The tragic life of the British princess, married at the age of 20, had a child at the age of 21, died at the age of 36, had seven lovers in her life, she was known as the most beautiful British princess, but she also died the most tragically, what did she suffer?
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Diana was born in background
Diana was born in 1961, her family is not so rich and powerful, but it is also a well-known family, neighbors are royal nobles, Diana's father is a count, want a son to pass on the generations, but Diana's mother has already given birth to three daughters.
In the eyes of the outside world, it is believed that Diana's mother must have a problem, so she can't give birth to a son, and Diana's mother is also arranged by the family to do various examinations, and even participate in religious activities to pray that she can conceive a son.
Diana's father also often had fierce quarrels with his wife because she could not give birth to a son, and Diana lived in the quarrels of her parents since she was born, which also made her hope to be loved from an early age.
When she was three years old, her parents never quarreled again, or even spoke again, because her mother gave birth to a son, accompanied by her mother's divorce application against her father.
Under this tremendous pressure to give birth to an heir to the family, Diana's mother could not stand it, and the once happy marriage and the most sincere promises made to each other were now in vain.
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Parents divorced
In 1969, Diana's parents formally divorced, and custody of Diana and her brother went to her father, and her mother took her two older sisters. Later, her father married another wife, which made Diana very unhappy, but there was no way, Diana learned to live her life seriously, she would wear good clothes, learn to ride a bicycle, and take care of her brother.
Every weekend was a day to meet her mother, and Diana was very excited every time she took the train to see her mother, and although the meeting time was short, Diana was still excited.
In 1970, at the age of 9, Diana was sent by her father to a school far from home, and she could only go home once every six months, which made Diana feel abandoned by her father.
Although Diana was lively and cheerful in school and made many friends, many classmates felt that Diana was a "source of happiness" and liked to get along with her, but when Diana was alone, she was always lonely inside.
Diana has been kind and gentle since childhood, loves animals, and after the death of her beloved pets, Diana will bury them well. But in terms of learning, Diana was a mess, as long as the problem was difficult, she didn't know what to do, which also led to Diana having no interest in learning, and later dropped out of school and came to London.
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Encounter with Charles
In 1977, after dropping out of school, Diana came to London to live with her mother for a while, and also met Prince Charles in London, when Diana was just a 17-year-old girl, with blank feelings, ignorant inside, and no defense against the outside world.
Diana followed her sister to a party where Diana strangely dressed to attract Charles's attention, but the two did not say a few words at the time.
Because Charles was still the boyfriend of Diana's sister Sarah at that time, and the two had been dating for 10 months, there were even rumors that Sarah was going to become a princess, but Sarah was too high-profile in the process of the two people's interaction, which caused Charles's dissatisfaction, so the two broke up.
In 1978, Diana met Charles again at the party, this time the two did not communicate as the last time, on the contrary, the two also talked a lot, after this party, the relationship between the two became better and better, began to date frequently, chat, and even kiss each other, which made Diana feel very happy.
Diana has not been in love, the feelings are blank, Charles's few sweet words can attract Diana's heart, Diana also thought she had found true love, but did not expect to jump into the fire pit.
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Charles's predecessor
Before meeting Diana, Charles already had a princess candidate: Camilla, Charles was Camilla's apprentice, the two had been in a relationship for several years, but Camilla's identity was not recognized by the royal family, and did not agree to let Camilla be crown princess.
Even to stop the two, the royal family sent Charles to the army for military service, and by the time Charles returned, Camilla was already married.
Although Charles was very sad, but thinking that as a prince, there were so many women of the royal family and nobles to choose from, not to hang on a tree, charles was soon relieved after thinking clearly.
But after dating several objects, none of them can really enter The Heart of Charles, Charles misses Camilla more and more, likes her beautiful and confident side, and Camilla is relaxed, there are many common topics, his fragile heart will also be appeased by Camilla, but it is too late, Charles can not marry Camilla.
Later met Diana at the party, there is no such TV series plot as meeting true love again, Charles does not have any love for Diana, he just thinks that Diana is a good princess candidate, young, no emotional experience, will not be exposed by the media scandal, but also suitable for the royal family to inherit.
However, Diana is unaware of the conspiracy and is still immersed in the fantasy of beautiful love.
05
Wedding of the Century
In February 1981, Charles proposed to Diana at Windsor Castle, and Diana quickly agreed to it, diana was only 20 years old at the time, and Charles was already 33 years old, and it was said that Charles proposed to Diana under pressure from the royal family, after all, he was in his thirties at the time and in urgent need of inheritance.
A few days before the engagement, Diana followed her mother to enjoy the last few days of ordinary life. After the formal engagement, Diana was arranged by the royal family to enter the palace and sent troops to escort her all the way, at this time, Diana gradually realized that she had to completely say goodbye to her previous life, and then she would start the life of the palace with rules and disciplines.
In July 1981, Diane and Charles officially married, the wedding of the century began, it is said that the wedding was more than six months in preparation, on the wedding day, Charles and Diana drove to the church, the people on the road cheered, everyone held flowers to express their blessings, their faces were full of happiness.
Wearing a crown and wearing an 8-meter wedding dress, Diana walked hand in hand with Charles to the red carpet, waved to the people on the steps of the church, and showed everyone the kiss of the century.
Everything looked so beautiful and happy, but I didn't expect that a few years later, looking back on this day would become Diana's most miserable day.
