If Anna in "Anna Karenina" is charming, simple, and elegant, then there is another lady who makes people feel cute and respectable, that is, Ji Di.
Ji Di does not have Anna's beauty, but Te has the transparency and open-mindedness that Anna does not have, she has been hurt, and she has been devastated, but she has finally embarked on the road of happiness.
Tolsten is eccentric, and it seems that the main line is Anna and Vronsky, but in my opinion the real main line is Gidi and Levin.
Tolsten favored Ji Di, not giving her Anna's appearance, but giving her a lifetime of wisdom.
Anna is simple and kind, while Ji Di is self-respecting and self-loving.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="5" > is always tempted by the appearance of nothingness when they are young</h1>
Ji Di is beautiful and simple, just like you and me in the girlhood, and we can't tell whether the so-called real like or fake ambiguity.
Vronsky in any man's girlhood would undoubtedly be tempted.
Young, handsome, born of nobility, dressed in a military uniform, the future is also bright.
But what Ji Di doesn't know is that he is just very good at this kind of ambiguous game between men and women, and has not really thought about who to marry, which may also be the root of Anna's tragedy.
As the book says:
After experiencing the extravagant and debauched life of Petersburg, he had his first taste of the pleasure of approaching the same pure and lovely high-society girl who was devoted to him in Moscow. He had no idea that his proximity to Ji Di would have any adverse consequences. At the ball, he mostly danced with her; he was often in and out of her house. What he talked to her about was nothing more than the kind of nonsense that was popular in the social scene, but when he said it, he often couldn't help but add something that made her feel ulterior. Even though he hadn't said anything to her that he couldn't say in front of someone else, he felt her growing attachment to him. The more he felt this, the happier he became, and the more gentle and considerate he became to her. He didn't know that he had a special name for ji di's behavior, called "seducing a girl without wanting to get married", and this kind of behavior was the common sin of a dancing teenager like him. He felt that this was the first time he had tasted such fun, so he enjoyed it.
There are people who use the wind as a game, and even indulge in it, never considering the consequences.
To put it another way, everyone needs to grow, and Vronsky's appearance is to teach Ji Di a lesson, a boudoir who does not go out of the door, the pearl in the palm of his parents, and needs a blow to grow.
It seems that the worst is not necessarily the worst in the end, and Ji Di's happiness comes from crossing a river of love.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="19" > self-esteem and self-love, you will be loved</h1>
Anna's appearance, Vronsky's snub, for Ji Di can be said to be disgraceful.
She was chafed, ashamed, and even felt that she could not continue her life.
Fortunately, after a serious illness, after the spa recuperation, everything was in the dark.
Because Ji Di knew that life would go on, and if it kept sinking, the door of life would never open to her, and Vronsky would not turn back.
She doesn't give up everything she's learned, but understands that she wants to live as she wishes, and that that's just self-deception. She seemed to wake up suddenly, and felt how difficult it would be not to pretend, not to tell lies, and to maintain her ideal spiritual realm.
After a long lost love, Ji Di has gradually grown up, she is no longer the bright girl, but she has a calm heart.
Love is sometimes very dismissive, but I have to admit that everyone's growth is indispensable to the acceptance of love.
Love makes people grow. Some things are hard to look back on, but please don't run away. We should learn from it, not accumulate pain. Love is like this, some people get it and some people lose it, and no one can do it evenly, because there is always one person you love deeply, and there is always one person you love shallowly.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="31" > if you bloom, loved ones will naturally come to you</h1>
Compared to Vronsky's debauchery, even though he loved Anna, he still couldn't.
In contrast, Levin is cute and simple, and even in the face of his love enemy Vronsky, he does not think to denigrate him.
but:
Some people, as soon as they encounter a lover who is lucky in a certain way, immediately erase all his strengths and see only his shortcomings; but some people are just the opposite, they most hope to find in this lucky enemy that they are better than themselves, and they can bear the sharp pain of their hearts and blindly find each other's strengths. Levin belongs to the latter category.
Levin liked Ji Di so much that he felt that Ji Di was a fairy, and he passed by badly, and the appearance of Vronsky made him deeply inferior.
Ji Di rejected his marriage proposal, but he still loved Ji Di.
Levin is purely spiritual, so only he can understand Anna's spiritual needs, and only he understands the irreplaceability of Ji Di.
Ji Di matured, so every time she said and acted like a surprise to Levin.
Ji Di, who has been tempered, is more attractive than before, so Levin proposes to her again.
She knew that only Levin was true to her, and that even after marriage she would suffer the nature of marriage for this reason.
But Ji Di used his warmth and kindness to dissolve the knots in Levin's heart.
Every mistake made when you were young was an attempt, and every leap was a growth.
If the water wants to flow farther, it also needs to fill the gully to move on.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="51" > summary</h1>
Character determines fate, and Ji Di is more open-minded than Anna's more authentic and pure.
Like the opening sentence of the book:
"If I am wronged, I will repay it."
Karmic reincarnation, whatever fruit you plant, you will get, without exception.
Only those who are humble and stop losses in time can find happiness.