Eating alone, going home alone, playing alone, thinking about things alone, all of this, summed up in a noun called loneliness.
Zhang Zifeng, a Chinese girl living in a foreign country, lives proudly and reservedly in her own world, no one knows that it is just her protective color, until one day, a boy named Wang Junkai appeared in her world.
"Let's be friends", the person who showed the iconic smile of Xiao Hu teeth, called Xiao Kai. He suddenly and gently came to Zi Feng's face.
Think about it, there will always be some people who appear in their lives in a special way, unlike those who are general friends, as if their existence has a redemptive meaning, to get you out of trouble, to make you feel warm. He gave you encouragement and courage.
"I'm actually very afraid of saying goodbye to others, so I think it's better to just keep a strange relationship with them, and it won't be so troublesome."
No one wants to be estranged all the time, and perhaps those who resist are just to avoid harm. No one likes to leave, but if parting is inevitable, can you give up at the beginning?
"In China, 'bondage' means being entangled and unable to get out. In Japan, however, it means to be connected. Chinese will say that the connection between us is getting closer and closer. The Japanese, on the other hand, will say that the bond between us is getting closer and closer. ”
The relationship between people is not simply addition, subtraction, multiplication and division. The feelings between people cannot be rationally controlled and relaxed. Yes, without a beginning, naturally there will be no harm. But there is no beginning, and there is no joy and happiness.
No one can fully enjoy loneliness, and at some point, there will always be a need for the company of others. This need, perhaps for a particular person, in any case, always has a bondage. Is this bad? Two unrelated people, life has intersected, there is a bond, this is a very magical thing in itself.
"The relationship between two people is actually like a state of inability to get out and be entangled. I don't think it's a problem, it's actually a very natural state. Whether it is family affection, friendship, or love, the emotional state that human beings yearn for is not like this? ”
Man is rational and emotional. Being needed by others, affirmed by others, and deeply loved by others are all natural things. It is precisely because of these needs that the meaning of life is embodied. Afraid of getting hurt? Scared! However, if you try to take that step, you can meet more friends, you can get rid of loneliness, you can dispel loneliness, even if you are injured, you should try it! I want to be a little more bound to him, a little more, until one day, so much that I will not be separated again.
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