It is said that marriage is a woman's second reincarnation, especially for female stars in the entertainment industry.
Many of them choose to marry rich people and enjoy a rich life in one step; some people choose to marry insiders, and the couple combines their swords and fight for their careers together.
But there are also people who choose to marry foreigners, especially in the 1980s and 1990s, and marrying a foreigner is a matter of pride.
But is transnational marriage really necessarily happy? Looking at several female stars in the entertainment industry who are married to foreign countries, especially actresses who get up early and marry abroad, they basically end up in divorce, which is really their own story and their own bitterness.
1, Hang Tianqi: cheated by foreigners for 30 million
Many young people may not be familiar with Hang Tianqi, but she used to be a singer comparable to Mao Amin and Wei Wei.
She participated in the Youth Song Contest at the age of 22 and debuted with a song "Loess High Slope". Her unique voice and powerful singing style are very recognizable.
Hang Tianqi has been to the Spring Festival Gala 9 times, and she is still the youngest national first-class actor and the first Chinese musician to win the Grammy Album Award.
But Hang Tianqi, who has a career of SF and Shunshui, has constantly planted his head in feelings and marriage.
In 1994, she married her boyfriend of 9 years, a musician, more than a decade older than her.
Hang Tianqi's parents vigorously opposed this mismatched marriage, and even threatened to break off the relationship, but Hang Tianqi was overwhelmed by love and insisted on marrying and having a daughter at the peak of her career.
However, this rebellious marriage only lasted for more than 3 years, and it ended in divorce.
After the divorce, Hang Tianqi took her daughter to a foreign country alone to heal her wounds. Maybe the first marriage hurt her too much, and she urgently needed a relationship to heal the wounds, in this case, she met her foreign boyfriend.
In a foreign country, a handsome Prince Charming suddenly appeared and greeted her with a cold greeting, and Hang Tianqi soon fell into the romantic and gentle trap of her foreign boyfriend.
Hang Tianqi was confused by the sweet words of her foreign boyfriend and put her hard-earned 30 million yuan of property under the name of the other party.
She thought that she had met the prince who saved her in a foreign country, but she did not expect that the other party was just a robber who cheated money, and disappeared directly after getting the money. In the end, Hang Tianqi ran out of money and was defrauded of more than 30 million.
It can only be said that Hang Tianqi was confused by the filter of "foreigners", thinking that foreign men are really upright and kind Prince Charming, and they are more in love with their brains, so they will be easily deceived.
2. Wei Wei: Domestic violence by foreigners
Compared with Hang Tianqi, Wei Wei is a real Diva singer, and her masterpieces "Dedication of Love" and "Asian Majestic Wind" are well-known and once popular.
Wei Wei's career is booming, and his relationship is also very colorful. She first talked about a relationship with Fu Disheng, and the relationship between strong women and weak men was full of contradictions, and the two parted ways.
After that, Wei Wei and the cross-talk master Hou Yaowen spread a scandal, but the other party had a wife and a son, and Wei Wei was killed for this and was scolded for a long time.
Probably as a diva-level singer, falling in love with men in the domestic circle, the other party can not avoid being labeled as "eating soft rice", and Wei Wei chose to fall in love with foreigners later.
The other party is the Swedish pianist Michael Smith, 25 years older than Wei Wei, but Wei Wei does not care about the criticism of the outside world, insisting on marrying the 56-year-old Michael at the age of 31.
After marriage, Wei Wei gave up his career in China, settled in Sweden with Michael, and soon gave birth to 3 sons in a row within 4 years. Having children in a short period of time, how to see in this transnational marriage, Wei Wei is a little too humble.
At that time, Wei Wei's transnational marriage has always been synonymous with happiness in the minds of the public. "GOOD Good Housewife" magazine said that although Wei Wei gave up her career, she gained a happy and happy family, calling her a woman with great wisdom.
But in fact, soon after marriage, Wei Wei and Michael gradually had contradictions because of their cultural background, living habits, beliefs and ideas.
However, Wei Wei, as a celebrity, could not easily marry a foreigner, and when he first married, he was so beautiful that he could only have bitterness to swallow. Plus there are 3 sons, Wei Wei can only endure for the sake of the children.
But Michael's long-term domestic violence against Wei Wei made her really unbearable and decided to divorce. However, cross-border marriage and divorce are not easy, michael uses the advantage, threatens her, imprisons her, and holds her passport, leaving Wei Wei with nowhere to escape.
Later, Wei Wei did not care about the face problem, took the initiative to expose his family ugliness to the outside world, filed a lawsuit against Michael, and fought a long lawsuit with the other party.
Sixty or seventy-year-old Michael did not want to face to let Wei Wei pay him alimony after divorce, it can be seen that in this marriage, foreigners have a lot of heart, and they have been eating soft rice, Wei Wei is difficult enough.
