft had to agree.
After Ma Jianyue and Zhang Jie received the certificate, they organized a dinner party to celebrate the new marriage with relatives and friends, and ma's father did not give the son-in-law any face in the face of the camera and the crowd, and said: "The more you and Ma Jianyue are together, how can He De be?" ”
"My family," for example, I worked hard to raise a pot of flowers, raised it for more than ten years and twenty years, just flowered, and the flowers were gone."
"You are not good to my daughter, you are really very troublesome, not good for my daughter, that is not good for me, can you afford it?" So, you're honestly good to my daughter! ”
By the time the couple recorded "The Diary of a Freshman", everything had settled, and Papa Ma's attitude towards his son-in-law was still not so receptive.
And there is a reason for the uneasiness and anxiety of the father-in-law.
First of all, the emotional foundation of the two is relatively weak.
The two have only been in love for half a year, it is Zhang Jie who Ma Jianyue actively pursues, in Zhang Jie's heart, although the cute girl in front of him is good, it is not his ideal type. Born in 1994, Zhang Jie longs for a sister-like lover, and he needs a sense of companionship. Obviously, with Ma Jianyue, his role will most likely not be a younger brother, but an older brother who is responsible for taking care of the other party.
This relationship was insisted upon by Ma Jianyue.
Perhaps because Zhang Jie passively accepted himself, Ma Jianyue did not have much sense of security in this relationship.
When she was pregnant, she met with Fu Seoul and bluntly said that her husband was too good, worried that other people had ideas about her husband, and snatched her husband from her hands. When Fu Seoul comforted her husband that if he cheated on him during pregnancy, he was too inhuman, and asked in a panic: What if he really wasn't a person?
Secondly, the two are not mature enough.
Knowing that the relationship was still unstable, he did not plan to get married and have children, but he still got pregnant unexpectedly.
After pregnancy, life is completely disrupted, time is tight and the task is heavy, many problems that have not been thought out are too late to think slowly, the child grows up in the stomach day by day, they argue day by day: "Do you want a child in the end?" How to raise it? Do I want to change the house? ”
Without the stability and happiness of those mature couples who have been prepared to welcome their children, Ma Jianyue and Zhang Jie were in the early stages of Ma Jianyue's pregnancy, which was a chaotic situation and a gloomy family atmosphere.
It wasn't until they decided to leave their children behind that the atmosphere eased up, but unfortunately, they wouldn't take care of themselves until Mom and Dad drove the ducks to the shelves.
Ma Jianyue and Zhang Jie's home is messy, the small couple's daily diet relies on takeaway, poor work and rest have not improved, and the obstetric doctor has repeatedly told him not to stay up late...
Moreover, the economic foundation of the two is also weak.
Ma Jianyue has just lost his reputation in the entertainment industry, relying on the excellent performance of "Strange Story", to be honest, there are not many announcements, and there is no planning for the future.
Zhang Jie opened a tavern, the business is not good, there are not many tables of guests in the store every day, in the "New Student Diary", he is planning to rent out the pub during the day to share the cost to increase income.
How does this make Papa Ma not worry about his daughter?
The child has just grown up, will not take care of themselves, found a boyfriend without a stable job, and will not take care of themselves, the formation of a family to rely on the elderly on both sides of the non-stop ding and help, this marriage and because the child has to be married, is a father to be angry to the back.
Of course, despite the rush at the beginning, in this marriage, there is still happiness and sweetness, Ma Jianyue is no less show of love, this boy she super super likes, enough to support her for a long time, there is love to drink water.
During the epidemic period, after Ma Jianyue's 24th birthday, she and Zhang Jie were "unfortunately" locked up at home for more than a month, completing the arduous task of a small couple with a baby independently. During that time, although the interview between the two could see fatigue, they could also see each other and struggle together, both love and a sense of alliance of war friendship, and it seemed that the emotional link was deeper.
The two have also completed the transformation from children to parents, from eating takeaway to relying on their parents to learn to stir-fry, everything is developing in a good direction.
It is a pity that no marriage ends, but if it is really inappropriate, it is also a rational choice to end it early.
May Ma Jianyue and Zhang Jie be all right.