Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
-01-
All along, taking the initiative, that has always been one of the more obvious signs of love.
"Love is an instinct."
This instinct will make people take the initiative, take the initiative to love a person, take the initiative to take care of a person, take the initiative to protect a person...
The person who really loves you, he will always be very proactive. All the initiatives that cannot be hidden, that are because of love, and all the perfunctory, that is because there is not so much love.
If you love, you love equally. You are good, I am not bad, never go and exchange humble love for a person's love and care.
If you like a person, you should pay something, but this payment should still have its own principles and bottom line.
Love someone again, and you can't be too humble. Too humble love, can never be exchanged for care.
When a person becomes no longer active, it is tired and disappointed.
-02-
Love is mutual, and if there is only one person to give, it is wishful thinking.
In love, although you should be affectionate and should not be too calculating, you still have to talk about the object and be measured.
The right person will not ignore your good, and will not often let you suffer from gain and loss. When you are always doubting whether the other party loves or not, when the other party is always not active enough, in fact, you should understand that he is not so loving at all.
A man who truly loves you, he will not be careless to leave you alone, regardless of it. But in front of a person, you seem too non-existent, too unvalued, you have to quickly turn around and leave.
The guy who speaks nicely, but often doesn't look for you for days, as if he doesn't have you in his life at all, he may also like you a little.
-03-
I saw a sentence on Weibo with high likes:
The heart is a very expensive thing, giving it to the right person is priceless, and giving the wrong person is worthless.
Oh, yes. After seeing more of the routine of hypocrisy and falsehood, I feel more and more sincere and kind.
People get along with each other, there is never much to take for granted, only people who really love you will not ignore these details.
Some people love you no matter how much you give, it will only be a waste of time. In this real society, people who can do not care about you and do not care are obviously not so fond of you.
Who is true to me, I am attentive to whom. People who have been active for too long will also be tired, and people who have been active for too long but have not received emotional responses also want to give up.
People-to-people interactions do not require too many skills and too many means, as long as they pay sincerely. You don't cherish yourself, you love humbly, how can others cherish you and your love!
-04-
The world of feelings is hard to support.
Good feelings must be mutual, two people looking in the same direction, paying in both directions.
In fact, you don't have to be so sensible, you must learn to stop getting used to pleasing others and find your true self.
In the feelings, I am not afraid of not loving, I am afraid of love to the person who has failed you,
Sometimes you love someone as hard as you can, but you never get a response. Some love you no matter how much effort you spare, it can only be a waste of time.
If you don't mean it, I'll turn around.
People's hearts are getting colder day by day, but enthusiasm does not respond, efforts are not cherished, and sincerity is not treated well. Every disappointment loses a point of enthusiasm until it is worn out.
If you can't walk the road, you will turn back, and those who love but can't let go, your love is precious, and people who don't cherish you will never be worthy.
A girl who likes words and coffee, I am glad to meet you in my words, and I am willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.