There are certain skills in intersex communication, but different people have different ways of communicating, and the opposite sex must look at each other's topics and each other's needs, and then speak. After the skills are done, after we have determined that both parties have the necessary similarities, this complementary need will become a hammer of the sharp key, firmly nailing you and the lover together into a good marriage. 6 tips for getting along between the sexes, no harm try these small changes, let the love between the two heat up!
1. Learn to tolerate trust.
Because of the social environment in which they live, the teachings they receive are different, resulting in differences in human personality. When we encounter something unhappy, we express it in words or actions. As the other half, what you can do is to learn to listen, learn to tolerate, let her (him) feel the warmth you give, so that the feelings will increase.
2, always remember the other party's good, do not be angry about the other party's bad.
There are contradictions in life, to discuss things, can not be a quarrel on the front account, the day's things are resolved on the same day, the so-called bedside fight bed and tail, both sides must have one party to tolerate, temporarily stabilize the uncontrollable situation, and then calm down the next day to solve it calmly, one side to tolerate is the tip key 3, the two people must have mutual praise and each other's sharp heart
At work or in life, give each other strong support, do not affect each other's work, life for each other to consider, from the other side's point of view to consider the problem, praise each other, a classic article in Carnegie training once had such a sentence: "Applause can make a duck with one foot become two feet." A warm and sincere compliment can make the other party feel that their efforts are affirmed, just like playing chicken blood, no matter how tired it is worth it. The life of the two people will not be too bland and boring, after the bland and boring may inadvertently create some troubles and contradictions · To avoid similar tragedies, both sides try to create a little surprise to each other, on the one hand, show a very emotional tone, do not lose the love experience of the year, on the other hand, will also find out what the other party likes recently, what is sharp, so as to create surprises and enhance the harmony of the feelings of both husband and wife.
5, often communicate, more talk, less closed
Whether it is difficulties or displeasure in life or work, we must talk to each other, open our hearts, and do not suppress ourselves alone, which is the beginning of contradictions over time
Don't always use your mother's tone, saying that he is wrong, asking him for trouble, nagging will only make your sharper and worse. Most importantly, he will never be able to accept that it is just a waste of your time and saliva.
Maybe you can change the tone and words to let him know how you feel, and find a tacit understanding of communication between you.
No man wants one more nagging mom, right?
6, do not lose yourself in love
A man doesn't want a partner all the time, and the inability to breathe will only push him farther and farther away.
Didn't you, before you, also have your own life? You still have those old sisters, family and career, and I believe he will not be your only focus.
Happiness is the zero distance between two hearts, but it cleverly preserves each other's space. Try to get your life back, he will like to live a colorful life for you, which can also keep him fresh for you!
Tired of being together to be unable to breathe is not a good thing, try to get back some of the original life!