Many times, if we put too much energy on one person, we will lose ourselves and cause pressure on each other.
A man who really cares about you will know how to find you when he is busy, rather than you taking the initiative to contact and disturb, such a relationship will not last long.
Smart and confident women, know how to run, never call men when there is nothing to do.
01, love someone, you can feel it
Many times, your repeated active contact will cause trouble to the other party and make him feel bored. Men are more active animals, and they will take the initiative when they encounter their beloved.
If there is no initiative for you, it means that there is no idea about you, and your initiative will make him value himself more, and vice versa.
A man loves you, naturally not busy will want to contact you, if he is busy, you disturb him is not interesting. After all, if you really love someone, you can feel it.
02, people who really love you will take the initiative to contact you
A man who truly loves you will take the initiative to contact you, in fact, in love, not only women will want to cling to people, men will also want to be favored by the people they love, and they will also want to contact you every moment.
Therefore, women should also have egos in their feelings, and do not blindly pounce on a person's heart.
If a person loves you, he will naturally take you to heart.
Women should know how to enrich themselves and make themselves better, so that the other party will cherish you more, and excessive dependence on each other will only ruin the love between you.
03, women, the most need to learn is independent, in order to have the courage to fight with his forces
For men's minds, many times women do not know how the other party thinks, so they become hesitant in their feelings, and want to know each other's ideas, and they are afraid that after knowing each other's thoughts, they will only make themselves sad, in fact, this is more of a lack of confidence in themselves.
To know such things as feelings, it is not enough to rely on the efforts of one person. Women must know how to stop at the right time, but also know how to give each other space distance.
Don't complain to a man when you have grievances, if he understands you, he will naturally come to comfort you.
Don't have a difficult matter, just find a man to help, if he has you in his heart, he doesn't need you to say it, it will naturally help you solve it.
What women need to learn most is self-independence, only when they are independent, they will become confident and have the courage to compete with him.
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