As the saying goes, "marriage is the destiny of women", in the hearts of many people, marriage is like a solemn and inviolable palace, since ancient times, once a woman enters marriage, it is like giving the second half of her life to be delivered.
With the progress of the times, the phenomenon of divorce is also increasing, marriage has become an experiment in life, it seems that the mistake is found in advance and there is a chance to start over, the so-called love is just the product of dopamine in the moment of excitement, triggering the feeling of love and love.
The feeling of love often fades with the passage of time, and the saying "seven-year itch" says that many people struggle to survive even a year, let alone seven years.
In 1988, Diana, known as the peerless princess, visited Thailand, and the king of Thailand at that time did not allow his wife to appear in front of the camera because he felt that she was fat, which was undoubtedly a deep humiliation for Concubine Song.
Interestingly, Diana had a similar encounter with Princess Sonsawali.
The fate of Songsawali
Coming from a prestigious family, her father was a well-known judge in Chiang Mai Province, and her mother was also of noble blood and was related to Queen Sirikit.
In her childhood, she was a beautiful and intelligent star, spending most of her time in Europe in the gentle and elegant surroundings of Europe by her father's side. Later, with her father's job transfer, she eventually returned to Thailand with her family.
When the male is married and the female is married, when she enters the threshold of marriage, her parents' arrangement leads her to the side of her cousin, Crown Prince Maha Vajiralongkorn.
Although the two have known each other since childhood, the emotional world is an unexplored wasteland, and this marriage is undoubtedly a drama on the political stage.
On January 3, 1977, it was a festive day when the two walked hand in hand into the palace of marriage, and in an atmosphere of joy, King Bhumibol happily announced that he would crown Songsawali as his concubine, signifying his noble status.
After marriage, the two respect each other like guests, but this noble love always seems to lack a bit of true love, in the eyes of the outside world, this marriage is a good couple of equal strength, but in fact, behind the relationship is constant disputes.
In the first year of their marriage, the couple was able to maintain a semblance of harmony in public, although it was not like glue, but at least they were able to maintain a semblance of mutual respect, and everyone was expecting Songsawali to give birth to an heir to the throne as soon as possible.
It's a pity that she had a miscarriage during her first birth, and Maha was indifferent to it, and even entangled with other women outside during the period.
In her second year in the royal family, Princess Sonsavali has added a beautiful princess to the royal family, namely Pacharajitiyapa.
It was also in that year that Maha fell into the peachy news and fell in love with an actress named Yuva Wanta, and also asked Sonsawali for divorce.
Sonsawali is not easy to deal with, and she may tolerate infidelity when her husband is looking for a woman outside, but she is adamantly unwilling to give in to divorce, and the reason is very simple.
His quest for power and status is determined, and he is expected to be a candidate for the queen of Thailand if he persists, even though expectations for marriage and love are long gone.
But members of the royal family sided with Songsawali and persuaded Maha not to act impulsively, but the more he was dissuaded, the more extreme Maha's behavior became.
He lived with Yuvadida for nearly eight years and rarely returned home, during which time he gave birth to four sons and a daughter.
It was a poignant experience for the young Sonsavali, who, despite her position as a princess, was unable to prevent her husband from having children with other women and was left out in the cold.
Sadness and loss plagued Songsawali, and she began to overeat to relieve her boredom, and her body gradually became plump. This change deepens Maha's dislike for her, and Songsawali's situation becomes more and more difficult.
Songsawali's embarrassment
On the legendary February of 1988, Britain's Prince Charles and his wife Diana set foot on Thai soil, but the visit inadvertently highlighted an unspeakable contradiction between Maha and Songsawali.
The visit of Prince Charles and Diana caused a great sensation in Thailand, and the Thai royal family received the two of them with the highest standard, and the main leaders were Crown Prince Maha and Princess Sirindhorn.
In a confusing scene, Maha and Songsawali's marriage has not yet come to an end, and according to international etiquette and family honor, it should have been present at this event, unless due to some special reasons of illness and inability to attend.
The fact is that Maha issued a shocking ban to prevent Songsawali from coming out, and the reason was also ridiculous to the point that he was worried that his wife's change in figure and the radiant Princess Diana would damage his face, and to put it bluntly, he felt ashamed.
At that time, Diana was worthy of the title of "the most beautiful princess in Britain", wearing a floral dress with a charming temperament, and her graceful figure was undoubtedly revealed.
Sonsawali was helpless about such a result, but she could only choose to accept it gloomily...... In 1991, Vajiralongkorn announced the end of a marriage based on a political covenant based on an irreconcilable rift with Songsawali.