It was not until 2007 that Wei Weicai "fled" back to China with his wounds and three sons.
3, tranquility: abandoned by the mother-in-law
Compared with the first two, the well-known actor's quiet transnational marriage is similar to the reason for the breakdown of ordinary people's marriages.
Serenity met her American husband, Paul Kizer, while filming Red River Valley. The two can be regarded as having an affair because of the drama, and they are also considered to be flash marriage, and in the second year of their acquaintance, Serenity married to the United States.
Tranquility and her husband Paul are the same actors, the two have a lot of common topics, at first the two are sweet and sweet, but over time, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law makes Tranquility unbearable.
When Serenity first met her mother-in-law, the two sides became suspicious because of cultural differences.
When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law met for the first time, perhaps to express their affection, or they wanted to show off the superiority of the Americans in front of their daughter-in-law, Paul's mother said to Serenity:
"We have more than six thousand acres of land in our family, and you are newly married, as long as it is within my reach, what gift do you want to get?"
According to the marriage customs of the Chinese people, Tranquility proposed to want a house. This is very normal in China, when getting married, the man's family generally has to prepare a house and other large things.
But in Paul's mother's view, Serenity is a gold worshipper, and the lion opens her mouth widely, and spending time with her son is for money, so she has a bad impression of Serenity.
After marriage, Tranquility gave birth to a son, and in transnational marriage, the differences between the husband and wife on the issue of children's education are inevitably encountered by Tranquility.
For example, once her son, who had just learned to walk, fell down and cried, but her in-laws turned a blind eye, which made her very distressed.
Serenity returned to work after marriage, hoping that her mother-in-law would help with the children, but was rejected by one mouth, saying that Americans do not have such customs.
Serenity also offers to let his parents help with the children, but Paul believes that he is pushing the responsibility to the elders and asks Serenity to take the children herself, and the contradiction arises.
After such a long time, the transnational couple finally decided to separate due to the increasing number of ideological differences caused by cultural differences.
In fact, Tranquility is still a bit beautified by saying this, probably the fact that the mother-in-law as an American has always looked down on Tranquility, has always looked up to her daughter-in-law, this invisible discrimination, so that Tranquility can't stand it, only to divorce.
4, Yuan Li: Marriage is like a child's play
Yuan Li has starred in "Never Look Away" and "Iron Tooth Copper Tooth Ji Xiaolan", and his acting skills have always been good, and he seems to be a very reliable actor. But her marital experience felt like a game no matter how it looked.
Yuan Li's first marriage was a flash marriage, and the second time was the same. In July 2011, she met Canadian Bowen Lin, and in November the two married, and after four months of acquaintance, they were flash-married.
For Lin Bowen, the outside world does not know much, but this transnational marriage, Yuan Li seems to have a very sad life, and it is said that a child was lost in the middle and was also abused by the family.
After Yuan Li admitted to the divorce in 15 years, he had a bad impression of this ex-husband, and the two seemed to tear each other apart for a while, Yuan Li even said bluntly: "After marrying foreigners, I know how good Chinese men are." ”
Yuan Li's several marriages seem to be not very happy, which should have something to do with her personality, although she dares to love and hate, but she is still too playful about feelings and marriage, not serious enough.
Fifth, Lu Yu, Maggie Cheung, their transnational marriage also failed
After breaking up with his first love, the host Lu Yu went to the United States to study and met her foreign husband.
At that time, Lu Yu was deeply hurt by the previous relationship, and he did not want to bear a long love, and directly said to the foreigner: "I don't have time to fall in love with you, I want to get married."
As a result, the two divorced after less than a month of acquaintance, but divorced after 4 years.
The cross-border marriage of Maggie Cheung, the queen of the film, is also relatively rash. In 1997, Maggie Cheung fell in love with french director Olivier Assayas, and more than a year later the two married in Paris.
It is reasonable to say that these two people have been in love for more than a year, and they have decided that they should be in a good business when they get married, and as a result, the two divorced just 3 years ago.
In fact, from Hang Tianqi, Wei Wei, to Tranquility, Yuan Li, Lu Yu, and Maggie Cheung, their transnational marriages began a bit hastily and rashly, basically flash marriages.
The risk of flash marriage itself is large, not to mention the transnational marriage with huge differences in cultural and social backgrounds.
Carefully analyzing their marriage, love is certainly part of the reason, but there is also a kind of "filter" for foreigners in it, there is a hormonal impulse.
Until now, many people also feel that marrying a foreigner is a superior thing; many actresses in the entertainment industry also have this "sublime" mentality, thinking that finding a foreign boyfriend or husband will have more face.
However, marriage is not easy, let alone transnational marriage, because of different cultural backgrounds, language customs, living habits, etc., it is even more difficult to maintain.
In short, marriage needs to be cautious, do not be confused by some external identities and factors, do not be confused by a momentary vanity, and let yourself fall into an embarrassing situation.