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This is the story between an octogenarian father and his son who has mania, as well as his wife who suffers from Alzheimer's disease;
Mania, also bipolar disorder, is a type of depression;
Increasingly emerging in today's population;
When the disease is not onset, it seems that everything is normal and nothing is wrong;
And once the disease occurs, emotions will change without warning between extreme hyperactivity and impatience;
Or be able to be excited, excited, and talk endlessly for hours;
Or will be impatient and crazy, have the urge to hit people, show violent tendencies;
It looks different from schizophrenia, but it is not really schizophrenia.
Patients are restricted in their behavior, and even if they seek medical treatment, they will live in restricted wards, and there are isolation measures at the entrances and exits;
Outsiders cannot enter casually, and people inside cannot go out casually;
For people with bipolar disorder who are still capable of acting, dignity and freedom are greatly damaged.
（2）
Jin Xiaoyu of Hangzhou was originally smart and studious, and could easily be admitted to a prestigious university without accident, but he inexplicably suffered from mania and depression in high school, and had to withdraw from school and be admitted to a psychiatric hospital;
Life takes a sharp turn for the worse, and the wrist is lamented;
However, he obtained a self-examination undergraduate degree from the English Department of Zhejiang University by self-study, and taught himself German, Japanese and Spanish;
In more than ten years, he has successfully translated one or two dozen foreign books.
In the process of this change of circumstances, the mother suffered from Almerheimer's disease and needed to be accompanied;
The number of their own seizures is increasing;
Even so, Jin Xiaoyu always insisted on the road of translation and felt his strength from the text;
Because this road is also arranged by his mother for himself, and it is also suitable for himself, he is willing to stick to it.
He was once lamented by those around him as a mentally ill person, so he conquered the eyes of those around him and was called a genius;
The mother has left herself, but her life will continue;
For the future, Jin Xiaoyu is not confused.
（3）
The cruelest thing in the world is to make a gifted person suffer from uncontrollable diseases;
Better not to give him outstanding talent genes;
Let him be born mediocre and leave without accomplishing anything;
Admit that you are mediocre, but in this life.
However, you want beauty;
If you want to lie down comfortably, God's arrangement is the opposite of what you think.
It wants to give you a clever brain, but it deprives you of the right to dominate at will;
The tree wants to be quiet, and the wind does not stop;
It makes you want to stop, and it backfires.
It must make you miserable, one after another, one after another;
Obviously you can be admitted to a prestigious university effortlessly, and there is a golden avenue leading to Rome, which obviously can;
Obviously..., however... ；
Just one step away;
Getting farther and farther away from the good life.
Those who live according to their wishes are happy;
Even though it is difficult, it has the freedom to decide its own destiny.
（4）
Jin Xiaoyu met a pair of parents who had patience and did not abandon themselves;
Did not abandon himself when he dropped out of school and fell behind his peers;
He was extremely fortunate in this;
Reality is not ideal, I am still loved, and using the power of love to awaken the vitality of life is the most beautiful picture in this world.
Jin Xiaoyu's own mind is not stupid, if not sick can be far away from his peers, open the grade;
And even if he suffers from uncontrolled diseases, he still performs no less than most of the normal undergraduate graduates around him;
This is the result of one's own talents, personal persistence, perseverance, encouragement from parents, and correct guidance.
But the last point is the most important;
When life encounters an accident and it backfires, how should I face it?
（5）
Turning bad things into good things requires a process;
When you are hit to the bottom, understand that good things and bad things are not fixed, but dynamically changing;
Good things can turn into bad things, and bad things can also be transformed into positive forces;
Blessings and misfortunes depend on, and misfortunes and blessings are coming;
The worst thing is now, if you insist on it now, the future can only get better and better.
Good luck does not fall from the sky, but cultivates by oneself;
The so-called self-helper Heavenly Help;
Your commitment, focus, persistence, not giving up, not complaining, not throwing a pick, these positive energies will form a subtle magnetic field;
Attract the good, positive energy around you to join and pay attention;
Energy is constantly enhanced, strengthened, integrated, stable;
You start to find yourself getting luckier;
Therefore, in the process of working hard, some opportunities will naturally arise.
The meaning of life is not that you are always smooth and never have a problem;
Rather, in the face of bad luck, he did not give up;
There was a problem, and I solved it myself;
In the end, I stood on a higher place.
Believe in your own power;
Maybe Jin Xiaoyu has a natural ability to learn; if the qualifications are mediocre, can he still get the current results?
He may not be able to excel in the field of translation, but he will also learn a skill in other areas;
He may not be able to reach the heights of book publishing, but he can still prove himself.
Let the life force be released in order to witness the miracle;
And this strength of faith and determination comes from the warmth, love, recognition and support emanating from the original family, nourishing the seeds of life, growing in a fertile land, and finally blossoming the flower of the heart;
This is the ego, the underlying system of each person;
You believe that you can;
If you don't believe it, you can never.
(Author: Han Feng, MBA of East China Normal University/ Lyon Business School, Lyon Business School, European and American enterprise human resources director, if you read this article want to tell me your ideas, welcome to leave a message to me)