In 2009, a young man with sound limbs and good health was starved to death in a farmer's home in Xinyang City, Henan Province.
His name was Yang Suo, and he was known as China's first slacker, and he died of laziness at the age of 23.
Yang Suo is the realistic protagonist in the fable story of "Hanging Cake Around the Neck".
This tragedy has to start from the beginning.
In 1986, the Yang family in Zhutang Township, Luoshan County, Xinyang City, Henan Province, gave birth to a big fat boy who was white and tender.
In order to keep a child forever, parents named it Yang Suo.
The Yang family has been single-handed for several generations, and Yang Suo's parents are old and have children.
Therefore, the whole family loves this child very much.
Holding it in your hand for fear of shattering, holding it in your mouth for fear of melting, it is really not an exaggeration at all.
Parents really love Yang Soo, from childhood to adulthood.
Therefore, Yang Suo did not learn to walk until he was four or five years old.
Despite being a rural family, Yang Suo's parents took care of him in a way that many urban families could not match.
No matter what delicious it is, parents are reluctant to eat it, and they all give it to Yang Suo to eat.
To eat, he never had to reach out, but his parents fed it to his mouth one by one.
Once, the family came to the guests, and the parents entertained the guests with chicken legs.
After the chicken leg was eaten, Yang Suo still shouted to eat.
Without chicken legs to eat, he cried and made a lot of noise, so his father immediately went to the market to buy it for Yang Suo to eat.
Gradually, when Yang Suo was 8 years old, he went to school.
His parents were afraid that he would be tired of walking, so they put him in a basket and carried him with a flat shoulder.
In order to avoid himself walking and bumping, this situation continued until Yang Suo was ten years old.
In fact, the ignorant Yang Suo, he also thought about helping his parents do some farm work, but they were all stopped by their parents.
Overly doted on by his parents at home, he has become accustomed to a life of not having to do anything.
At school, he doesn't listen to lectures and doesn't write homework.
On weekdays, the father's and mother's various accommodations made him take it for granted that everyone should follow him.
Therefore, it is difficult for him to make friends at school, and he often has conflicts with his classmates.
He did not take classes seriously on weekdays, and the teacher criticized him a few times.
After returning home, Yang Suo immediately complained to his parents.
As soon as they heard that their son had been wronged, the parents indiscriminately went to the school to find a teacher theory.
Over time, there are more and more things like this.
The teacher, in desperation, gave up the discipline of Yang Suo.
As a result, he did not learn anything in school, went to school for several years, and was still illiterate and could not read a single character.
Unfortunately, when Yang Suo was 13 years old, his father died of illness.
The mother supported the burden of the family alone, but unfortunately the mother's health was not good.
There was no way, only to ask Yang Suo to do some chores, it was Yang Suo, who had already been lazy, not only did not go, but also punched and kicked his mother.
Because Yang Suo had nothing to do every day, his mother died at the age of eighteen due to overwork.
After losing his parents, Yang Suo's life was not smooth.
Although he is 18 years old, he is not unable to survive on his own.
Fortunately, his cousin Yang Deyu took him in.
The cousin worked in a construction team in the town, so he asked Yang Suo to go with him.
When he arrived at the construction site, he felt too hot and didn't do anything, so he ran home by himself.
Later, murakami people introduced him to the hotel as a waiter.
After he went, he not only did nothing, but let others serve him, and finally he was sent back by others.
In desperation, he sold everything of value in the family.
Finally, simply beg in the village and go door to door begging for food.
The meat dishes given to him by the villagers were hung on the eaves of his house, but he didn't bother to come out and get them, and these meat dishes were often spoiled.
He never washed his clothes, and when his clothes were dirty, he threw them away and changed them.
Occasionally, after a full meal, he fell asleep, sometimes even for a day or two.
I was so hungry that I couldn't hold on, so I came out to beg for food again.
When it was cold, he didn't want to go out to the toilet, so he cut a big pit in the house and solved it on the spot.
To keep warm, he also burned all the furniture in his home.
In the long run, Yang Suo has been four walls of the family.
There were only a few worn-out clothes on the ground, and the whole house was filled with a foul smell.
The winter of 2009 was exceptionally cold, and Yang Suo's cousin, who had not seen Yang Suo for a long time, planned to send him some clothes and food.
When I opened the door, I smelled a bad smell, only to see Yang Suo curled up in the corner of the wall motionless.
When the cousin approached, he found that his whole body was stiff and breathless.
Later, after examination, it was found that Yang Suo had actually starved to death.
Listening to his cousin, Yang Suo is the best-looking, smartest, and laziest of their 8 brothers.
The teacher who once taught Yang Suo also said that Yang Suo was very smart, but he did not want to learn.
And often told his parents about blackness, and over time he went with him.
A tall, able-bodied young lad being starved to death seemed more like a joke.
In recent years, we have spoken more and more about the influence of the original family on people.
And Yang Suo was killed by his ignorant parents.
Parents doting on their children not only raises flowers in the greenhouse, but also canaries in the nest.
It will also raise a waste person like Yang Suo who does not even have the basic ability to survive.
Yang Suo's parents' unrestricted doting on Yang Suo not only caused him physical laziness, but also caused him spiritual damage.
In 2010, Yang Suo's deeds were made into a movie to warn more parents.
Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans for them.
Parents who truly love their children will think about their children's future, not just the comfort of the present.
We need to understand that coddling is not love, but a sweet destruction of the child.