Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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Widowed marriage, poking at the pain in the hearts of many women.
How many marriages are like this:
Every morning, before dawn, the wife gets up to make breakfast, sends the children to school, and then rushes to work. Pick up the children after work in the evening, then go to the market to buy vegetables, and then busy going home to cook dinner.
After dinner, the wife does housework and hygiene while supervising the children's homework. When the child finishes his homework, it is already 8 o'clock, and he has to wash and wait for the child to sleep. Day after day, every day is as busy as a top.
Motherhood, nanny wife, widowhood, widowhood. A woman has to experience these four kinds of misfortunes all her life.
Widowed marriage, the most chilling thing is that the other party is busy living as yourself, and you have to carry everything in life. When you drag your tired body after a long day's work, you have to cook, wash your clothes, wash dishes and mop the floor, and clean up your room. Take out to help the two children with homework.
How many people in life are like this, living in widowed marriages and living exhausted every day!
The marriage that once made your heart long for expectations finally became an inexhaustible housework, an inexhaustible heart, which consumed your passion and beauty and made you grumpy. When a person pays and returns are not proportional to those who want such a marriage.
-02-
The best state in marriage is "You know I come out early and return late, earning money and tired." I know you three meals are trivial, with the baby tired"!
However, the reality is that it is women who pay more in the family, and some of them are not recognized and have no family status.
Obviously, it is a marriage of two people, but it is always a woman who faces chai rice oil and salt alone, and the family is trivial. The home is not tidy, the child's clothes are dirty, the floor is not clean, and other problems. Most people will think that it is because women are not diligent, and few people blame men.
But what about men? It doesn't matter what happens at home except at work. As soon as I came home, I either played games on the couch, or watched TV in the room, paid a little salary every month, and yelled all day that I was a good husband and a good father.
Maybe what we are thinking about is not how much we pay, but about whether our own efforts and sacrifices are meaningful and worth it.
Marriage has accumulated too many disappointments, women have been in a "widowed" state for a long time, then whether there is a husband in life or not, it seems that the significance will not be great.
Now the divorce rate is high, and divorce is more proposed by women, on the one hand, it shows that women can be financially independent, on the other hand, it also shows that women are increasingly pursuing self-feelings and are not willing to be people who pay too much for themselves.
-03-
As the saying goes, husband and wife work together to break the gold.
A good marriage is knowing, understanding, backing down, and supporting; not yelling, changing, blaming, or calculating.
In the marriage of the one-man show, no one wants to play it out. After marriage, what is more terrible than loneliness is the widowed marriage.
Widowed marriage does not experience the happiness of marriage, just like losing a partner and living alone. Letting a person in a marriage and supporting a home belonging to two people will only make the person who is supporting it full of exhaustion.
The human heart grows cold in disappointment after disappointment. A husband who is negligent in duty will eventually be eliminated by a woman. If you don't want your wife to lose faith in you, play a good role in the family.
May every woman who pays for the family be treated well by marriage.
A girl who likes words and drinks coffee, I am very happy to meet you in my words, and I am willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.