For many children, their closest partner may not be a child, but some small things that are often placed around them, which may be pony dolls, or may be pony hats, for children, only close playthings are the best partners in their hearts.
Many children go to a strange environment, if there is no company of these "good partners" around, they will not be able to sleep or even cry, which also makes parents look very helpless, and try their best to let children quit this "bad habit". Why do children have fetishistic behavior? Are pony dolls too appealing? What should parents do about their children's fetishistic behavior?
As children grow up, they more or less have their own favorite toys or objects.
Children need attachment
With the gradual growth of the child, when it is not realized that they cannot get enough attachment to the parents, the psychology will produce anxious small emotions, in order to be able to soothe their own anxiety small emotions, the child will shift the attention to the dolls around him.
The child is detached from the familiar environment
When the child's growth environment and living habits change, it will cause the child's psychological pressure, and it must rely on something to make the child no longer afraid of the strange environment. Many parents will find that when children go to early education centers, they always rely on things at home, such as dolls that accompany children to sleep, small quilts, etc., leaving these items will make children anxious and afraid.
Lack of parent-child companionship
Many parents will only take a small amount of time to accompany their children because of busy work or social interaction, which is unable to give their children enough care, which also leads to many children because of the lack of parental company, have to entrust their feelings to other items, forming a "fetish".
When a child has fetishistic behavior, just do it!
Hug more
Parents need to give their children enough security during their children's sensitive periods, and even if the child is upset about doing something wrong, they can hug the child. Regular hugs will give children the hint that we are by your side; Mom and Dad love you very much; don't be afraid, we are always there, you will be safe and so on, these loving hugs will make children feel the love of their parents, thereby reducing their dependence on objects.
Take your kids out for a walk
Parents can increase their children's outdoor activities, let children have more contact with the outside world, make friends with a few children, appreciate more cultural and natural landscapes, to broaden children's horizons, so that children can form independent ability, cheerful personality, so that the attachment to objects will also be reduced.
High-quality companionship for parents
This is important, what is high-quality companionship? High-quality companionship lies in engagement, listening, and feedback. For example, you can spend 10 minutes a day to concentrate, put down your mobile phone, put down your work, concentrate on making games with your children, doodling together, doing crafts together, talking about picture books together, and so on.
When parents are fully engaged, it is a kind of acceptance and respect for children, and it is a concentrated embodiment of loving children.
In fact, the child's "fetish" is not a bad thing, the existence of the appease is a transition for the child to gradually move towards independence in the process of growing up. We must treat it correctly, do not force it, and we must give our children more love and patience.
Pony Run Early Education Center makes children happy and meaningfully happy!