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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Any relationship needs to be active, and if both parties are passive, the relationship is difficult to last.
For women, when they love someone, they will show enthusiasm for you and have a very strong initiative.
Where are you, are you busy, good life, can you come to accompany her, etc., women will care about you in these small things, will take the initiative to inquire into your various situations.
In fact, this is how a woman cares about your performance, and if she wants to be with you, she will give all her love.
On the contrary, if women have been inactive to you and never cared about you, then they are not concerned about you. Once she doesn't love, she will give up on you and will not continue to associate with you.
She will not ask you anything, will not chat with you, will ignore your information when she sees you, she will reject you in her heart, and her actions will be more indifferent to you.
The fact that a woman is no longer active with you means that she has completely eliminated you and will not give you any more opportunities, and men do not have to pester her, which is meaningless.
Therefore, men must understand that women give up the typical performance of a person: do not take the initiative to find you.
First, play with you to disappear, ignore everything about you
If a woman doesn't love you anymore, she will play with you and disappear, not want you to find her, and will not ask you everything.
In her mind, you have become unimportant, and she will not care about you, and will behave very repulsively to you.
Even if you take the initiative to come to her, she does not want to ignore you, with a cold attitude and no trace of enthusiasm.
The woman who truly loves you can't play with you and disappear, if she cares about you, she will pay attention to everything about you.
And when a woman wants to give up on you, she will not give you care, even if it is not explicitly stated, but she will be particularly cold to you in action.
At this time, you may not do anything to make her heart move, your enthusiasm will feel uncomfortable in her eyes, she will not take the initiative, and she will lose the meaning of love.
Some men see that the woman is not active, suddenly disappears, and is very humble to please her, in fact, this effect is not large.
Because, a woman completely abandons you, she will not be easily emotional.
After Miss Zhao and her boyfriend fell in love for a year, she felt that she was incompatible with her boyfriend and did not want to continue to interact.
She can't stand that her boyfriend always restricts her, such as she wants to buy a nice dress, and the boyfriend pulls her out when he sees the price.
For example, she and her girlfriend went out to buy a bag, and when she came back, she would be counted down by her boyfriend, who thought she was not saving and felt that a bag did not need to cost thousands.
Although Miss Zhao spent her own money, the boyfriend still felt that she spent a lot of money, and the two people often had conflicts for this reason.
In the end, Miss Zhao was disappointed, did not have any expectations for her boyfriend, and gave up in her heart.
In this way, Miss Zhao often plays disappearing, has no initiative for her boyfriend, and does not want to see him in her heart. The boyfriend took the initiative to come to her, and she was not interested anymore and was particularly indifferent to him.
So, a woman really gives up on you, she will not easily turn back, the feelings are cold, and the love is gone.
A woman who truly loves you will instinctively want to be with you and will not let you find her at all, which is the typical difference.
Second, leave you without warning and completely break the connection
The woman who plays with you disappears and may occasionally appear in front of you, but when she leaves you without warning, she is completely disconnected.
At this time, the woman will no longer appear in front of you, almost cut off all contact with you, and may even delete the contact information.
She won't see you, she doesn't want to see you, she doesn't love you, and she doesn't have any expectations.
Once a woman makes up her mind to leave you, she will become very decisive and will not entangle with you at all, and maybe you will not find out, and she will quietly leave.
In her heart, it is not that you must be, and she does not want to have any intersection with you.
If a woman is discouraged by you, she will not take the initiative to find you anymore and will quickly exclude you from her life.
In fact, a woman who doesn't love you leaves you without any warning.
She won't give you a chance to keep her, for no reason, no need to say goodbye to you, and the feelings disappear.
Maybe she has already shifted her goals, maybe she doesn't want to waste any more time on you, and she doesn't want to continue to consume herself, and her sudden departure is a signal of complete determination with you.
If a man finds that a woman is doing this to you, don't have any more illusions, she doesn't love you anymore, and all your efforts are meaningless.
Women are truly desperate, very indifferent, she will firmly draw a line with you, and will no longer have anything to do with you.
Therefore, when a man encounters such a woman, he should not pestering her, instead of humbly currying favor, it is better to leave a little dignity and leave with dignity.
Third, do not take the initiative for you, completely dead hearted
Ms. Chen and her husband have been married for five years, she is a very family-oriented daughter-in-law, very diligent at home, very friendly to others, favored by neighbors.
However, her husband did not love her, and when he returned home, he not only did not have a good face, but also often picked her faults.
For example, every time she made her husband's favorite dish, her husband said that the taste was not good, and she did not have any sense of gratitude.
The big and small things in the family are handled by Ms. Chen alone, and her husband never helps, and even feels that all this is what she should do.
Over time, Ms. Chen's heart has gradually become cold, she has suffered too many grievances, has never been loved and cared for by her husband, and eventually becomes extremely indifferent.
In the fifth year of marriage, she was no longer as enthusiastic about her husband as before, and she no longer cared about her daily life, and truly ignored everything about him.
She no longer took the initiative for her husband, nor did she have any expectations, so she was completely dead hearted.
Therefore, if a woman really gives up on you, she will no longer care about everything about you, and her heart will become very hard, and you can be said to be worthless in her eyes.
When she loves you, you are all she is, and when she doesn't love you, you are nothing.
The woman who gives up on you will not give you any response, even if you take care of her in every way, she will be difficult to move.
Because, she once gave you her heart, but you did not cherish it, and when she lost it, she would not look back.
This requires men to cherish the women around them, if you don't cherish, wait until she is completely dead to you, you may lose her forever.
In this world, true love needs to be maintained together, and if one party can't do it, it may affect the development of feelings.
If a man has failed a woman, when she completely abandons you, she does not have to entangle, she will not be moved, she has long been like a stopping water, everything you do has no value.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Ye Qincheng said: "Women can love men or dislike men, but the most taboo is to love him while hating him." ”
Indeed, what women need most in their feelings is to be treated tenderly by men for a lifetime. If you don't love and cherish her, it will definitely make her cold and eventually share things with you.
Therefore, if men love women, they must love with all their hearts, and never cold their hearts.
Once a woman's heart is cold, she will force herself to give up on you, thus leaving your life and completely cutting off contact with you.
She will play with you and disappear, ignore everything about you; leave you without warning, completely disconnected; be unactive to you, completely dead hearted.
This is the typical manifestation of a woman giving up on a person, she will not take the initiative to find you in the future, will disappear into your sight forever.
If so, men should not pestering her, but rather wav goodbye to her with dignity, and perhaps leave a little respect for each other.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.