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Mother En had seen a news before that a 58-year-old man in Yingcheng, Hubei Province, had beaten up the police in the hospital.
Here's what it looks like:
Sun's daughter-in-law successfully gave birth to a baby girl in the hospital, and the two young people only planned to have a child, and agreed to do sterilization surgery immediately after giving birth to the baby!
At that time, Sun's wife was also in the hospital, and as soon as she heard that the young talent had given birth to a daughter and was about to be sterilized, she called her wife to stop it in a hurry.
After Sun Arrived at the hospital, he found the operating room and began to make a big fuss, and even slammed the door hard in an attempt to hinder the operation process!
He did not allow his daughter-in-law to be sterilized without permission after giving birth to only one daughter, and asked the doctor to take the fallopian tubes back no matter what.
Later, the hospital was overwhelmed and called the police to help coordinate, and the old man actually injured the police.
After this matter was fermented, it triggered extreme dissatisfaction among netizens.
When does a woman's fallopian tubes also need to be managed by someone else?
More netizens joked:
"If you have to have a son, does your family have an imperial succession?"
Mother En was more distressed about the mother lying on the hospital bed: she had just walked through the ghost door, and as a result, she could not be at peace on the operating table.
The in-laws did not ask a single question about their newborn granddaughter, nor did they care about their daughter-in-law who was still in the operating room, and they only had the so-called "incense inheritance" in their hearts.
I don't know if the mother can't think about it, but if it were me, this grievance would definitely be remembered for a lifetime.
If the husband can withstand the pressure of his parents, not to be in the company of ignorance, and know how to appease his wife and really be good to her, perhaps the marriage can still be considered to continue.
I am afraid that men will not be reliable, and the in-laws will be disgusted, and if they do not divorce, the future days will be difficult.
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Giving birth to a child is going to die, and this statement is really not a joke.
In the documentary "Shengmen", there is a story that impressed me.
Xia Jinju is a 32-year-old woman, this is her second child, the child is very healthy, but the placenta is on the surgical incision of the caesarean section.
Doctors judged this dangerous placenta previa, but it didn't stop there, because her placenta had gone beyond the uterus and into the bladder.
To qualify in one sentence, this surgery is very risky!
The high-risk surgery is shocking, and the child finally lands safely, but the mother is not so lucky.
Xia Jinju was bleeding heavily after childbirth, if she wanted to save her life, she had to cut the uterus, and if she insisted on keeping the uterus, then her life was basically hopeless.
In this moment of life and death decision, Xia Jinju on the operating table chose to protect the uterus, the blood has been flowing, the medical staff have tried their best to save it, and when Mother En watched, her hands were trembling with nervousness.
Her father wanted to keep his daughter's life and firmly said that he wanted to cut off the uterus, but when he returned to the operating room, Xia Jinju begged the doctor bitterly: she was only 33 years old and did not want to lose her uterus at such a young age.
However, Xia Jinju's physical condition did not allow her to be so stubborn, and in order to save her who had fallen into a coma, the doctor finally performed an excision operation for her.
After the uterine removal, Xia Jinju was still hovering on the verge of death, and when the operation was performed at the 37th minute, her heartbeat stopped, and after the doctor rescued her, it stopped again until 1 hour and 17 minutes.
Although the two stops of heartbeat have been saved, but the situation is still not optimistic, the doctor while notifying the family of the critical illness, while competing with the god of death for time, under their efforts, in the 3rd hour and 50 minutes of the operation, Xia Jinju finally got out of danger.
In the nearly four hours of surgery time, Xia Jinju lost 13,000 milliliters of blood, which is equivalent to 4 times of blood exchange in a person's whole body!
This great mother was transferred to the general ward after 11 days in the ICU, which also announced that she had walked through the door of death and returned to the human world.
This documentary is called "The Gate of Life", which is also the Gate of Life.
A door apart, or a lifetime.
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I always hear people say that having a child will know whether it is a person or a ghost who marries.
On August 31, 2017, a pregnant woman in labor in Yulin City, Shaanxi Province, fell from a building and died.
She wasn't out of her feet, and she wasn't depressed.
The doctor said that the fetal head is too large to give birth, otherwise it is easy to bleed heavily, and the pregnant woman is in pain that she can't stand it, and she kneels on the ground several times and asks her husband and in-laws, hoping that they can sign and agree.
This family crackled and said a bunch of reasons, the attitude is very resolute, must be smooth!
Pregnant women were forced to be helpless, she did not expect that the person she married was so ruthless, and chose to jump off the building in despair.
I think she probably didn't think it was worth it!
It's not worth taking your life to have children for someone else!
Some men, some families, always seem to worry that their inferior genes will not be passed on, and then put pressure on pregnant women.
It is not okay not to have children, it is not okay to give birth to girls, it is not okay to give birth, in short, pregnant women seem to be a fertility machine in their eyes, which can be at the mercy of them.
Mom had a friend who was elated when she first got married and always showed us off how well she married.
Her in-laws' family is relatively economically relatively good in our hometown, and at the beginning it was good for her, her husband took her out shopping every day, bought her gifts, and her mother-in-law never asked her to do things.
But there is one requirement: a son must be born!
Unfortunately, the girlfriend gave birth to two consecutive daughters, in fact, she herself did not care about boys and girls at all, and did not want to have another child after the second child, and as a result, she was forced by her in-laws to have three children.
What is even more infuriating is that her mother-in-law always makes various folk remedies to force her to drink, saying that she can give birth to a boy after drinking.
Later the girlfriend got pregnant with twin boys (not the role of a folk remedy!). Don't be superstitious), but it also completely damaged her body, and I always thought that after the dust settled, her life would return to its original state.
Until the other day, she cried to me and told me that she found her husband cheating.
Because she has been having children, her girlfriend's figure has changed greatly, her face has grown many spots, and her lower abdomen is also covered with stretch marks.
She desperately met the needs of her in-laws and tried her best to be a good wife and a good woman, but she ruined her marriage and health.
Giving birth to a child is like a ghost closing the door.
In fact, Eun Ma can understand that some people try their best to have a baby, after all, everyone wants different things, and they are naturally willing to pay for it if they like children.
But I still want to say that women know how to protect themselves at all times.
Whether we are born or not, how many should be born should depend on ourselves, not be coerced by others.
Women are not fertility machines, nor should they be.
De Beauvoir wrote in The Second Sex:
"Women must be liberated in two ways, one is the right to make self-determination about whether to have children or not, and the other is work."
So, remember! Click "watching" and no one can get past a woman and make decisions for her body.