In the highly developed modern society of informatization, blind date programs have repeatedly appeared on the hot search version, women's views on marriage can always set off a wave of waves on the Internet, and "gold worship women" and "phoenix men" have become the objects of public ridicule.
In 2014, the blind date program "Blind Date Will Win" was fired by a college student Zhou Lanjun for a long time, only because Zhou Lanjun boldly said her concept of mate selection in the program, she bluntly said that she only wanted to marry the second generation of the rich, and the remarks quickly caused heated discussion, and many people called Zhou Lanjun a "gold worshipper".
So did Zhou Lanjun finally succeed in his blind date?
Young girls want to marry the second generation of rich people, and the requirements are still very harsh
"I want to marry a rich second generation", when Zhou Lanjun faced Dan Dan, a staff member of the program group, she openly and honestly said her mate selection criteria. Everyone present at that time looked at the long-haired, pure-looking girl in front of them in surprise.
Zhou Lanjun
In fact, in many blind date programs, most female guests will take the man's family lineage as an important criterion for selection, after all, marriage is also based on materials, but radio programs will always be oriented to the public, no one wants to bear the title of "gold worshipper", once too much emphasis on money will inevitably cause people to be disgusted, so many female guests will not directly express their ideas.
But Zhou Lanjun's frankness is something that the blind date program group has never encountered, Dan Dan looked at Zhou Lanjun and asked: "Why are you so obsessed with marrying the second generation of the rich", Zhou Lanjun first introduced his family background, his father is a state-owned enterprise employee, his mother is an aunt of the housekeeper, and told Dan Dan about his plan for the future.
Zhou Jun wants to marry a rich second generation before the age of 30, and complete his own study plan during this period, get a graduate diploma at the age of 27, get the title of accountant at the age of 28, get a doctoral diploma at the age of 30, get the title of lawyer at the age of 31, and devote himself to his career if he does not find his favorite boyfriend.
From Zhou Lanjun's plans for the future, it can be seen that she is a clear-headed and independent person. Dan Dan also understood from Zhou Lanjun's fluent response that the girl in front of her was determined to marry into the rich, so she smiled and asked Zhou Lanjun: "What is your definition of the second generation of the rich?" ”
Zhou Lanjun thought for a while, and then slowly said her opinion, but her answer was even more shocking. Zhou Lanjun only wants to marry the rich second generation worth 50 million and above, looks handsome, and must live in the city, she believes that people in the city have a common language, and the concept of consumption is more consistent, while the second generation of rural rich does not meet their own standards.
Hearing Zhou Lanjun's harsh mate selection conditions, Dan Dan felt a burst of pressure, as if he was choosing his own Prince Charming for Cinderella. But fairy tales are fairy tales after all, back to real life, in fact, many parents pay more attention to the door to the door, because the social circle where those rich families are located and ordinary people are still different, even if they marry in the past, they are likely to fall into quarrels because of non-conforming concepts.
When Dan Dan told Zhou Lanjun her concerns and the consequences that would most likely be ridiculed once she was on the show, Zhou Lanjun did not care, she said that she did not value other people's ideas, and still wanted to try it, and there was a kind of heroism of "taking your own way and letting others say".
In this regard, Dan Dan can only look for a blind date according to Zhou Lanjun's standards, but she still has a sigh in her heart, she thinks that Zhou Lanjun is just a young and ignorant little girl, and she still does not understand the cruelty of society.
Street visits, what qualities should a rich daughter-in-law have
In fact, Zhou Lanjun was still very young when she participated in the "Blind Date Will Win" program in 2014, that year she just entered the sophomore year, it was the time to actively study, but Zhou Lanjun was working hard to marry a rich second-generation husband, she also knew the truth of the door, but in the family world, Zhou Lanjun's family is a middle and upper level, and it is still a long way from being rich.
In order to marry into the rich, she chose to find another way, specially reported a etiquette training class, may be to make her temperament more noble and elegant, but in contrast to Zhou Lanjun's appearance, in the eyes of the program team staff, compared with the real celebrity Qianjin, there is still a gap.
But for her own appearance, Zhou Lanjun is extremely confident, as if those actors and stars are not as beautiful as themselves, because they achieve this effect through makeup, whenever they talk about this, Zhou Lanjun feels extremely sorry, she thinks that she does not lose to anyone, and when the star is not a word, so she is more determined to marry into the heart of the rich.
Blind confidence sometimes really can really bring misleading, Zhou Lanjun may have this tendency, so when Zhou Lanjun's blind date video was broadcast, many netizens have left messages, saying that what Zhou Lanjun really lacks is a mirror, which is obviously satirizing Zhou Lanjun.
In order to find a suitable blind date for Zhou Lanjun, the staff member Dan Dan specially conducted a street interview survey before starting the action, and consulted the public on the theme of "what are the characteristics of a woman who marries into a rich family".
During the interview, many people expressed interest in this topic, and one of the men directly said that the first must be beauty, and then temperament. Then a woman said that the most important thing should be family lineage, and there are common topics to talk about.