With her noble background and royal blood, even if she loses the favor of Vajiralongkorn and the title of Crown Princess, she can still win the respect of King Bhumibol of Thailand.
Bhumibol personally gave her the honorable title of "Mother Yi", and her beloved daughter Princess Pachala was able to live within the palace walls and continue to enjoy the glory and treatment of the royal family.
Time flies, and now Sonsawali has suffered a stroke due to weight gain, and her face is distorted, and she has to rely on a wheelchair and rely on others for her movements.
In the depths of her heart, the threshold that she was not allowed to cross was still a painful imprint, and whenever she remembered that Diana had been denied an appearance for too much, endless sorrow still swelled in her heart.
In fact, Princess Diana's fate is strikingly similar to hers, because she is free to love and is trapped in the royal family, and her husband's alienation and indifference make their dreams of marriage come to naught, and they feel depressed and lonely.
Sonsawali's fate can still find a trace of tenderness in the vicissitudes of life, but the fate of Diana, who was born in a commoner, is very bleak.
Diana was in the same situation as Sonsawali
Although Princess Diana has been away from us for nearly 30 years, her peerless beauty, compassion, and tragic life are still talked about.
has left an indelible mark in the hearts of countless people, and will always be the most beloved princess. She is a beautiful scenery of the British royal family, combining noble bloodlines with fashion trends, creating a new royal fashion.
Looking back on the trajectory of her life, it seems that from the moment she met Prince Charles, the tragedy of fate has been quietly laid out.
Before meeting Diana, the 30-year-old Prince Charles had an in-depth discussion with three women about marriage, especially his feelings for Camilla.
None of these three women met the British royal family's requirements for a "noble virgin" princess, and Prince Charles was alone for a long time, becoming a so-called "single aristocrat".
Faced with the choice between love and the throne, Prince Charles once revealed his heart to the media: "You must understand that I will eventually become a king, and my wife will become the queen of the United Kingdom, so you must be careful when choosing a partner." ”
From these words, it is not difficult to see that in Charles's heart, love and the weight of the throne are different, and the latter is high. Prince Charles is in his thirties, and as the heir to the throne, marriage has naturally become an urgent issue in the court.
At this time, he met Diana, and in Diana's innocent eyes, Charles was like a god descending on dignity and unreachable. However, the so-called "love magic" and "fate arrangement" are nothing more than his elaborate design.
After thirteen meetings in a hurry, Diana handed over her future to Prince Charles, this marriage seems to be the fairy tale ending that every girl dreams of, but she doesn't know that there are countless hardships and abysses hidden behind it.
Diana once described her time in love as if she was in a sweet place, surrounded by gorgeous but slightly illusory landscapes. It was only after many years that I deeply realized that although the grand wedding was a well-choreographed script, love could not be designed.
Stepping into the royal family, life may seem glamorous on the surface, but behind it lies countless sacrifices, Diana must learn to observe more red tape, and the days are surrounded by flashing lights.
On July 29, 1981, Prince Charles and Diana's wedding came as scheduled, and it was a royal feast that was both lavish and dreamy.
After marriage, Diana soon unveiled an unknown court veil, and Charles's relationship with Camilla was still entangled, which became the first emotional storm she encountered in her life journey.
Diana was helpless and didn't know what to do, and tried to make her husband change his mind, but the other party categorically refused, making it clear that she did not want to be the Prince of Wales without a mistress.
In desperation, Diana sought refuge from the Queen and Prince Philip, but to her surprise, the two noble elders did not give her the support she expected, but sided with Prince Charles.
Prince Philip even hinted that marriage could come to an end if necessary.
At this time, Diana deeply felt the weight of the phrase "the imperial family is the most ruthless", and the Scottish sheriff's hint was very obvious at this moment: behind the glory of the royal family was hidden unknown indifference and hardship.
In the indifference of her husband and the isolation of the royal family, Diana's feelings began to drift, pinning her heart on extramarital feelings, and these emotional paths were also full of thorns.
The news that some people betrayed her for money, the pain and sorrow in Diana's heart are self-evident, and they have become an indelible stroke in the tragic fate.
During her eight or nine years of spiritual journey, Diana seemed to be looking for a way out of the fog, during which she tried to escape from her misery by suicide four times, and was also plagued by depression, anorexia and gluttony, and her marriage finally broke down and ended in divorce.
The haze of divorce has not yet dissipated, and Diana's fate has suffered a fatal blow, and she died in a car accident in Paris, France, on a bleak night in August 1997.
Rumors of Diana's death have been circulating, and some conspiracy theorists have speculated that the royal family may have been involved in the tragedy because Diana's love affair with Dodi was not accepted by the British royal family......
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