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The beginning of the tragedy
After the wedding, Charles took Diana on a three-week honeymoon, and it was during this trip that Diana understood that marrying into the royal family must change herself in order for the couple to be harmonious.
Charles will not change his lifestyle for anyone, and in Charles's eyes, Diana must be based on him, and Charles does not look down on Diana's academic qualifications and vision.
By chance after the marriage, Diana learned of Camilla's existence and found a photo of the two in Charles's diary, and Charles wore a button with Camilla's initials in front of Diana.
At one point, Diana developed self-doubt and even fear. Not only that, but Diana knew that she had come to pass on incense to the royal family's son, and it wasn't that Charles liked her, which simply pushed Diana to hell.
In the second year after marriage, Diana became pregnant, and as soon as the news was revealed, it immediately attracted great attention, but it did not attract Charles's attention, he not only did not pay attention, but also went out with friends every day to ride horses and play ball, and did not pay attention to the pregnant Diana.
Charles's move made Diana particularly sad, in order to attract Charles's attention, she did not hesitate to jump down the stairs, although Diana used the skill did not hurt the child, but did not cause concern, but was scolded, Charles also because of her move, feel that she is more and more unreasonable.
Queen Elizabeth II was also shocked by Diana's behavior, and the nanny around her always consciously or unconsciously told the outside world that Diana had a bad temper and was not good at serving.
A few months later, the eldest son William was born, but Charles's relationship with Diana did not soften, not only that, after the birth of the second son Harry, the relationship between the two became worse, it is said that because Harry was born to affect Charles to go out to play, Charles did not like Harry very much.
Diana suffered from postpartum depression after giving birth to Harry, and would cut her wrists and throat with a knife when she was severe, but Charles did not care about this, because Charles had begun to meet Camilla frequently, and in contrast to Camilla, Charles was even more tired of Diana.
Diana had told the Queen about it, but instead of stopping Charles's behavior, she told Diana that there was no lover around the prince, so that Diana would not be preoccupied. It may be that the queen's husband also cheats frequently, so get used to it.
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Frequently look for lovers
Without the help and understanding of the royal family, Diana also began to frequently find a lover, in her words: I am a rebel.
Diana's first lover was a car salesman, but the two were recorded on the phone, causing the matter to be exposed.
The second lover, an equestrian coach, had a three-year relationship, but Diana was betrayed by him, and he wrote a book about their emotional experiences, which ruined Diana's reputation.
After that, there are ancient players, rugby presidents, developers, cardiologists, etc. have had a period with Diana, and in the year she was with the developer, Diana officially divorced Charles, and it is said that Trump also chased Diana, but Trump did not succeed.
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Report on royal scandals
After the relationship between the two broke down, they were also detected by the outside world, because when the two attended the event, Diana began to disobey Charles. Often, there will be media paparazzi following Diana, hoping to learn the secrets of the royal family from her mouth, and often deliberately angering Diana for the news, and it is said that Diana's headline newspaper sales are very high.
The media interview bothered Diana, but then Diana thought that since they wanted the news, they could tell them, and later, when facing the reporter, Diana casually revealed the scandal of the royal family.
Once, without the knowledge of the royal family, Diana secretly brought BBC reporters into the palace, and in the BBC interview, Diana explained to reporters the problems in the marriage, charles's actions, and her suicidal and gluttonous tendencies because of the marriage, and even broke the news of her cheating.
It was also this interview that became the trigger for the eventual divorce, the two divorced at the request of Elizabeth II, officially ending the marriage in 1995, Diana also received $26 million in divorce compensation, and retained the title of princess.
09
Died in a car accident
In 1997, Diana and her boyfriend Dody were in a car accident while out on a trip, and both of them were not spared, and both died.
Some people speculate that the cause of Diana's death is related to the royal family, because Diana was pregnant at the time, and the royal family is likely to kill Diana for the status of the eldest son William.
There are also some people who think that Diana was tracked by paparazzi and had a car accident in order to avoid it, and there were indeed many paparazzi on the way to Diana's play.
The reason given by the court in the end was because the driver was drunk and speeding. But the driver's parents and friends said he rarely drank and was very resistant to driving drunk.
At the age of 36, Diana lost her life, and some people say that if Diana did not pursue her too much like the queen, she might still be a princess.
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Public welfare
Diana did not get sincere love in this life, but she insisted on devoting herself to public welfare.
She sold more than seventy of her favorite clothes to raise a love fund to donate to the people affected by the disaster.
In 1991, Diana went to the hospital to visit AIDS patients, not only chatted with them, but also gave them a big hug, and she also passed it on to everyone, and aids patients hugged will not be infected, but also hopes that the society will give them more hugs.
The last thing Diana did before she died was to advocate for the abolition of mines, she has traveled to Angola and other landmine-stricken areas many times, where many people have their limbs amputated every year for stepping on mines by mistake, Diana personally stepped into the minefield to observe, visit the families injured by mines, under diana's influence, this activity was supported by many countries, thousands of groups joined, many signed a mine ban treaty.
Such a kind and gentle princess for everyone's sake, no wonder she is loved.
After divorcing Diana, Charles's relationship with Camilla gradually came to light, and in 2005, the two held a wedding, because Camilla was divorced, so she was not eligible for the title of princess, only the title of count, and the title of princess still belonged to Diana.
Some people say that the smartest thing Diana has ever done in her life is to keep the title of princess. In this relationship, Diana was too serious and devoted, always pinning her hopes on Charles, so that in the end she was bruised.