PUA mind control, also known as mind control or mind control, is similar to brainwashing, which is to manipulate the consciousness and behavior of others through some immoral means.
Today I'll take stock of the seven most brutal anti-mind control tactics.
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Seven anti-psychometric means
Be vigilant
Mind controllers first make a careful plan.
But they will make people unaware of the existence of this plan, so the first step in anti-mind control is to increase their vigilance and raise their vigilance.
Change your biological clock and habits
Like a thief burglary, the mind controller aims to steal your mind.
So they will also step on the point, so try to make their behavior seem changeable and not easy to control.
Don't be gullible
Like scams and pyramid schemes, mind control also has special words, they will belittle your real life, exaggerate the good prospects, and do not believe the words of the mind controller.
Stick to your personality
Mind controllers will demand that you think and act close to the organization and the group, believe in your own power, and keep your mind at all times.
Align words with deeds
Mind control is to change people by instilling new thoughts and attitudes, so as long as you insist on matching words and deeds, you will not be easily changed by the other party.
Avoid mindsets
People who are mentally controlled will eventually use new ideas and thoughts to control other people, which is a mindset.
What we have to do is to avoid stereotypes, maintain curiosity about the outside world, and don't stay static.
Maintain a high level of self-efficacy
This is the most crucial point, when you do this, no matter how much the mind controller belittles you, you can do it without caring.
Pua is the controller who destroys the other party's self-confidence through constant verbal and behavioral pressure, so that the other party produces a lower level of self-esteem and lower self-confidence, so that they are accustomed to negative evaluations.
If someone praises him, he will feel uncomfortable, and it feels like the person who praises him is lying to him.
So when you know your abilities, you know how many pounds you have, so you won't listen to their lies.
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How to improve self-efficacy?
Many people may not understand self-efficacy very well.
So what exactly is self-efficacy?
In psychology, people propose the concept of self-efficacy, which is very similar to self-confidence.
If a person has a high sense of self-efficacy, then he will believe that he is capable of completing everything, so that he will not be easily punctured.
Improving self-efficacy can start from small things, affirming your every effort, valuing your every success, and persevering to harvest a higher level of self-efficacy.
A person who strives to pursue a happy life has a purpose and is confident, so they will not be easily pua.
So the most brutal way to deal with PUA is not to attack the controller, but to change yourself.
Make yourself strong, so that even the most experienced controller can't do anything with you, this is the most ruthless way.
In short, mind control is unethical and should be spurned.
Anti-mind control is something that everyone should insist on, and only in this way can we better defend our own interests.
Today I have taken stock of the seven anti-psychotic controls, and I hope that you can stay away from it and live happily in the future.
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