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This world is full of temptations, many people like to be greedy and cheap, thinking that this is nothing, but they do not know that greedy and cheap, will really suffer big losses, and even get serious punishment.
Greedy and cheap people, may have some achievements for the time being, but after a long time, everything will be too late, and when you understand it, you will lose a lot, and regret is too late.
Many things, what is yours is yours, what is not yours is not yours, there is no need to force it.
As long as it is not yours, you must restrain your desires and cannot take it casually.
Even in the eyes of others, you can't take something that is particularly unimportant, because it's not yours, and taking it will only hurt yourself.
Through whether a person is greedy and cheap, we can see his character, greedy and cheap people, basically people with bad character.
It is difficult for such a person to gain a foothold in society.
01: People who take advantage of others will suffer big losses sooner or later
What kind of people will take advantage?
These people, on the surface, are particularly sophisticated, and if they hadn't taken advantage of them and been discovered, you wouldn't have believed that they did it.
He thinks he's smart, he thinks everyone in the world is inferior to himself, and in fact, that's the biggest fool.
It's ridiculous to see a story on the Internet.
This story is about greed and cheapness, and it will suffer losses.
At the market, there was a girl who sold lotus roots, and her lotus was cheaper than other people's houses, and the reason why it was cheap was because her lotus was replaced by a radish.
Use a drill to punch the radish with the eye, and it becomes a lotus root.
Soon a middle-aged man came over and said to the girl:
"Your lotus root is really delicious, it's different from other people's, you give me another 10 pounds?"
After the middle-aged man finished speaking, the girl whispered, she couldn't imagine that there was such a stupid person in this world, so she smiled and said yes, let him go to the market first, and she immediately went to get it.
In fact, she went to punch the radish.
After getting the lotus root, the middle-aged man said:
"Your lotus root is really delicious and cheap, and I'll come back next time."
The girl thought that the middle-aged man was joking, after all, it was impossible to distinguish between radish and lotus.
But unexpectedly, the middle-aged man really came again, this time he opened his mouth to ask for 100 pounds, the girl was particularly happy after hearing it, and felt that she really met a big fool.
As always, she let the man go shopping first, she immediately prepared, after a toss, she finally got it right, waiting for the middle-aged man to come and get the goods, thinking that today is really making a lot of money.
But she miscalculated, she waited until the next episode, the middle-aged man still did not appear, she finally knew that she was deceived, in vain to 100 pounds of radish holes.
Of course, this is just a story, in reality, there is a big difference between radish and lotus, but it shows a problem, if the girl does not make a profit at the beginning, she will naturally not suffer losses later.
When she set up the stall, some people bought it home and thought it was different, but after all, there was very little money.
But this middle-aged man is different, he first asked for 10 pounds again, gained the trust of the other party, and then enlarged the move later.
Supposedly, middle-aged people should not be able to deceive girls, but why are they still deceived?
Because, from the very beginning, she wanted to take advantage, and a person who wanted to take advantage of her mind did not have any judgment.
If girls had operated with integrity from the start, would there have been such an outcome?
All she did was lift a stone and drop it on her own feet.
02: People who don't take advantage of it can go further
Never feel that others are dumber than you, they are not actually stupid, just good character.
They don't take advantage of others, because they want to be at ease, and those who only want to take advantage of them are often afraid that one day when they are discovered, they will be finished.
To be honest, even if such people develop well at the beginning, people will naturally turn away from them as they meet people in the future.
Those who never take advantage of each other may not develop well at the beginning, but with their sincere treatment, they are naturally welcome.
Friend Liang Yu is a person who does not take advantage.
Some time ago, he was promoted to supervisor in the unit, and if he wanted to take advantage, then the position of supervisor was not his.
Here's the thing:
The company leader hesitated to promote Liang Yu and another person, and finally decided to do a test to see who was more qualified for the position of supervisor.
When paying the salary, they deliberately sent 500 yuan more to the two people's salary cards, and after finding that their cards had more money, Liang Yu immediately explained the situation to the finances.
But the other man did not, and not only did he not give feedback to the finances, but he was complacent.
That's it, a simple test, let the company's leadership see clearly, Liang Yu and the other side of the low what kind of people, but also know who is more qualified for this position.
If the other party does not want to take advantage of the small, how can it suffer losses?
In this world, everything is relative, and when you take advantage of a small advantage, you should think that you will suffer losses.
Even if there is no loss for the time being, it does not mean that there will be no loss in the future.
Born as a human being, don't always think about taking advantage of small things, there are more people in this world than we are smarter, many things are not that they do not see, but they know that this is a small bargain, a trap, can not be touched.
I remember that one spring evening, there was such a sketch, a house sold at a sales office had a problem with water leakage, and the owner frequently reflected it, but he did not get a reply.
Later, a man came and bought three such houses as soon as he came up, and even if the owner next to him persuaded him that the house was leaking seriously, he would not listen.
Instead, he said that he was looking for this kind of house, and he said that he was pouring seafood.
At this time, the people at the sales office also followed suit, since people are willing to buy, don't let the owners worry.
However, when it was time to sign the formalities and pay the money, the person who bought the house directly revealed his identity, he was in the housing quality inspection department.
At that time, the people in the sales office were all dumbfounded, and they did not expect that the other party actually checked the quality of the house.
You see, I thought I met a big fool, bought three sets of houses with serious water leakage in one go, and as a result, after I personally admitted that the house was leaking seriously, the other party turned out to be the quality inspection department.
Don't always think that pie will fall from the sky, the pie you think is probably a trap that others have already dug, and they are quietly waiting for you to cast a net.
For example, how many people have successfully received the cash activity of pulling people on a certain number of people?
If, at that time, you did not choose to take advantage of that little advantage, wouldn't you not be deceived?
So, in the days to come, I hope you straighten yourself out and don't always think about taking advantage.
Because, the person who takes advantage, after a long time, everyone will see him as a person, even if there is a good opportunity, they are not willing to share it with him, and it will be too late to regret it.
Being a person, doing things, and getting what you share is enough, and what others give more, you must get a reply from the other party, and then decide whether to receive it.
Don't treat others as fools, maybe, others are just watching you stupid!
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