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Recently I saw a lot of emotional videos, which saw a topic with particularly high likes and comments. After saying that after breaking up, can you still be friends?
Different people gave their own answers to this question. I believe that there is no absolute answer to this question, it depends on the wishes of the parties themselves.
My personal experience tells me that as long as it is two people who have truly loved each other, they cannot be friends after breaking up.
Because you can't stand a person who used to be so in love, become a stranger, and greet each other every day, which is absolutely impossible.
As long as you have loved, there will be a gap in your heart, and you can't get along like friends. Being able to be friends can only mean that they don't love it so much.
Since they are separated, forgetting each other is the best respect
In this world, many things are not as beautiful as imagined, especially two people who love love and do not really love each other can go to the end.
Since you can't be together, separation is the best way. For two people who have truly loved each other, separating from each other and not disturbing each other is the greatest respect for each other.
If you can continue to maintain or contact each other after separation, and you can treat each other like friends, it can only mean that you do not love as much as you think.
Loving someone can't stand being just a friend, and you want to have it. Since they are doomed to have no results, forgetting each other is the greatest affirmation of this relationship.
Feelings are such a thing, you can't deceive your own heart. As long as you still like it, and love, you naturally can't be a friend.
Therefore, for the two people who broke up, there is really no need to have illusions, and your self-righteous affection may be a kind of trouble for others.
Instead of clinging to the past, it is better to look at it yourself and respect each other, which is the most important thing to do.
Once feelings are separated, there is no going back
Seeing that in real life, many people are divided and merged, in fact, most of them will not have a good ending for such feelings.
Good feelings are not to want to leave, but better to cherish. You know, a person's true heart is only once, and when it is consumed, it is gone.
You think that a short separation will make you more aware of yourself, but you don't know that once many things are separated, the meaning has changed.
When you choose to push each other away, your feelings have come to an end, and even if you are together again, you can't return to the original form.
Feelings cannot withstand consumption, and once a rift appears, there is no way to go back to the past.
Just as you have loved someone, you have loved someone so hard and begged him not to leave, he threw away your hand in spite of himself.
The rest is that you are sad alone, and when you slowly repair yourself, the other party will come back to you, at this time you have already recognized that you will not repeat the same mistakes.
Therefore, once the love of a person is separated, it can never go back to the past, even if they are together, it will not be the same mentality as before.
Separation means incompatibility, and saying goodbye is the best way for each other
A good relationship, in fact, will not lose to anything, will only lose to not love.
What external conditions, height, family background, these are not the most important things, to put it bluntly, it is to see how much the other party loves you.
The person who truly loves you, he will handle it together, will not let you fall into this situation, and will choose you without hesitation.
When you are separated because of other things, there is no need to complain to each other, and the feelings that can be separated are incompatible and unloving.
That being the case, a person has chosen to leave, and all you have to do is say goodbye and start your life all over again.
For those who can get along like before after separation, they have not loved at all.
People who have truly loved, after separation, will only want to stay away from life without you, and will want to start living their own lives again.
Therefore, for two people who love each other, they will officially say goodbye, and then they will never contact each other again and start a new life of their own.
summary:
In fact, it is difficult for people to be able to afford to put it down, but sometimes they have to force themselves to put it down.
For people who have loved once, they may remember for a lifetime, but they will not want to meet and will not become friends. Instead, in a world without each other, slowly start your own life.
Therefore, people should learn to say goodbye and have their own attitude towards feelings, so that they will not be trapped by feelings.