Fifty years old only began to watch videos to practice yoga, ten years of grinding a sword, her kung fu on the city local Taida ren show, she organized the fifty or sixty-year-old male and female group of friends, to the park on the dam on the grass next to the small river as the activity venue, leading the parents to persist in practicing for many years, to create a white-haired male and female Iron Man team, perennial activities in the Xiaoling River bank, become a beautiful landscape! She is my fitness group master yoga instructor and styling director Yingjie!
She and I met on the Municipal Public Welfare Yoga Team, knowing each other last summer. Last summer vacation for 40 days, it was the golden time for our group of friends to learn yoga skills with her, every morning, we got up at 5 o'clock and went to the red pavilion on the north bank of the Xiaoling River to practice yoga in the morning, and the teammates practiced high-difficult yoga movements such as the handstand back bending wheel eagle from the small white who only had simple movements. And one of the tricks is that she not only teaches everyone to do yoga, but also creates various movement models for students of different degrees every day, and then photographs or records them, so that everyone will see their own progress every day, thus stimulating morale. Progress is rapid.
Time flew by, the forty-day holiday was over, I practiced with her for the last time at the lotus pond to take pictures, and then I went to work. But I look forward to retiring and returning to the group, practicing with her, rehearsing styling, and learning more skills and techniques...
Finally waited for this summer vacation, I retired, but the yoga feast I was looking forward to with her in the summer was not held as scheduled, but I received a thunderclap from her WeChat message:
"Hello sister: I haven't seen you for a long time, and I miss it so much!" The other day you were asking me why I had no news, I didn't tell my sister the truth, in fact, I was sick, very sick! It is advanced lung cancer, accompanied by brain metastases, bone metastases, and lymphatic metastases. It's the end of life, and the doctor says it's life-threatening at any time! ............. So I don't want to tell others, for fear of destroying my sister's emotions, letting my sister worry for me, just go quietly! Now that two months have passed, my condition is basically stable by taking targeted drugs, so I miss my friends a lot, miss the good times we had yoga together, I can't imagine that all this has become a memory, and sometimes I can't help but cry when I watch the video... At the same time, I also remind my sister to learn my lessons, do a physical examination every year, do not think that you are very healthy and ignore the potential risks of your body, and go to the hospital in time if you are unwell. I was delayed, I was sick years ago, I have been delayed at home for two months, so that the disease developed to uncontrollable, really can't go to the hospital, everything is too late..... So don't leave your regrets to yourself, cherish yourself, cherish the present, live every day, and wish your sister more care! [Hug] [Shake hands]"
This sudden blow caught me and my friends off guard, a thunderbolt on a sunny day, how could such a thing happen? How can this be without reason? She is such a good person, whether it is skill or to deal with the world is a goddess in our minds!
In the summer vacation, our morning exercise is still yoga continues, whenever we see the various venues where yoga is done with YingJie, it will arouse our memories, everyone sometimes says that tears fall down, sometimes rainy and cloudy days can not practice in the morning, everyone sends previous photos and videos in the group, recall those wonderful moments and good times together, listen to the song of "You Are Coming Back" sad, tears rolling cheeks!
After waiting for a few more years, I finally met Ying Jie in the hospital inpatient area, and the next day the group of friends also met the strong Ying Jie in the park near the hospital, and everyone did a hand-shaking exercise with her, and this photo became our last memory!
Later, the two of us often communicated on WeChat and said nothing. One day, when her husband was away, she told me the reason for the illness.
Since the marriage of the sister and her husband, the feelings are OK, and the ordinary family lives like the ordinary family, after marriage gave birth to a son, and now the son has established a family, the daughter-in-law is capable, the granddaughter and grandson are sensible and lovely, which is a relatively happy family. But the weather is unpredictable, since entering menopause, Yingjie's life has undergone a great change, menopause irritability and anxiety insomnia hot flashes plague her, but her husband can not understand her performance, so the two people often quarrel, the more noisy the more fierce, and later evolved into the husband to move is to reach out and swing their fists, the two people have been fighting for ten years, Yingjie is a person who wants face, did not say these troubles to everyone in time to resolve, and held it in the heart, slowly depressed into a disease, and finally caused a catastrophe!
In this way, our leader, our yoga fitness instructor, and the strong and beautiful goddess in our hearts fell into the tragic situation of terminal illness! Not long ago, the group friends WeChat blessing inquiry, for a long time did not see the echo, everyone's heart is like a heavy stone, only prayer, nothing can help her to do, sigh and cry!
Fighting for the family for half a life, being diligent and thrifty for life, not having a physical examination for ten years, suffering that cannot be said, and tears flowing in the heart, it is such a forbearance to ignore themselves that has caused today's serious illness.
Dear friends, how many of us still have sisters and compatriots who are bent on their husbands and children, ignoring their physical and mental health, not going to check or treat their physical discomfort, and finally falling into an irreparable predicament! How many husbands do not understand and understand the pain of their wives, and they are not sympathetic, or even add up their fists and feet? Can we all reflect on it and take it as a warning? Welcome to leave a comment to talk about your heart!