Yu Qin was determined to remarry Bao Xian. It would not help to allow Bao Xian to plead bitterly.
Yu Qin's parents advised her that marriage is a matter of two people, as long as the two have a good relationship, there is no need to lose a beautiful marriage for others.
Yu Qin said: "I just want to live a quiet life, and I don't want to be counted and disturbed every day." Marriage is not a matter of two people, but of two families, and this also includes each other's brothers and sisters. ”
Yu Qin and Bao Xian met each other on a blind date, and after meeting each other, they both felt very compatible with each other and began to fall in love with the purpose of marriage. Bao Xian also quit his original job and followed Yu Qin to the same city to work.
At the beginning of this year, the two planned to get married. Thinking about getting married, Bao Xian continued to work outside the home. Yu Qin stayed at home to take care of her parents.
Bao Xian has an older brother and an older sister, and the older sister is married in Lincun. The older brother is 10 years older than Baoxian. He got married early, and his two children, the eldest, were in junior high school.
Bao Xian said that his parents are older and need to be taken care of. Discussed living with the old man with Yu Qin. Yu Qin felt that Bao Xian was a very filial person and agreed.
The two families discussed a dowry of 100,000 yuan, Yu Qin's family was relatively well-off, and only one brother went to college and worked in the county. Yu Qin's parents thought of marrying their daughter. The bride price of 100,000 will be brought to the daughter, and then the daughter will be given a dowry of 100,000. Some of the other expenses of the wedding are in accordance with local customs and customs, and each family spends its own money.
Baoxian's parents are very satisfied with the arrangements of their relatives, and Baoxian has worked for a lot of money to the family in recent years. The two floors built in the house are still the large head of Bao Xianna. The bride price Qian Baoxian said that the old couple could take out as much as they could. Take the rest yourself. Anyway, this money will still be your own in the future!
What can the old two leave alone? Hurriedly took out money to let Bao Xian get married. At this time, Bao Xian's sister-in-law came. She wasn't coming to see if there was anything she could do to help. It's about settling the score!
When Baoxian's sister-in-law came, Yu Qin happened to be there, and when she entered the door, she said, "I heard that you are getting engaged and are ready to get married at the end of the year." Why didn't you talk to me? Brothers can also know if there is anything they need help with. ”
Bao Xian hurriedly let her sister-in-law sit, and Yu Qin saw that the future in-laws did not speak, and felt that they were a little afraid of her.
The sister-in-law said: "When do you plan to get engaged, how much is the bride price, how much do you plan to spend on furniture, and now there are more Ways." There is also money to get on the bus and get off the car money, and money to leave the mother. We didn't have that back then. ”
Yu Qin felt that they were discussing these things, and it was inconvenient for her to be present. He told Baoxian's parents that he still had something to do and went back first.
After Yuqin returned home, she learned what Baoxian's sister-in-law said to her parents, and her parents did not pay attention to it.
The next day, Bao Xian told Yu Qin that his sister-in-law said that the bride price was only 18,000 when her sister-in-law was engaged. Now the bride price is 100,000. The two sons want a bowl of water to be flat, if Baoxian is engaged to 100,000, then the old man will also give himself another 80,000!
Yu Qin was all laughed at, Bao Xian's brother got married more than ten years ago. At that time, the bride price of 18,000 was already high enough. Besides, they have already separated their families, where are the old people who have been married for more than ten years and then give a bride price?
Yu Qin said, "What did your parents say?" ”
Bao Xian said: "My parents called my brother to come, and as soon as my brother came and said a word, she cried and made trouble. He also scolded my brother for not being capable and ruined. Say my family can't thicken this thin that. Either the bride price is the same, or she will make up for it. ”
Yu Qin went home and talked to her parents about this, and her parents said that they had never heard of such nonsense. Married for more than ten years, the family has been separated and the bride price has been compared with the younger brother. Tell his family that this will not work, and since it has been discussed, it will be done according to the original consultation.
Yu Qin was also angry, and originally did not spend his family's money when he got married. The money was earned by the two of them working part-time. She felt that Bao Xian should tell her brother and sister-in-law with a straight face: no matter how big the pomp and circumstance of her marriage, she earned it herself and had nothing to do with other people.
Yu Qin did not pay attention to Baoxian for two days, and he did not answer the phone. Bao Xian had to come to Yu Qin's house to find her, saying that everything was all right and asked her not to be angry. Yuqin asked, "What did you say?" ”
Bao Xian said, "What else can I say?" According to what we discussed, it is not the same! ”
"Can your sister-in-law be willing?"
