Hear your child's first cry outside the delivery room? What was your first thought?
Mother and child must be safe!
Boys, girls?
Still is
It must be a boy!
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"To have a child must be a boy", "I must have a son", from ancient times to the present, some people have always had this idea. Even today, there are still some old people and even young people who prefer sons to daughters.
So why do they have such thoughts?
When the daughter grows up, she will eventually marry, and after marriage, there will be only two parents left, and who can she rely on when she is old? The old saying has always been saying "raising children to prevent aging", when the son is old, he can let himself have a dependence, and he can give himself a pension to send him to the end.
But is that really the case sometimes? Does a daughter have to be an adoptive parent? Will a son necessarily adopt his parents? In the editor's view, this is all unknown, this is never absolute, and has all aspects of the impact.
Now netizens joke that the son is "Construction Bank" The daughter is "China Merchants Bank", and now some people are more inclined to have girls, compared to boys, girls are more intimate. At present, some people say that giving birth to a son is equivalent to giving birth to an enemy, and it is possible to bring an enemy in the future, but giving birth to a daughter is equivalent to giving birth to a relative.
Now having a son is equivalent to having a "time bomb", and now the high dowry and expensive house price make many people miserable. But when the parents are old, the son is the pillar of the family, supporting everything in the family, and the parents can also get physical and psychological relaxation. Can't see you hard, can't see you hurt, can't see you lonely, even you frown, he will feel pain, this kind of love is called son. I don't know that once they warm up, they can also make people's noses sour.
Parents and children help each other, parents have given everything for us, and we escort our parents when they are old. Whether boys or girls, today's society is an equal and peaceful society, and after the birth of a child, the most important thing is to have a healthy body and be able to live happily.