In order to investigate the views of different groups of people, Dan Dan also interviewed a foreign friend who believed that character was important and beauty was also essential. As the investigation progressed, Dan Dan concluded that beauty, temperament and character are the conditions that a rich daughter-in-law should have.
The gap between dreams and reality is very large, and Zhou Lanjun still insists
Since ancient times, it is not easy to be the daughter-in-law of the rich, basically the door is right, after all, the princess is the ideal partner of the prince in the hearts of the public, because they are good enough, no matter what they look, just the temperament is to kill a large group of women, then the women who marry the rich are not there? Of course, there are, but although they come from ordinary backgrounds, they have their own unique shining points.
Jordanian Princess Yassin Rania was once known as the most beautiful "civilian princess", although she was not born in a rich family, her father was a Doctor in Palestine, but Rania was careful and kind, and excellent in learning, admitted to a prestigious school, first-class work ability, was a professional bank manager, and later jumped to Apple.
Her ability to make Rania confident, not to mention her beauty is unmatched, and many people say that there is a charming charm in Rania's body. By chance, Rania met Jordanian Prince Abdullah, and the two fell in love, and eventually married.
After a grand wedding, Rania was known as the happiest Princess of Jordan, but there was a lot of pressure that followed, but Rania used her ability to make everyone recognize her, and after marriage, she was also enthusiastic about charity, and once appeared on the cover of Time Magazine in the United States.
The story of Cinderella marrying a prince has been envisioned by many people, but the reason why the prince likes Cinderella is closely related to Cinderella's own excellence, and the most beautiful Jordanian princess Rania is the best example, but many women obviously do not realize this, so they pursue the so-called "dream of the rich" like a moth to the fire.
So can Zhou Lanjun, who wants to marry the second generation of wealth, realize her dream? But it seems that whether it is knowledge or temperament, Zhou Lanjun, who is still in the reading stage, is still very young, although she is always full of confidence in herself, but there is always a gap between reality and dreams.
Sure enough, when Dan Dan found several boys who met Zhou Lanjun's conditions, Zhou Lanjun was very happy, but in the process of getting along with them, she was greatly hit, and along with the broadcast of the show, many netizens also began to mock Zhou Lanjun's "dream of being a hero".
The blind date failed, but Zhou Lanjun gradually matured
One day in mid-2014, Zhou Lanjun prepared for her first date after a careful dress, a lilac dress looked very pure, but the foundation on her face was not evenly wiped, after Dan Dan pointed out, Zhou Lanjun also felt a little embarrassed, and she also had some nervousness at this time.
While Zhou Lanjun was anxiously waiting, she received a call from "Liu Shao", this "Liu Shao" was Zhou Lanjun's blind date, and people came first before they arrived at the phone, and Zhou Lanjun and Dan Dan both felt a little bad. On the phone, this "Liu Shao" said bluntly that he would not come.
At this time, Zhou Lanjun's face changed somewhat, but she still remained calm, and slowly asked: "Are you inconvenient to come, or are you not interested in me", the other party replied: "Both", and then Zhou Lanjun politely hung up after a few simple chats.
Dan Dan on the side comforted Zhou Lanjun, but Zhou Lanjun said that it did not matter, it seems that although the first blind date was frustrated, Zhou Lanjun still had confidence in himself. Dan Dan took pains to find a man who met Zhou Lanjun's criteria for choosing a mate, and sitting in the office this day, she suddenly thought that Zhou Lanjun had expressed her good feelings for "Beta".
"Beta" is a male god-level figure excavated by the "Blind Date To Win" program group, not only is he a standard rich second generation, but also looks very handsome, so he is very popular. But when Dan Dan contacted Beta, he made it clear that Zhou Lanjun was not the type he liked.
Since "Beta" was unwilling, Dan Dan locked his eyes on "Beta's" good friend "Pipilu", fortunately "Pipilu" agreed to a blind date with Zhou Lanjun. However, on the day of the blind date, "Pipilu" was late for something, and Zhou Lanjun began to be a little dissatisfied.
After waiting for a while, "Pippiru" finally arrived, but the conversation between the two made Dan Dan laugh, because Zhou Lanjun asked "Pippiru's parents" what kind of people they were, and she said that the other party needed to have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and she would support them, which made "Pippiru" feel a little embarrassed.
The next conversation, "Pipilu" and Zhou Lanjun were not very happy, Zhou Lanjun's feelings for "Pippilu" were not very good, "Pipilu" was not very satisfied with Zhou Lanjun, and the two broke up unhappily. Later, Dan Dan found a blind date for Zhou Lanjun, but Zhou Lanjun still did not look at it.
Perhaps Zhou Lanjun's requirements for the second generation of the rich were too harsh, so she did not succeed in the blind date in the end. But I have to say that Zhou Lanjun is a bold girl, and she is not afraid of the outside world's opinion of her, and her psychological quality is very strong.
It has been 7 years since the Zhou Lanjun incident, but many people still remember her, and the once bold little girl has become mature and successful, and she is amused by her once naïve ideas. Now that she has lit up her shining point, she believes that she will meet her own Prince Charming.