Every relationship has its own mode of getting along, not having to be together every day to be truly in love. Long-term feelings must be inseparable from a comfortable state, can be sincere to do their own time together without getting tired, and do not feel disgusted for a long time. Those lovers who really maintain their love in the long stream of thin water, the mode of getting along is indeed worth learning.
1: Personal needs are the most important
In love, there is no such thing as a certain model or social need, and the most important thing in the relationship is you and not the eyes of others. For example, if you want to do it, it is not necessarily that boys are taller than girls, or that boys make more money than girls to be happy, Valentine's Day may not necessarily follow the eyes of society to send flowers and receive gifts to celebrate, and those seemingly happy relationships in society are not necessarily the best for you. According to the uniqueness of the two people in the relationship, to work out your own way of getting along and principles, such a relationship will ultimately satisfy the two of you.
2: Do moderate dependence
Moderate dependence allows relationships to be maintained for a long time, striking a balance between the contradictory states of "dependence" and "independence." Moderate dependence and respect is an ability to blend intimacy and autonomy without overly flattering. The key to many long-term relationships is that each other can do their own thing, and they are evenly matched with the other half, and the state of harmony is naturally exchanged for comfortable getting along.
3: Not too demanding
Two independents live together and it is important to respect and understand each other. Long-term feelings, is never forced to do what they don't like, will not be too possessive and controlled, you force a moment, forced can not be a lifetime, one day the other party will not be able to breathe away from you. Especially don't ask the other party to change, this is the kidnapping of feelings!