Bao Xian said that his parents said that they did not want their sister-in-law to make trouble again, and it was difficult for them to upset their brother. Just talk to your sister-in-law to give her 50,000. This money is the pension money for the old two to save money!
Yu Qin was angry! Is this called solving a problem? Bao Xian said that his sister-in-law was the unreasonable person, and the family was making too much noise for people to see the joke.
On the day of the engagement, Baoxian's sister-in-law was also present, and she seemed very happy. Seeing Yu Qin is also very enthusiastic, and has always praised Yu Qin's beauty. Say that the two concubines are not a good match. Yu Qin's heart was twisted, and she had to perfunctory.
Yu Qin and Bao Xian's wedding was scheduled to be in the autumn, and after the new year, Bao Xian went out to work. Bao Xian was at home, and Yu Qin often came to discuss the decoration of the house.
Yu Qin found that Bao Xian's sister-in-law ate here almost every day. It's nothing too much for a family to have a meal. But the sister-in-law always stuck to order, the meal sat there on the table to eat, and it didn't matter if everyone arrived or not.
The second child of the sister-in-law's family is 8 years old, and when he arrives at home, he will turn over and often take Yu Qin's things. Make a mess in the house. The in-laws and Baoxian did not care. Yu Qin was very disgusted that others were messing with their own things, and it was difficult to say.
At noon on this day, my sister-in-law came and asked where you were going to get married and live? Yu Qin said to live at home and simply decorate it.
The sister-in-law was surprised and said: "You don't go to the county town to buy a house, my parents didn't say that you go to the county town to buy a house, and after getting married, you go to the city to live." I also said that you are not ready to buy a house? ”
Yu Qin said that she does not plan to buy a house for the time being, and she can live in a house that can be easily cleaned up. Wait a few years to save some money before buying.
My sister-in-law said, "This house is mine!" If you want to get married, you have to have your own house!" ”
Yu Qin looked at Bao Xian and didn't know what her sister-in-law meant. Bao Xian said, "When this house was built, he said it was built for me. At that time, it cost 120,000 yuan, and I took out all the money from part-time work. How did it become yours? ”
My sister-in-law said: "Before you get married, all the money you earn is from the family, and the family building a house should be used!" The money your brother earned before he got married didn't use it in our family! When I got married, the old man said that he would build me two floors later. This house is mine! You can get married and live first. But first of all, let me give you a few years to live, and then we will live when my son is older. ”
Yu Qin listened to her sister-in-law's crooked reasoning, which was really eye-opening. Get married and live in someone else's house. What a joke. But looking at the in-laws who didn't say a word, Yu Qin could feel that the in-laws were afraid of their sister-in-law. The sister-in-law is very stalking, the eldest brother does not know what role he plays in it, he never comes forward. It was really annoying to say two words that did not hurt or itch, and it did not have any effect.
My sister-in-law said, "Blessed are you, when I got married, my family only built a bungalow." It's about waiting a few years to build us a building. Now the building is built and said to let you get married! We had to stay a few years later. However, my brother ming calculated, this building is my family's, you must give me 30,000 happy money when you get married in it. ”
Yu Qin couldn't help it, she watched her sister-in-law say such a thing, but her in-laws did not speak. Yu Qin said: "Sister-in-law, Bao Xian said that it cost 120,000 yuan when this house was built. He took 80,000 himself. ”
The sister-in-law was anxious: "Before getting married, he didn't separate his family from his family, and of course the money he earned was all from the family!" This house was originally promised to me by the old man! Now that you are married, let you live first and give you enough face! If you don't know, this house is mine! Wherever you fall in love with getting married, go wherever you go! ”
Yu Qin was angry and shy, she was originally a non-controversial character, and now she couldn't speak! Only one sentence was said: You guys look at it! Just go home!
The next day, Yu Qin called and asked how was the matter? Bao Xian said, "Or let's go to the county town and buy a house!" Let's add money, let the sister and the old man make up some, and pay the down payment first. After the new year, we will go out to work, and in two years we will have children! ”
As she could imagine, the days ahead would not be too calm. The eldest sister-in-law makes unreasonable trouble, and the eldest brother does not know what role he plays in it, whether he really can't control his wife, or secretly instigates it. The in-laws blindly tolerated. Bao Xian listens to his parents. In any case, it was Yu Qin who did not want to live a life.
Therefore, Yu Qin ignored the opposition of her parents and Bao Xian's bitter request. Determined to break up with Bao Xian! She felt that even if she got married, her sister-in-law would not stop asking for it, and as long as she opened her mouth, her in-laws would definitely give in. Bao Xian will only listen to his parents. She didn't want her marriage to fall apart in the compromise between Bao Xian and her parents again and again.
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