In daily life, we will find that some people are positive and optimistic, often accompanied by good luck; and some people are negative and pessimistic, often accompanied by bad luck.
This is not an accident, but the power of the aura.
The aura is an outward manifestation of energy, invisible and untouchable, but it affects us and the people around us all the time.
There are also positive and negative points in the aura, and a sufficient positive aura will promote a life; a certain negative aura will destroy a life.
Negative aura
On a gloomy rainy day, a car drove by, and the splash of water wet the pants of a girl on the side of the road, because she was in a hurry to go to work, she could only admit that she was unlucky and continue to hurry with a scolding grin.
At the door of the company, the girl impatiently patted the water on her body, and the water on the umbrella was also sprinkled on the ground.
Another colleague hurried in, slipped because of the water on the ground, and spilled the coffee in his hand on the girl.
The girl decided that this was an obscure day, and began to be passive and sluggish and muddy at work, and as a result, the manuscript of this day was changed again and again, and finally had to work overtime.
This is the result of the negative aura.
In daily life, a look and action of the people around us may stimulate our unhappiness.
Once the negative emotion is not eliminated in time, it will trigger a negative aura, which will often bring us more trouble.
Positive aura
A netizen on Zhihu shared a fragment of his life:
On this day, she left work early and went to pick up her children from school. On the way back, there was a traffic jam, and she talked with her child about her grades, but her grades regressed.
Traffic jams and the child's academic regression completely washed away her joy of leaving work early, and she gradually became impatient.
Inadvertently, she saw a flower shop on the side of the road putting on new shelves. So, she took advantage of the current blockage to beckon the flower shop owner to wrap herself a bouquet of small daisies.
The enthusiastic florist owner quickly wrapped up a beautiful bouquet of little daisies and gave her a fresh lily.
The car was filled with a faint fragrance of flowers, and the child's cheeks looked even more cute under the illumination of the sunset, at this time, the traffic police arrived in time to clear the lane.
The negative emotions just now suddenly disappeared.
She happily returned home with the child, and soon her husband returned, bringing back an exquisite cake.
Usually, she would think that her husband spent money indiscriminately, but today she feels very happy.
When we are enveloped in negative emotions, we look at the outside world with a gray filter; when we are immersed in positive emotions, we see the world as colorful.
Our encounters are all attracted by ourselves, and adding positive energy from ourselves or absorbing positive energy from the outside world can prompt us to develop a positive aura.
1. Gather positive energy from yourself
Wang Yangming was once demoted to Dragon Field for opposing the eunuch Liu Jin.
Not only is the living environment of Longchang extremely harsh, but the people here are also negative and pessimistic and complaining.
Wang Yangming, who is in a land full of negative energy, can self-regulate, correct his thoughts internally, condense a powerful positive aura, infect the people around him, and finally create the legendary story of the Dragon Field Enlightenment.
All kinds of misfortunes in our own hands are the result of our own choices, and when we are in a low valley, we should gather our own positive energy from within.
2. Draw positive energy from the outside world
Hawkins, an American psychology professor, once proposed the concept of "energy hierarchy": the lower the energy level, the easier it is for people to infect negative emotions to others; conversely, people with higher energy levels are more likely to release positive emotions to those around them.
In the movie "Everything About My Mother", her mother Ji Peiqi was diagnosed with a malignant tumor of stage FOUR, after receiving chemotherapy, she watched her hair fall off a lot, and people also aged at a speed visible to the naked eye, she was strong on the surface, but in fact, her inner defense line was slowly being broken.
Adjacent bed patient Liu Mei is positive and optimistic every day, still living exquisitely, after the exchange only to learn that Liu Ming's condition is much more serious than her own, she was deeply touched by Liu Ming's positive optimism.
The mother began to accept the facts calmly, no longer dyeing her hair black, and even directly pushed herself into a bald head, like Liu Mei, who lived optimistically in a limited life.
Approaching positive people and getting along with positive people, we will also be infinitely close to the positive aura.
The aura is closely related to each of our decisions and changes, big and small,
When we have a positive aura, beauty and happiness can come as expected.