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Going home for the New Year is something that many people who work outside the home are looking forward to, the children are worried, single men and women for the New Year, each returning to their own home, after marriage, it is not the same, the husband and wife often quarrel in order to go back to whose home for the New Year, and even let their marriage have problems, which is the experience of netizen Li Ting.
01, the first time I went back to my mother-in-law's house for the New Year, my mother-in-law was actually sick, and Li Ting rushed the ducks to the shelves and made a Chinese New Year's Eve meal for 14 people
Li Ting and her husband work in the field, the two were introduced by friends, and then married, the home is also in the foreign city, she and her husband have a good relationship, just newlywed for the first time back to the in-laws' home for the New Year, very excited, very excited.
She grew up in the city and has not yet been to the countryside, and she is particularly curious about the countryside and feels beautiful. And the husband is from the countryside, the family conditions are relatively poor, the son found a city girl, are very rare, the New Year, his brother, sister, and brother, drag the family back to the parents' home reunion.
Li Ting and her husband also drove back, home is very tired, the trunk is stuffed with gifts, there is something useful for food, they take it out, the father-in-law is very happy, welcome them into the door.
At this time, she learned that her mother-in-law was suddenly ill, her husband was a big filial piety, and she rushed to greet and care, and Li Ting also followed her husband to say hello to her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law said to her: "Tingting, I am sick, things at home cannot be done, these days are a little harder, entertain guests, help cook a meal."
The youngest son of the mother-in-law, who is more than 30 years old and has not yet married, is talking all day and is not doing the right thing, and the eldest sister-in-law is divorced, with two children, the sister-in-law is very prominent, is a cadre outside, the family comes back to enjoy, and the seven aunts and eight aunts those distant relatives come from afar, and it is impossible to do things.
Li Ting and her husband are the most honest, had to accept the mother-in-law's heavy trust, do 14 people's Chinese New Year's Eve meals, husband usually does not do housework, can only give Li Ting a hand.
Although Li Ting has also done housework, she can also cook, but she has never cooked so many people's meals, no way, rushing ducks to the shelves, that year, she spent a lot of effort, and finally made dozens of dishes, one trip after another to the table, the big winter is sweaty, even the saliva has not been drunk, almost tired and paralyzed, there is no delay.
The family drank wine and ate vegetables, and li ting's cooking skills were full of praise, although she felt very tired, some people were not disgusted and worth it, no one helped after eating, the tableware was still cleaned up by Li Ting, most of the night to go to bed to rest, just after dawn the father-in-law called the door.
02, do the mother-in-law's family's Chinese New Year's Eve meal, there are shadows in the heart
That day, Li Ting was too tired, took the car home without drinking a sip of water, busy for most of the day, did more than ten people's Chinese New Year's Eve meals, busy until midnight to go to bed, the 2nd day at 5 o'clock more father-in-law called the door to say that he was hungry.
She really didn't want to get up, and her husband said, "Bear with it, it's only a few days, only once a year, as a exercise." ”
Waist pain she got up and began to work again, so she lived in her mother-in-law's house for 7 days, she was busy for 7 days, others rested and ate melon seeds, chatted, watched TV, played games, but she was too busy to touch the ground, more tired than work, every day looking forward to hurrying over, hurry back.
That day, when she left, her mother-in-law was actually well and said, "Come back next year, Tingting's cooking skills are awesome."
Li Ting always wanted to escape, she already had a shadow, she was supposed to go home to rest, now she is sore, and she never wants to go back to her in-laws' house for the New Year, she is too tired.
Finally left the mother-in-law's home to come back, years later she returned to her mother's home, the mother's family she did not have to do anything, comfortable to enjoy, parents for her to do a good job, parents only she a baby daughter, is their palm pearl, can not let her be wronged, usually to the mother-in-law to call a phone, say hello, buy a gift, never want to go back to the mother-in-law's home for the New Year.
In the second year, the husband insisted on letting her go back to her in-laws' house for the New Year, and said all the good things to ensure that she was not tired, who knew that after returning home, the mother-in-law was sick again, in order to give her husband face, she did not want to mess with her husband, so she had to be busy again.
In the third year, she did not want to go back to her in-laws' house for the New Year, she must go back to her mother's house, and her husband said that she had to agree. Her husband often quarrels over these things, and her husband thinks that going home for the New Year and helping his parents do things is to honor the old man's home, natural righteousness, there is nothing to escape, only once a year, and she is a daughter, the person who marries out, the water that is spilled out, in fact, is an outsider, there is no need to go back to the mother's house for the New Year.
03, the husband said that he would divorce if he did not return to my house for the New Year
In this way, it is almost the New Year again, who is going back to for the New Year? She quarreled with her husband, who put down his harsh words and said, "Last year I went back to your mother's house for the New Year, and this year I must go back to my parents' house for the New Year, and if I don't agree, I will get a divorce." ”
Li Ting was enraged, broke out, and said loudly to her husband: "Well, I can't ask for it, as long as I return to your house, your mother will pretend to be sick, I want to see who makes the Chinese New Year's Eve meal of 14 people." ”
Li Ting said, "Divorce you get out of the house, the house is mine, the children are mine, what do you have?" ”
The husband was confused, and he did not expect that the wife who had always let him and had a soft temper was so tough that she was not afraid of divorce.
If he really divorced, then he would not get anything, not only would he lose his children, but he would also lose his virtuous wife, and he would lose everything, and weighing the stakes, her husband would no longer dare to shout loudly.
The husband really loves the woman, and to love the wife, he must know how to hurt her, not for the sake of face, for the sake of fame, and let the wife do what she is not willing to do.
In marriage, what should be compromised should be compromised, and what should be tough should be tough, and this confused husband, there is a confused father and mother, if a woman is not strong, not tough, Ma Shan is ridden, people are good to be bullied, women are too weak, they are always bullied, and the suffering and suffering are all their own, and who can know?
epilogue:
Some people are particularly selfish, always thinking that a woman is a nanny should pay infinitely, not only for the children, for the husband to pay infinitely, that is, for the mother-in-law and father-in-law, should also pay infinitely, this is filial piety.
If you meet an eccentric in-laws, the daughter-in-law's life is even more difficult, filial piety is not wrong, but, according to the law, the daughter-in-law is not obliged to honor the in-laws, let alone people who have nothing to do with her, home and everything, in this kind of thing, husband and wife should think about each other, and can not only think of themselves, mutual understanding, mutual understanding, is the most important, what do you think please comment.
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