Recently, an incident about a man in a long-distance relationship who bumped into his girlfriend and opened a room with the opposite sex caused an uproar. The man angrily asked to break up on the spot, but the woman took it calmly and took the opportunity to push back. The breakup negotiations between the two were eventually intervened by a professional mediator and a peaceful breakup agreement was successfully reached. This article will reveal in detail this ridiculous emotional dispute for you, and analyze the collision of marriage concepts behind it.
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It is understood that the man Xiao Li and the woman Xiao Ling are a long-distance couple. Xiao Li has been in the field for a long time due to work reasons, and the opportunity for the two to get together is already rare, and this reunion has unexpectedly become a drama comparable to a confession show.
On the day Xiao Li returned to his girlfriend's city, he stumbled upon a photo of Xiao Ling and another man in his arms, and after further investigation, he found that they had opened a room in the same hotel. In anger, Xiao Li immediately proposed to break up, and asked Xiao Ling loudly why he betrayed him so much.
However, Xiao Ling did not lose her temper because of this, she calmly responded: "We have never been married, we have not signed any binding contracts, what kind of green is it if we are not married?
After the incident, both parties were emotionally in a state of extreme tension and anxiety. In order to avoid further deterioration of the situation, they decided to seek the help of a professional mediator with the goal of a peaceful breakup.
After some patient listening and careful analysis, the professional mediator found that the core of the couple's breakup dispute was not the gender relationship, but the misunderstanding caused by the difference in marital concepts. Under the guidance of the mediator, the man and woman started an in-depth dialogue about the concept of marriage.
They are aware of the differences in their attitudes towards marriage: Xiao Li believes that a long-distance relationship is a kind of commitment, and his girlfriend should be absolutely loyal in his heart, while Xiao Ling believes that there are no constraints and responsibilities without marriage, and she believes that it is normal for the two to share the pressure of life and maintain personal space under the premise of mutual respect.
After repeated communication, the man and woman gradually understood each other's views, and finally reached a consensus: since there are differences in each other's marriage concepts and cannot be agreed, then breaking up peacefully is their best choice.
With the assistance of a professional mediator, the parties clarified the economic accounts and property ownership, and determined the responsibilities and obligations after the breakup. They decide to end the emotional entanglement between them with respect and understanding and continue to pursue a happy life separately.