Most women do not know whether the man around them is really in love with themselves, always worried that their efforts do not have the slightest return, and even women think that if it is only their own unilateral payment, then this relationship should not be over, in fact, Xiaobian only wants to persuade women not to be so pessimistic.
In fact, want to know whether men love you or not, first of all, when you have this question, it is a good explanation that you can not feel the love of men at all, and the way men express love may be very subtle, but it will definitely be expressed. If you really want to judge whether a man loves you or not, then these five suggestions are for you.
Every day, whether men will take the initiative to contact you
A man who loves you definitely wants to be with you all the time, even if he can't be together, the man will definitely contact you frequently. On the contrary, a man generally contacts you for ten days and a half, or even does not contact you at all, but waits for you to take the initiative to contact him, then this kind of man definitely does not love you.
The man who loves you, no matter how busy he is, will squeeze out time to contact you, and the kind of man who does not contact you is not that he is busy, but that he will not take the initiative to contact you at all. While you're still waiting for him to have a good night, he's still having a good time with someone else's woman.
Second, whether men will talk to you from the heart
The man who spends money for you doesn't necessarily love you, but the man who is willing to take off all the disguises in front of you and speak to you is definitely in love with you, and he trusts you. If it is said that when a man speaks to you in his heart, he will still shed tears, then this man's love for you has gone deep into the bone marrow, and men have a good face, so the man who can shed tears in front of you must love you, on the contrary, a man who does not love you will never take off his disguise to tell you the truth, let alone cry.
Third, whether the man will confirm the relationship with you
A slightly better woman will definitely have a lot of suitors around her, but there are few men who love you, most men are perfunctory through rhetoric, and only men who really love you will confirm the relationship with you as soon as possible.
When you message him, will the man reply to you as soon as possible
A man who loves you, you set up a special attention, therefore, men can always know your information in the first time, so the man who loves you will reply to you as soon as possible, even if the meeting fails to reply to you in time, the man will also call you to explain after the meeting, on the contrary, a man who does not love you, even if he is very idle, see your message, he will also directly ignore, will not consider replying to you, when you call him to ask him, he said that the reason why he did not reply to your message, It's because he's in a meeting. However, women should know that it is impossible to have meetings every day, from nine o'clock in the morning to five o'clock in the afternoon!
Whether men will thank you
The man who loves you will naturally thank you for your efforts, and will also thank you for your understanding, but a man who does not love you will take your efforts for granted.
Men who love you know that a relationship absolutely needs to be maintained by each other, and if it is only one aspect of the payment, then the relationship is doomed to not last. Therefore, the man who loves you will thank you for your dedication to the relationship, and the man will also be considerate of you, tolerant of you, and spoil you.