Master Nebula said, "The relationship between giving and giving is like cause and effect, cause and effect are related, and giving and receiving are also interactive." Those who can give up must have the heart of a rich person. ”
If people have a willing heart and do not give up, it is impossible to get what they want. But in life, many people are too stingy to give anything.
Miserly people, they have no compassion for others, compassion, unwilling to give to others any material or spiritual help, in the long run, their fate is getting worse and worse, step by step into the predicament, career decline, network breakdown, the door is cold, relatives and friends have abandoned them.
Master Nebula once stressed, "Because if you give up, you will get something, this is inevitable." So, how do we deal with giving and receiving in life?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="42" >01 to get cohesion and combat effectiveness</h1>
I have a friend who worked hard to earn a family business and started a hardware factory. However, because he was very stingy, he usually withheld the wages of the workers and ignored the workers who had difficulties in life. The workers left the factory one after another and went to other factories with better welfare. His factory was facing closure because it had no workers.
I took a friend to meet a successful boss Li, who said: "Being a boss is like doing farm work in the field, there is no sowing (house), where is the harvest (getting)?" As the boss, we must sow compassion and love in the hearts of the workers, and the workers will return the favor to the factory manager, take the factory as their home, and work diligently and diligently!"
Seeing that my friend and I nodded in agreement, Boss Li further emphasized: "Managers, we must have a willing heart and cohesion, otherwise people's hearts will be scattered." When the boss, do not be too stingy, only want to make money, regardless of the feelings and wishes of employees, unwilling to help them, you can not get their sense of responsibility and spirit of responsibility. ”
After listening, the friend sighed and said: "No wonder my factory is on the verge of closure, it turns out that I was too attached to personal interests before, and to be a boss still has to have a sacrifice before I can get it!" ”
Throughout the ages, those who have achieved great things have been good at "giving up", sacrificing themselves for others, willing to pay a price, willing to be willing to be small, in order to get the big self, get the cohesion of everyone, in order to enhance combat effectiveness, invincible, invincible.
Miserly people, extremely selfish, calculating others everywhere, even harming others and benefiting themselves, are bound to make enemies everywhere, are passively beaten everywhere, and when there are difficulties, they will inevitably not get the sympathy and help of others.
People with a willing heart, wherever they go, are full of pride, generosity, charity, and helpfulness, which naturally win the hearts of the people and have a strong cohesion and appeal.
People with a willing heart, full of affinity, frank and frank, generous, full of personality charm, naturally have good interpersonal relationships, people around them are very trusting and willing to do things with them, and work together to create a great cause.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="54" >02 to get the inner sunshine happiness</h1>
People who are too miserly often have a very dark heart, are depressed because they are too concerned about personal gains and losses, and live a very unhappy life.
A friend's wife works at a landlady in Suzhou surnamed Li. Boss Li is stingy to the point of bitterness and meanness, has no love for employees, and regards employees as suffering hardships and losses. For example, the apples she bought could not be eaten, and she would rather put them there and let the apples slowly rot, rather than give them to employees to eat.
But Boss Li guards his wealth and is not happy. She kept a straight face all day, as if someone else owed her a million, and the employees saw that she was hiding far away, afraid of hitting the knife edge. Gradually, the talents under her were poached by other bosses who had "sacrificial hearts" and human touches.
It can be seen from this that if a person does not have a "heart to give up", it is easy to get into the eyes of money and self-imprisonment, self-torture, can not climb out of the prison of selfishness, and the heart is getting darker and darker.
Only with "giving up the heart" can we open multiple heart windows, let the light spread throughout the corners of the soul, and obtain the great light and happiness of the heart. Only when a person always has a "sacrificial heart" can he be cheerful and open-minded, be kind to others, see others happy and himself happy, and have a broad heart.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="62" >03 can form a benign transmission of love</h1>
In life, people who do not have "heart-sacrificing" often have too small a pattern, think only about their own interests in everything, cannot see how important the interests of the whole are to themselves, only care about the local interests of individuals and do not care about the overall interests of the public, and eventually their own interests become water without a source, a wood without soil, and will inevitably wither and perish.
And people with high vision, big patterns, and big pursuits are convinced of the view of "I am for everyone, everyone is for me", and they understand that only by letting go of their own small interests and cultivating the interests of the whole can their own interests be guaranteed.
Captain Zhang Daci of Zhangjiawan is generous and has a "heart of sacrifice".
After the division of the fields to the household, his wife did not allow others to cross the water from her family's rice fields, saying that she had washed away the fertilizer in her family's rice fields, so she quarreled with the villagers, and the relationship was very stiff.
After Captain Zhang Daci saw it, he advised his wife: "Don't be hurt and angry with the villagers in the township, don't quarrel, it is convenient with others, it is convenient for you." The little fat in the rice field should be given to the villagers! The fertilizer is washed away, and we can fertilize again! From then on, the villagers were allowed to cross the water from his family's fields.
Unexpectedly, the later development of this matter was unexpected, and the villagers were grateful to Captain Zhang for the spirit of "giving up the small family to take care of everyone", and every household rushed to fertilize his family, and the fertilizer in the rice field was several times more than the fertilizer originally sown by his own family.
Therefore, with "giving heart" and "love", we can let "charity" and "love" pass through the crowd, pass it on for a while, and then pass it back on to ourselves, forming a virtuous circle, thereby promoting the harmony and harmony of interpersonal relationships.
"Giving up" and "getting" are mutually causal, mutual nourishment and coexistence, those who are good at "giving" will be good and "get", and those who are good at "giving" will prosper and develop, and they will be blessed and noble. And those who are too miserly are bound to isolate themselves, lose their ways and lose their way, and go into decline.
If we want to become a successful and happy person, we must give up miserliness and greed, be open-minded and generous, treat people generously, have a "willing heart" to be convenient with people everywhere, everyone gives me convenience, and the cause is booming.
Author: Mr. Senmei
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